When we talk about education, we often default to teachers educating students and parents educating their children. However, the scope of education is much more narrow.
A teacher once said that families in the family that can feed each other and educate each other tend to be more harmonious, and can promote the progress of the two generations, thereby expanding the growth space of the whole family.
Although it is easy to say, in reality there is also a "hierarchy" within the family in our culture. The ideas of the East and the West are completely different. Parents accustomed to this pattern find it difficult to reflect on their own position as "centers of power," even though they may repeat the mistakes their children have made.
Parents are addicted to the Internet" has once again become a hot topic, and mobile phones have become an extension of life The word Internet addiction is believed to be familiar to many parents. There was a time when an off-campus institution became popular for offering services to kick internet addiction. However, this is not a glamorous feat.
Relying on punishment, dietary restrictions, etc., to make students "quit the net", it is hard for many to believe that in this enlightened age, this kind of "stick education" still exists. Of course, internet addiction is only one of them, and it does need to be a habit that needs to be controlled.
However, can parents who go to an Internet café to drag a student, or drop their children's mobile phones, can they imagine that they may also be infected with similar "hobbies" in the future? The topic of parents' addiction to the Internet has once again appeared on the hot search.
Many parents may have realized that it has become extremely difficult to attract middle-aged people to spend, whether it is a physical mall or an online store. Conversely, the elderly and primary school students have become more attractive market targets.
For parents, they attach great importance to education and are willing to spend money on their children's education to make up for their own shortcomings. For the elderly, once their children become independent, as long as they are healthy, they have a fairly high degree of freedom in income and savings.
Mobile phones have become the norm for many parents, and pensions are also used to reward online anchors. According to a survey, the average daily time spent online by the "silver-haired low-headed people" reached at least 4 hours. Especially for middle-aged and older women who do not need to work outside the home, this figure is much higher than average.
Some people described that he finally returned home to reunite, but was woken up by his father's loud **mobile phone** in the early morning. **There is a "high-pitched**" that middle-aged and elderly people like
What is even more troubling is that parents have limited cognitive ability and judgment. No matter what they say, their first reaction is always to refute and deny. However, they accepted everything the network anchor said without question.
Many online anchors just want to attract traffic or promote goods, but ignore the facts, and blindly "kill". This has led to the fact that older people have a negative impact on family relationships, even at the expense of spending most of their salary on tipping, or buying things that are simply not worth it.
Sending your child to an internet addiction center? The helplessness of children lies in the fact that they can't bear to treat their parents in the same way Many netizens on social ** said that they also met "the same parents". I went out to work by myself, and my hard-earned money could only make ends meet every month, and I didn't dare to ask for leave when I was sick, and I could only get a salary of a few thousand yuan.
Watching the old man effortlessly spend 10,000 yuan to buy a few packs of worthless "herbs" online, and also vouch for the "personality" of the network anchor, I felt both distressed and helpless. What is the essential difference between this and teenagers who are addicted to gaming virtual gear?
Someone joked: Do you remember when you were a child and how parents dealt with the Internet? You can also consider sending these elderly people to the "Internet Addiction Rehabilitation Center". Of course, everyone understands that this is just an irony, and more of a feeling of helplessness.
It is often said that children are like a mirror to their parents, and how you treat them when you are young, they will treat you when you grow up. But in reality, most children can't bear to treat their parents the same way.
Mobile phone addiction is not only a problem for students, but also for the elderly. This not only harms physical health, destroys family relationships, but also brings unnecessary financial losses, however, they rarely reflect on their actions.
Some people suffer from tenosynovitis, some are addicted to shopping, and some even spend all their pensions because of meeting with online anchors; When children criticize, they are often reprimanded as "unfilial".
We can't just look at the surface. This group is regarded by many chains of interests as the "easiest leek" because of the lack of judgment of these parents and the emptiness of their hearts.
Most of them did not receive enough education when they were young, and their goals in life were limited to food and clothing. Therefore, they are prone to bad habits such as being gullible and addicted to shopping, and there is a reason for this.
If the behavior is minor, the child may not interfere; After all, everyone needs to be looking for fun. However, if you are already addicted, it is wise to intervene appropriately out of consideration for the parents and the family as a whole.
Filial piety does not mean absolute obedience. When the elderly are addicted to the Internet, which affects their health and causes economic losses, it is true filial piety for their children to help them stop their losses in time.
For ordinary families with limited incomes like ours, imagine what kind of filial piety is our overindulgence if we don't let our parents recognize the true face of the capital and the anchor in time, when they fall ill in bed and have no money?
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