At that time, my family persuaded me to see my mother being tortured like that, and persuaded me to give up**, but why should I die? ”
In 2012, a girl in Hebei was told that she had cancer, and then began to fight cancer for 7 years.
But what's even more terrifying is that in order to treat her, the family spent more than two million yuan in 7 years, and there were even relatives who pulled the girl to the side, saying that she felt sorry for her mother and gave up.
After hearing this, my daughter was directly angry: Why should I die? The people present were speechless, but did such a girl give up for her family in the end?
Li Mingxin was born in an ordinary family in Langfang, Hebei Province in 2000, but as soon as she was born, her parents divorced directly because of emotional discord.
Not long after the divorce, my father married a strange woman, and since then I haven't come back to see Li Mingxin once, she was brought up by her mother.
is a mother and a father, going out to work during the day, and coming back at night to cook and help children with homework, fortunately, Li Mingxin has been very sensible since she was a child, and she will not want this and that like other children.
Knowing that it is not easy for my mother to make money, when I was very young, I once asked my father where he went, but when I saw what my mother was hiding from me, I knew that my father would never come back.
Because Li Mingxin is a single-parent child, it is easy to be ridiculed when she goes out, and sometimes when she quarrels with her classmates, they will scold Li Mingxin for being a wild child without a father.
After being wronged outside, I didn't dare to tell my mother when I got home, for fear that my mother would be sad. Because her mother is still young, the people around her have introduced her to her many times and asked her to consider remarriage.
At first, her mother didn't agree, but in order to let her daughter have a healthy family, she found a gentle man to marry, and at first she was afraid that Li Mingxin would be wronged.
But I didn't expect this man to be very good to his daughter, going out with her on weekends and doing homework with her at night, just like a loving father.
And Li Mingxin also got the long-lost father's love at this time, and began to say that he would not call his stepfather father anything, but later gradually changed his words, one father at a time.
Li Mingxin sometimes lies in bed and thinks that she is really lucky, although her biological father doesn't want her anymore, but she gives a stepfather who is better than her biological father, and she lives happily like this for a lifetime.
But when Li Mingxin was 12 years old, he accidentally broke this happy family.
Li Mingxin, who was in physical education class in 2012, suddenly felt uncomfortable in her legs, and immediately asked the head teacher for leave, and the head teacher gasped when she saw her legs.
Because there were some bruises on his legs, it felt like he had fallen to the ground, or he had been beaten, so the head teacher personally sent Li Mingxin home.
At that time, Li Mingxin's leg hurt so much that she couldn't stand up, and when her family came back, she was also shocked by her daughter's condition and immediately sent her directly to the hospital for examination.
At first, I thought it was physiological pain, but looking at the doctor's heavy expression, I knew that Li Mingxin's illness was not so simple, and the doctor said that Li Mingxin's condition may be caused by osteosarcoma.
Li Mingxin's parents didn't understand, the doctor said that osteosarcoma is bone cancer, and now Li Mingxin's condition is not very good, in an advanced condition, if it is positive, there are still 5 years to live.
This sentence is directly a bolt from the blue, and the daughter who is still bouncing to school in the morning is suddenly issued a death notice by the doctor.
At first, they didn't give up, thinking that there might be a possibility of misdiagnosis, and took their daughter to many hospitals, but the results were the same, and the family was completely desperate.
Since then, Li Mingxin has not gone to school for another day, and has become a resident guest of the hospital, opening her eyes every day to do various examinations and chemotherapy.
Her mother told her that this was a minor illness, and she only needed to listen to the doctor, and it wouldn't take long to **, but Li Mingxin kept hearing the word osteosarcoma when her parents were talking.
So I secretly searched for what osteosarcoma was on the Internet, and the symptoms I found were exactly the same as my current symptoms, and it turned out that I had cancer.
In fact, the symptoms had already appeared, but Li Mingxin didn't tell her family, thinking it was physiological pain, but she didn't expect that she had cancer.
After Li Mingxin knew the truth, she also sensibly asked if it was expensive to treat her own illness, and when her mother heard such words, she burst into tears and hugged Li Mingxin and cried.
Li Mingxin's condition is worse than imagined, and chemotherapy can only be used to slow down the rate of tumor metastasis, of course, there are many chemotherapy treatments.
The most important manifestation is the loss of hair, coupled with the fact that Li Mingxin has no appetite after chemotherapy, Li Mingxin has lost a lot of weight at a speed visible to the naked eye.
Her mother was afraid that Li Mingxin would not be able to endure this kind of suffering, but she was very active every time she went to chemotherapy, and she did not cry when her hair fell out, but Li Mingxin's strength was very vulnerable in the face of illness.
During an examination, doctors found that Li Mingxin's tumor had deteriorated, and chemotherapy was a long process, and now in order to save Li Mingxin's life, he needs to amputate his leg.
Before the operation, Li Mingxin looked at her right leg a lot, and she knew that when the operation was over, her leg would leave her forever.
But she didn't have any choice, she knew that her parents wanted her to survive, and even spent a lot of money, so all she could do was to be sensible and obedient, and obey the doctor's arrangement.
In this way, Li Mingxin, who was only 12 years old, woke up again, and became a disabled person, with relatives accompanying him, and his mother's eyes were red.
I was afraid that Li Mingxin would not be able to think about it and do some self-harming behavior, but I didn't expect Li Mingxin to be very calm and wanted to touch her legs, but found that she didn't even have the strength to lift her arms.
It was at this time that the grievances were vented for a while, Li Mingxin cried with tears, she knew that in the future, she would never be able to jump around like a normal child.
Although Li Mingxin lost a leg, the unbearable pain was relieved a lot, and Li Mingxin insisted on walking on one leg when she was not undergoing chemotherapy.
Because she didn't want to be like a disabled person, lying on the hospital bed every day complaining about the heavens and complaining, and when she was training for amputation, she had to endure huge pain.
But although she knew that it hurt every time, she still insisted on training, and even the ** in the ward praised Li Mingxin for being strong, which is something that many adults can't do.
But Li Mingxin will secretly shed tears when she can't sleep at night, she is also very vulnerable, but she knows that her mother has paid too much for her, and she doesn't want to shed tears in front of her.
Li Mingxin, who was in the hospital, learned to walk with a prosthetic leg, and told her mother that she wanted to go back to school, and that she wanted to sit in class again and experience what it was like to be a student.
My mother has never forgotten what the doctor said for 5 years, and now 2 years have passed, and although it is positive now, no one can guarantee what will happen in the future.
The mother was thinking that even if her daughter would leave her in the next few years, she hoped that she would leave with no regrets, so she agreed to her daughter's request to return to school.
For a while, Li Mingxin became the focus of the school, because there was no hair in chemotherapy, so she could only wear a hat to school, and it looked strange to walk with a prosthetic leg.
But her classmates knew that she was sick, so they also helped her at school, which made Li Mingxin, who had faced the doctor every day, feel the love of her friends again.
Although Li Mingxin didn't go to school for two years, she quickly kept up with the teacher's rhythm, and every time she took the exam after that, she ranked very high in the class.
At this time, Li Mingxin had a new goal, she wanted to live well and be admitted to an ideal university. But when this goal is spoken, it doesn't feel like it's in line with reality.
Because she is now suffering from illness every night and can't sleep, and often takes time off to go to the hospital for chemotherapy, no matter how you look at it, it doesn't seem like she can live long.
But Li Mingxin has hope, just for herself and her mother, and she has to work hard to live.
But after she came back from the hospital, she rarely saw her stepfather, and when she asked her mother, she was told that she was on a business trip, but the careful Li Mingxin found that her stepfather's things in this house had disappeared.
She realized that her stepfather should have divorced her mother, and the reason for the divorce was because of her own oil bottle, and since she was sick, the family had undergone earth-shaking changes.
In order to take care of herself, my mother can only find some temporary jobs, not to mention the low income, and the work content is also very hard. All the money I earn every month is used for chemotherapy.
In just 7 years, more than 2 million yuan was spent, which was not only my mother's life savings, but also a lot of money borrowed from relatives.
Later, in order to treat himself, he even sold his family's house, and now the two of them can only live in a small rental house.
Li Mingxin felt that she was dragging her mother down, but her mother touched her head and said that she hoped she could live well, otherwise her mother would not have the courage to live.
This sentence is imprinted in Li Mingxin's heart, she wants to live for herself and her mother.
At that time, Li Mingxin's goal was to be admitted to Peking University, but in that year, it was the fifth year that the doctor said, but seeing that her daughter was not too problematic, she just wanted to breathe a sigh of relief.
Unexpectedly, Li Mingxin fell ill before the college entrance examination, when she was doing math papers, the pain in her body made her dizzy, and when her mother came back, she found Li Mingxin lying on the ground unconscious.
After being sent to the hospital, she was directly admitted to the intensive care unit, and the doctor told her family that Li Mingxin's tumor had reached her lungs, which meant that her life was gradually passing.
The mother fell directly to the ground after hearing this, so many years of persistence, all collapsed at this moment, is the daughter really a dead end?
In order to control Li Mingxin's deterioration, the doctor increased the number of chemotherapy treatments, and even took several more drugs, which also meant that the family had to pay more medical expenses.
Li Mingxin knows her own situation, and she also knows that she is relying on money to continue her life now, if the chemotherapy and drugs are directly cut off, then she will also leave this world.
In order to let her daughter live, the mother sold her parents' house in her hometown despite the opposition of her family, hoping that her daughter could accompany her for a few more years.
Li Mingxin, who has always been very optimistic, has also become wilted and doesn't like to talk anymore because of ** reasons. Her mother cheered her on and said she would get better.
The mother's approach is stupid in the eyes of many relatives, knowing that her daughter will die sooner or later, why do you have to do so much hard work, isn't it possible that the 2 million flowers are not enough?
Once a relative came to visit, while his mother was cooking in the kitchen, he also pulled Li Mingxin and said, look at your mother is stunned now, if you are really filial, don't let your mother worry about this.
The meaning of the words is to let Li Mingxin wait for death, and his life is a drag on his mother, as long as he dies, his mother will be liberated.
This happened to be heard by the mother, so angry that she turned her face and immediately asked her relatives to get out, since her daughter got sick, she has heard such words many times, but she didn't expect them to dare to say it to her daughter in person.
But because of her relatives' words, Li Mingxin stood up again and directly angrily scolded her relatives: Why should I die? I want to live well, and my mother is still waiting for me to be filial.
Later, at the suggestion of others, the mother spread her daughter's experience on the Internet, hoping to get some ** attention, after all, she was really desperate and couldn't let her daughter wait for death.
Soon, Li Mingxin's bravery and strength touched many netizens, and netizens spontaneously raised donations for Li Mingxin, hoping to use their own modest efforts to let Li Mingxin live.
In an interview with **, Li Mingxin, who has been fighting cancer for 7 years, was full of smiles and said that he would like to thank his uncles and aunts for sending charcoal in the snow, and he will definitely live well and repay them well.
And Li Mingxin's strong capital is her mother's unconditional love, even if she knows Li Mingxin's illness, she still sells her property without hesitation and uses money to renew her daughter's life.
An ordinary family is afraid of suffering from the disease of wealth, and some people are forced to stop because they are overwhelmed and shed tears**, watching their relatives die in the hospital bed, but there is nothing they can do.
Later, Li Mingxin was admitted to Peking University as he wished during the college entrance examination, and finally broke through the five years that the doctor said.
But the illness will also be vulnerable in the face of family affection, and Li Mingxin, who does not accept her fate, may still be entangled with the illness in the future, but she said that she is interested in living well.
It is precisely because Li Mingxin does not accept his fate and refuses to admit defeat that he has today.