In this world, many things must not be taken too seriously, otherwise you will find that it is really ridiculous.
Take what many people believe, good people have good rewards.
The reason why most people believe this sentence is because they give themselves a kind of psychological comfort, how many have really verified it?
In fact, in the real society, the old fritters with a little experience know that if you make yourself a good person, you will only be bullied by others for a long time and be cheated even worse.
You can be kind, but you can't let yourself be left with kindness.
Maybe the original intention of the good man is good, but the final result is often not as good as people want.
Why can't you just be a good person?
1. Good people can't have shortcomings.
When I was in school, a classmate who often scored 100 points once scored 99 points, and everyone would say that he had regressed and did not devote all his energy to studying, and even his parents who were a little stricter might start beating directly.
And a student who often scores 50 points in the test, once scored 60 points, he will be praised by his parents, saying that the progress is really too great.
And the good people in life, because they are very perfect in everyone's eyes, cannot have shortcomings, nor can they do bad things.
If you do a little bit of something that disagrees with others, then your previous image will completely change, and even everyone will scold you for being a hypocrite, it turns out that you used to pretend.
And the scum who often does bad things may help the old man cross the road once, but he will be said by people to be a prodigal son, saying that he has changed his mind and should be given a chance to be a new person.
When we watch the TV series, we can also find that the general positive characters, in the 20-episode episodes, may have been bullied for a long time in the first 19 episodes, and in the last episode, the screenwriter forcibly made him counterattack.
And those villains, who may have been as domineering as the uncle in the first 19 episodes, and in the last episode, the protagonist was fatal with one blow.
In this world, there is a paradox, people give the bad guys countless opportunities to mend their ways, while the good guys can't have the slightest stain.
2. Don't think people will appreciate you.
There is an old saying that raises rice to raise benefactors, and fighting rice raises enemies.
When someone else is in the most difficult time, if you give him a steamed bun, he may also be grateful to you in his heart.
And if you have a friend who accepts your help for a long time, even if you eat and drink well every day, it will only make him feel that it is natural and rightful to accept it.
And if one day you stop helping him, it will only break down your relationship, and you may even turn against each other.
Because he thought in his heart, since he had helped him for so long, why couldn't he continue to help?
You tell him that there are people who need more help.
Then he will immediately scold you again, since you can help others, why can't you help him anymore?
You see, don't say that others are grateful for your help, but you are being kidnapped by their invisible morality.
To do anything, there is a degree.
Those good people may not have figured this out, thinking that unlimited help can make others feel good, but they forget that this will only make people gain an inch.
3. The multi-faceted nature of people.
As we grow older, we may find that in fact, in this world, there are no so-called good and bad people at all.
More often than not, everyone is measured by their own interests.
Those who always ask you to be a good person must not have a simple purpose behind it.
They just want you to rush to the front as cannon fodder to achieve their own goals.
Everyone is mortal, and some people are exalted as gods, and that also has a specific mission.
If you don't understand this, when a specific mission is completed, there is no one there in your eyes, and you think that you are the best, then you will soon be demonized by people and rubbed on the ground.
The one that everyone feels the most may be Mr. Ma.
When it was beautiful, even many foreign leaders had to sit on an equal footing with him.
But as the saying goes, heaven and earth are all working together, and heroes are not free.
When the aura is lost, even the same person will be treated as a street rat, and everyone will shout and beat.
A general, who usually turns a blind eye to the training of soldiers, naturally many people will be lazy, so after going to the battlefield, he can only become cannon fodder.
It seems that it is usually good for you, but in the end it kills you.
Sometimes, what you think is a good person is not necessarily good.
What looks like a bad guy may not necessarily be really bad.
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