Are you happy to grow old? Children are not satisfied with being born in this family!
Is it really a happy thing to grow old? They feel happy and proud, but the children don't want to be born into this family.
In each period, everyone has their own special challenges and their own joys. Experts believe that due to a long-standing agrarian culture and a lack of religion, the desire for "family tradition" is stronger than ever.
In the face of the problem of "no queen", Panzi's heart not only appears in the elderly who are more thoughtful, but also in those young people who are highly educated.
Because of the actual economic strength and the huge pressure brought about by survival, this generation generally sees a child as conforming to the trend of the times. Although the society is becoming more and more enlightened, it is still not easy to have a second child due to the lack of sufficient financial resources and a good family environment.
But it can't be denied that there are still some people who are passionate about reproduction. On the Internet, a mother who is almost 50 years old, although her child is a college graduate, she still decided to have another child. But is it inevitable to be happy when you have children?
In this regard, we can start with the case of Guangxi. In the eyes of many older people, it is really a "singing and crying" thing for such a young man to have a child.
What kind of sacrifice is this to get a new life? The damage inflicted on women by giving birth itself is irreversible. If it is an older pregnancy, then she will have potential problems in physiological, psychological, physiological and other aspects, and the chance of accidents and recovery will also be greatly increased.
Parents may be proud of having children at an older age and be complacent about their "heroic deeds." But, in the eyes of the children, that's a different story.
Let's start by describing this young man, although he is still very young, but he does not have the vigor and yearning for a better future in his eyes. It's not that he wasn't diligent enough, but that when he was very young, he felt that he didn't have any hope, as if from the beginning, he didn't have much chance of turning around.
He dropped out of high school before graduating, and his family didn't give him enough money to study technology. In short, he did not have any knowledge and skills; At the same time, because of poor nutrition, the physique is thin and cannot withstand heavy work.
Is it because you are "not trying hard enough"? In fact, this young man's father can be said to be "destitute", and it is not easy for him to marry a wife when he is nearly 50.
Perhaps "staying behind" is a deep-rooted idea for many Chinese men, who know that their children will suffer with them, despite their difficult situation. As a father, he may be happy because he already has a family of his own, just like everyone else.
However, the boy's inferiority complex since he was a child, coupled with the suffering he suffered, made him never experience the joy of youth. Now, he has reached the age when he should pay attention to his work, and it is time to buy a house and find a partner.
However, his parents refused to let him study hard, exercise his strong body, and prepare a new house for him. He just does a production line in a factory, and sometimes picks up some garbage. Neither his father nor his mother have regular jobs and are worried about their future life and livelihood.
The young man admits that he wouldn't want to live in that kind of home if he could. Poverty and confusion not only lack the support of his family, but also because his parents are old, which also means that he has to take on the responsibility of providing for the elderly at an early age when he needs support and struggle the most.
Parents hiding two children and letting the girls "lie flat" is a more confusing situation than parents who are afraid that their children will not be able to have children. When the children were in their twenties, they silently asked for another one. A young woman struggled to find a more secure job after graduating from university, but she did not lose her job.
However, it wasn't until she had a little boy that her mother had the courage to bring the little boy to her. Adults should understand the meaning of this sentence. Since it is "everyone is happy", why do parents still hide it?
Although the eldest brother now doesn't have to go to school anymore, he can support himself on his own. However, those college students from average backgrounds have to spend a lot of energy if they want to survive. In addition, the relationship between the parents will have a greater impact on the child's mate selection behavior.
In addition to the rich and powerful people in the family, how many people can calmly face that their lover's family has an extra child? The girl and her boyfriend had been in a relationship for a few years, but after knowing the facts, the two had to break up.
The girl's parents felt that their children should be considerate of their parents' hard work and should use part of their salary to buy milk powder for their children every month. They feel that their children can help take care of their brother as a reward for their parents' kindness.
This kind of truth is not a responsible parent at all. But the girl doesn't, believing that her parents are completely inconsiderate of her own situation and pressure. So, she decided to "lie flat" to fight against such a family atmosphere.
She resigned decisively, she didn't want to be a "good girl", she didn't want to be a "good girl" again, and she didn't want to work overtime for that little money, and she couldn't even take care of dinner. It's better to go home and lie on the hospital bed every day, so that they can see how powerful their daughters are.
Today's topic] "Old Men Have Children", do you think it's a good thing?