Recently, I saw such a private message in the background:
"My boyfriend recently watched a certain news and suggested that I was pregnant and had to take a paternity test, should I break up? ”
The thing that men are most afraid of in a relationship is that love is like a light, and the green heart is panicked.
It's miserable enough to wear a green hat on your head, and even the child is not your own, how sad it is.
After pregnancy, do you do a paternity test? We interviewed 50 women to hear what they thought.
@赵盼儿
The paternity test, if it were me, would be perfectly acceptable.
If my boyfriend proposes to do it, then I'll do it together.
If he asks me to do it, then I'll let him do it, everyone checks on each other, and no one wants to escape.
However, when I'm done, I'll try to give him a little bit of security and let him know that I'm not the kind of person who would lie to him.
Of course, that's another story.
The most important thing is to see how the relationship between the two of us is.
If the relationship is good, then none of this is a problem; If the relationship is not good, no matter what you do, it will be in vain.
Also, every time I hear him say those stupid things, I feel like he needs to be trained.
Don't always wonder if he's a scumbag, it's not good.
Everyone has times when they are stupid, for example, I did something special, and I thought I was a little princess at that time.
Therefore, how life is going depends on how you feel.
@不发朋友圈
I, female, am married and have children.
If the child's father proposes to do a paternity test, I will think it is no big deal, so I will do it together.
To be honest, when it comes to giving birth, I think men are a bit at a loss.
Because the child is born, the mother must be biological.
But not necessarily with Dad, right?
Also, when it comes to paternity testing, I don't think it has much to do with trust.
To be honest, if I hadn't been in a separate delivery room when I gave birth, I was worried that the baby would be held wrong.
So, for me, the paternity test is also a reassuring pill.
If my husband proposes to do it, I won't object, anyway, I have a clear conscience.
Although he is not the kind of super-rich rich man, I don't want him to feel that he is wrong for the time and money he spends on his children.
As a married woman with children, I would not object to a request for a paternity test.
@momo
I don't think there's anything to worry about doing a paternity test.
I did it when I was a child, and it proves that I was born to my parents, and I was right.
At that time, they did this because they were afraid that I would be mistaken by the hospital, and I wondered, why didn't they make me a child of a rich family?
Even if the child is really biological, I am curious about what the results and reports of the paternity test will look like.
Afterwards, I have to think about how to be coquettish with my husband and get some benefits.
However, when it comes to paternity testing, I think it's better to wait until the child is born.
If the child is held wrongly, or when he grows up to doubt his own background, it will be too disturbing.
If this child is not my husband's ......
Hey, people asked me to do a paternity test, it doesn't seem too much.
In this case, in fact, I also want to know who the child's father is.
A paternity test is like a mirror that reflects the complexity of human nature, full of sins and desires.
I've seen a thought-provoking question:"Why do most requests for paternity tests come from men? ”
One of the high praise replied:
"No matter which man the child belongs to, he grows up in a woman's belly.
The child's mother must be pro, but the father is not necessarily pro. ”
This topic is a bit delicate, that is, when a woman's private life is chaotic, men will not trust it.
Therefore, it is normal for women to feel distrusted, after all, men just don't trust you at this time.
As for whether you can accept it or not, it depends on what you can't accept.
Are you worried that after the results of the appraisal come out, the man's attitude towards you will change? Or can't you accept his distrust?
The paternity test, no matter what the result is, will have a big impact on the relationship.
The human heart is the most inscrutable thing in the world.
The effort does not have to be reciprocal, but the respect between lovers and the sincerity of their feelings should be equal.
Finally, a word of advice:Love can be dissolved, marriage can be divorced.
But don't touch itCheatingThis red line, otherwise it will only harm others and yourself!
I hope everyone can harvest a beautiful love and truly love each other.