What is a winner in life? In a broad sense, it means that the strong person in life has reached the peak of happiness, and the economy, family, work and other things are perfect. But as a retired person, the requirements are actually very simple, if the happiness index of life exceeds that of most people around us, then it is a proper winner in life.
After retirement, I think that if we have the following rules, then we will be big winners in life.
Clause. 1. There is a pension, which does not need to be particularly high, about 2,500 yuan per month.
After retirement, there is a pension, monthly on time, can ensure that food and drink do not worry, itself is a very happy thing, if this amount can be about 2500 yuan, basically can ensure that food and clothing are worry-free, generally after we retire, the demand for material is not as strong as before, 2500 yuan can fully support our daily living expenses, and even have a surplus of their own money, no need to reach out to ask others to spend money to live with dignity and confidence.
I have a friend, a monthly pension of 2600 yuan, life is very moist, her wife has not retired, her son has gone to work, and she does not ask for money to spend, she usually does not go out, her monthly living expenses of 1000 yuan can not be used up, the rest of the money she has saved, you can go out to travel once in half a year, now retired for 4 years, also went to a lot of places, life carefree, very happy.
Clause. Second, if you have a deposit, you don't need too much, about 500,000 yuan.
After retirement, in addition to a monthly pension of 2,500 yuan, if you still have a deposit of 500,000 yuan, then life will be more complete, pension to meet the needs of our daily life expenses, deposits can be used when we encounter difficulties, to solve the urgent need, that is to say, pension is a daily need, deposits can be prepared for emergencies, there are deposits in hand, whenever we encounter difficulties, do not drag down the children, you can solve it with your own deposits, and deposits are to a large extent life-saving money. In addition, if our children encounter difficulties and need our help, we can also give them some help appropriately.
Therefore, when we are young, we must make a good plan, we must work hard when we should work hard, we must save money when we should save money, and we must not believe some chicken soup for the soul, saying that we don't need to save money or anything like that.
Clause. 3. Healthy body.
I like this passage in "The Biography of Yang Jiang": "One day, you are brilliant, you must have a good body in order to enjoy life." One day, you are down, and you have to have a good body to make a comeback. Remember, health is not the first, it's the only thing! This is also expensive, that is also expensive, and looking in the mirror is actually the most expensive yourself. ”
Therefore, no matter when, health is the capital of the revolution, for people after retirement, having a healthy body is actually more important, many people in retirement, only 50 years old, the body has a lot of problems, either this pain or that pain, and even many people have high blood pressure, high blood sugar, high blood lipids, coronary heart disease, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, etc., every day have to take medicine on time, very painful, seemingly alive, in fact, every day is sinful, if you retire, the body is still very healthy, If you have no major problems, you can eat and sleep, then you have beaten 80% of the retired elderly and are a proper winner in life. The second half of life is to fight for the body, good health, do not drag down the children, you can enjoy life well, the health is not good, not only suffer yourself, but also affect the children's care, become a burden to the children, and finally be disliked.
Therefore, no matter when, we must take good care of our body, at this point, I envy my mother-in-law, who is now almost 80 years old, is in very good health, there is no major problem, and even the number of colds throughout the year. She just insists on doing exercises every day, and it is not a big action, that is, she rubs all the acupuncture points in her body, and the amount of exercise is not large, but it is important to persevere.
Clause. Fourth, have your own house.
There is an independent house, it does not need to be too big, there is no loan, sixty or seventy square meters is on the line, the house is very important for the elderly, no matter when, there is a house to live in, do not have to worry about living on the street.
Observe you, you will find that many old people who live with their children are actually not happy, young people and old people have different living habits, and living together will always produce such and such contradictions, especially the most difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, more and more elderly people, as long as they can take care of themselves, will live alone, even if their children are very filial, they are not willing to live with their children. If you have your own independent house, don't live with your children, and don't have to accommodate who lives without looking at anyone's face, the sense of happiness will be high, and at the same time, distance will also produce beauty.
Clause. Fifth, there is a caring wife, preferably the original match.
As the saying goes, "young couples come to accompany each other", many couples have ups and downs in the first half of their lives, for life, for their children, and for their livelihoods are busy running, and there is no time to be well accompanied, after retirement, everyone is idle, husband and wife are together, do housework together, go out for a walk together, travel together, serve tea and pour water when sick, shhAlthough the children are very filial, they still often feel lonely is this reason, so if you have a caring wife by your side after retirement, it is very happy, and you must cherish it.
Clause. Sixth, the children's families are happy, filial piety does not gnaw at the old.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, no matter how old the parents are, the most concerned is their children, the children's families are happy, the career is successful, and the parents will be very relieved, but there are many old people, unhappy in their later years because their children's families are not happy, their jobs are unstable, and they have to worry about their children after retirement, and even some children can't support themselves, and they also need their parents to help At this time, many people have to go out to work for their children after retirement, earn money to subsidize their children's lives, if your children's family is happy, If you don't gnaw at the old and are very filial, then you will steal the fun.
Clause. 7. The grandchildren are smart and cute, and they don't need to bring them all the time.
Many people seem to be retired, but in fact, they can't retire at all, just retired here, and the children over there are coming, let them help take care of their grandchildren, and from then on, they will be strong and strong, take care of children, cook, do housework, and be busier than when they go to work, and they can't experience the joy of retirement life at all. If you can enjoy a leisurely life after retirement, and can have the freedom to not need to take care of your children and do housework every day, then your retirement life is more than 50% of retirees.
Clause. 8. Have your own interests and hobbies.
After retirement, you must cultivate a hobby of your own, hobbies are of great benefit to your retirement life, and if you have a hobby, your retirement life will have spiritual sustenance, and you will live a fulfilling life, and you will feel happy when you are full, and people will be less sick if you feel happy. However, cultivating hobbies must be benign hobbies, good hobbies, such as sports, reading, dancing, etc., these are good for physical and mental health, do not play mahjong, drink, etc., these will only harm your health.
Clause. 9. Parents are in good health and can take care of themselves.
When many people retire, their parents are still alive, but at this time, their parents are generally in their eighties, if their parents are healthy and can take care of themselves, you are lucky, if you meet the elderly who can't take care of themselves, then your retirement life is not so easy, because they are not young when they retire, and they may have some small problems with their bodies. Being able to take care of oneself in life is a very happy thing.
Clause. 10. There are three or two confidants.
Friends are not about many, but about fine. After retirement, if there are three or five confidants and friends, two or three are fine, or even even just one, Lu Xun once said, "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." "One is very difficult, but it is even more difficult to have two. Therefore, if you have three or two confidants and friends who can chat together, drink tea together, and share the joys and sorrows of life together, then it will be a great blessing in life.
In fact, after retirement, most people are no longer pursuing wealth and wealth, everyone prefers ordinary happiness, after retirement, you can have the above ten, then you are almost a big winner in life, retired friends, do you agree with my opinion?