Recently, a teacher in Shanghai became popular and was exposed by her husband as a cheating student. WeChat chat screenshots were also sent, and major ** and individuals competed to spread it, which surprised me.
Is the "husband and wife loyalty" in my country so high? As high as a derailment incident, so many people are curious and concerned? Doesn't seem to have one, right? Look at the rising divorce rate, the dismal marriage rate and the even more dismal birth rate. I'm skeptical.
So is there any conspiracy behind it?
Let me know what you think.
1. The case itself.
Generally speaking, according to the characteristics of the current "reversal era", we might as well "let the bullets fly for a while" and then see what the truth is.
It's hard to determine who was shot until the dust settles.
2. Laws. But no matter what the truth is, from a legal point of view, it is still how it should be judged.
A few days ago, I wrote a post attacking the inequality between men and women. This reflects the "** crime" of our country's law, and the victim seems to be a woman. This case is definitely not involved.
There is no "adultery" in my country, so if you calculate it carefully, the female teacher in question has no criminal behavior in any case.
Of course, we don't know how to regulate school rules and discipline. However, I still believe that we should "have a law to follow, and there must be a law to follow".
The sad thing is that the female teacher's lover divulged her privacy, but it was a proper illegal and criminal act.
Impulsiveness is the devil.
Sad, so sad.
3. Protection of minors.
There is a juvenile insurance in my country, and I have also written an article that I hope will improve the law. However, it doesn't seem to involve the sexual protection of male minors.
Of course, from the perspective of natural science, high school children are basically fully developed. At this age, the ancients were basically married, and of course the ancients had earlier, so I won't say much.
At the age of eight, he married and became the empress's Shangguan clan.
However, is it the right strategy to keep minors away from "sex" purely from the perspective of protecting them?
4. Adolescent sex education.
Twenty years ago, in the biology textbooks issued by the Ministry of Education, many schools tore up the chapters on physiology and hygiene before sending them to students; Our school is fine, but I just skipped and didn't talk about it.
But now it's much better, and all kinds of related popular science books can also be bought.
However, the school still does not provide relevant education. Our attitude towards sexuality is quite interesting, and while we hide it, we tend to flock to it - similar related events can attract everyone's attention once they happen.
Strictly speaking, after each animal is sexually mature, it can find a partner to have sex. According to Confucius, "chromophobia" should have been a very normal thing; However, starting from family planning in China, under the influence of feudal etiquette and "late birth and late childbearing", the time of young people's first sexual life has been delayed to about 20 years old.
However, we have now given up the policy of late marriage and late childbearing, and only having one.
5. Fertility rate, marriage rate and sex life.
At present, the fertility rate in our country is so sharp that some areas have begun to encourage childbirth.
The marriage rate is declining, while the divorce rate is rising.
Sex life is not easy to count, but I saw it once before, and it doesn't seem to be optimistic.
Personally, I feel that our Internet is much "cleaner" at present, and there is a lot less content about sex. There are a lot of funny ** flooding the Internet, and even people like me, who boast that "self-control is okay", "can't stop watching it".
Calming down, I began to think about the question that human desires actually have a direction, and to a certain extent, they can also be cultivated and disappeared.
Everyone should understand that "when the sacrifice of a certain desire is greater than the happiness", we will gradually lose interest in it.
Therefore, when it is difficult for young people to obtain "sexual enlightenment materials", will the related marriage rate and fertility rate be affected?
6. Consider the results.
Of course, I also understand that the state has its own considerations for controlling the Internet, and the role of "pornography-related content" and "sexual enlightenment" is far less than "hinting at crime".
But there is such a research idea, I don't know if you have heard of it: no matter what you say, it is flawless and flawless, but if the final result is unreasonable, then there must be something wrong with some link.
Considering the results, if China's population continues to be the best, it will definitely bring a series of adverse consequences.
According to statistics, it seems that it has fallen by 07 too.
Will South Korea be the first country to die because of its birth rate?
And now, the birth rate in our country is dangerously low, so I think it is wrong to publicize this unfavorably.
7. Don't be overly critical.
Ordinary people don't think too much about it from the perspective of ability or "fear of trouble", so when they hear "bad news" in a certain field, they will not consider all factors and analyze, but simply and rudely produce the idea of "staying away from the field". The more negative news about sex, the lower their desire to engage with sex.
So I feel that everyone should not blindly be in the "hunting mentality" and go to **similar news. Cheating, it is true that it is an immoral act, but that's about it.
Because the husband and wife are harmonious and do not cheat, there is really no "propaganda point", and everyone is not interested, so there is more publicity about cheating.
This has led to a stronger resistance of ordinary people to marriage and love.
So, don't be overly critical, don't over-promote.
8. Behind the scenes**.
Although I am not a conspiracy theorist, I can't help but think about it, will these "crises caused by high bride price, bride price disposal, engagement cases, all kinds of outrageous feminist ideas, and all kinds of non-marriage and barren beauty" propaganda be an attack on our country by hostile forces through ** propaganda?
**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
The color revolution in the United States failed in our country, and the economic sanctions belong to "hurting the enemy by a thousand and harming themselves by about a thousand", so will this "population attack" be carried out by them?
Of course, whether it is or not. I hope everyone can understand: even if there are various reports of incidents such as husband and wife killing each other, high bride price, cheating, children being difficult to manage, and children being unfilial, it is always a small probability event - even if you see a lot of related reports, it is because of "survivor bias". For ordinary people, getting married and having children is the most secure way of life for themselves, and it is also a way of life that they can contribute more to the country.
In summary, the relationship between a female teacher and a male student is just a very ordinary cheating case. It is recommended that everyone do not pay too much attention and over-publicize. Because there are too many propaganda reports about "not conducive to marriage, love and childbirth in my country". It is very likely to affect the life planning of ordinary people, which is not conducive to the future of our country.
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