In the winter of 2012, there was such a ** that caused huge controversy on the Internet:
There is a little boy of three or four years old, wearing only a pair of sneakers and a pair of sneakers, running hard in the ice and snow, fighting colds as he runs. After running two steps, the child stopped crying and begged his father to end the "game".
But his father said, "No, we have to finish it." ”The attitude is very resolute, when the child cries for the mother to hug, the father does not allow the child's mother to hug him.
In this way, the father forced the child to finish the whole race. Finally, below this **, there is also a note that "the local temperature is minus thirteen degrees".
Picture丨Snow running.
After seeing such a **, netizens instantly scolded. Everyone below is accusing the ruthless father, and some even accuse him of child abuse.
However, not only did the father not care about these abuses, he was also proud of his education method, which he called "eagle education".
So now that ten years have passed, has this father's eagle education succeeded? What has his son achieved today?
Picture丨Little boy.
In 2020, Jiangsu Satellite TV's famous TV column "One Stop to the End" ushered in a prodigy, his name is He Yide. Judging from the resume released by the program team, this 12-year-old child seems to be really amazing. This kid's resume reads:
He Yide, aged 12, graduated from Nanjing University. At the age of 1, he walked wildly, climbed the Purple Mountain in Nanjing at the age of 2, ran naked in the snow at the age of 3, flew around the Beijing Zoo at the age of 5, wrote an autobiography at the age of 6, and crossed Lop Nur in Xinjiang three times at the age of 7.
He was admitted to Nanjing University at the age of 8, passed the examination of 20 professional courses within one year at the age of 10, graduated from Nanjing University at the age of 11, and prepared to study for a master's degree and a doctorate at the same time at the age of 12.
Such a concise and clear resume, but with every word, not only stunned the guests and audiences present, but also shocked netizens across the country. This self-confident child standing on the stage has just turned 12 years old, but his life experience is already richer than that of many 80-year-olds.
Figure丨Personal resume.
The "flying a plane at the age of 5" and "going to college at the age of 8" mentioned in the resume are things that many people dare not think about. However, it is such a young child, he is like clocking in and doing tasks, and he has completed every seemingly impossible task.
He Yide called himself the "thief of time" in the show, and explained to everyone that the reason for saying this is that he will do a very meaningful thing every year. The so-called meaningful things are those experiences written in his resume.
In the program, He Yide explained to everyone that when he was admitted to Nanjing University at the age of eight, he took two disciplines, junior college and undergraduate. Such a thing can be said to be inconceivable for an eight-year-old child, but He Yide just did it.
So what is it that makes this young child have such a rich life resume?
And what made him so good?
Picture丨He Yide.
On February 12, 2008, with a faint cry, He Yide came to this world. At the same time, his father, He Liesheng, waited expectantly outside the delivery room, waiting for his wife and child.
However, the doctor's words sent the new dad to hell. After the doctor came out of the operating room, he looked at He Liesheng with regret on his face and said:"Because your wife was born three months prematurely, we tried our best to save the adult, but the child suffered from four major heart and brain diseases because he came into this world too early. This means that your child is very likely to become a child with cerebral palsy later on.
Such a thunderbolt on a sunny day made He Liesheng's heart full of grief, he had always wanted a child, and the husband and wife had worked hard for so many years to have this precious little life. Now that he has such a disease, He Liesheng feels dizzy and can't accept such a fact for a while.
Figure丨Premature birth. However, after all, it was his own biological son, and after the child was sent to the intensive care unit, He Liesheng rushed to see him as soon as possible. At that time, the little life was full of various pipes and lying quietly in the incubator, which made He Liesheng, who had been fighting in the mall for many years, instantly wet his eyes.
Father and son are connected, and he decides that no matter what, he will not give up the hope of his child. According to the couple's pregnancy assumptions, they named the child He Yide, with many nicknames.
Fortunately, Duoduo managed to survive the first two months of the dangerous period and his condition stabilized. Subsequently, on the advice of the doctor, He Liesheng took the child home.
Picture丨Intensive care unit.
During the period when the child was hospitalized, He Liesheng has been looking for relevant information, trying to find some ways to enhance the child's physique and prevent the child from suffering from cerebral palsy. Subsequently, He Liesheng saw in a book:Swimming can strengthen the resistance of infants and young children. So He Liesheng bought a children's pool and a swimming ring, and built a training ground for Duoduo at home.
However, for Duoduo, who is more than two months old and is still a premature baby, swimming is too unfamiliar. The fear of the unknown made him cry incessantly, but He Liesheng made up his mind to train his son in this way. So he didn't immediately get the child out of the water, but let him get used to it slowly.
In this way, Duoduo gradually adapted to swimming, perhaps this kind of exercise really worked, He Liesheng felt that after swimming, his son's body was getting better little by little. This also gave him a lot of encouragement, so he began to train his son more.
Picture丨Swimming. He Liesheng's education method is undoubtedly very strict for ordinary parents. He arranged a lot of everything in advance, including when to get up, eat, read and study, and exercise. When Duoduo was getting older and older, and even the time to go to the toilet to defecate, He Liesheng stipulated it for his son.
Under his father's training and requirements, Duoduo first completed independent walking, and then when he was more than a year old, he was taken on a hike by his father. The distance of the hike is a few hundred meters at first, and then it slowly becomes one kilometer, two kilometers. It is precisely because of such rigorous training that Duoduo was able to climb the Purple Mountain in Nanjing with his own strength at the age of two.
Figure丨Mountaineering. However, training Duoduo's physical fitness is only a small part of He Liesheng's plan, and he also started from Duoduo's cultural education, so that Duoduo won at the starting line. Duoduo's cultural enlightenment is very early, and when he was less than three years old, he already knew 3,000 Chinese characters, so I have to say that He Liesheng's education method really has a set.
Perhaps it is precisely because of these physical and mental training that Duoduo did not suffer from cerebral palsy as predicted by doctors, but has been growing up healthily. However, in this process, He Liesheng, who was only doing all this for the health of his children, was also quietly changing his mind.
Now that Duoduo has gotten rid of the risk of cerebral palsy, he has begun to have a new goal, which is to train Duoduo to become a talent.
Picture丨Father and son.
Chinese parents have always been "hoping for their sons to become dragons" and "hoping for their daughters to become phoenixes", and He Liesheng is of course no exception, when Duoduo was born, he was already in his forties. This means that Duoduo is likely to be the only child in his life, and of course he wants to train Duoduo to become a talent. But then again, is He Liesheng's approach to education really right?
In order to cultivate a lot, He Liesheng specially proposed the resounding education method of "eagle education".
Why is it called "Eagle Education"? This is because when the eagle in nature teaches the eagle to fly, it will push the eagle off the edge of the cliff, so that the eagle can learn to flap its wings in a sense of crisis.
Although he will not push Duoduo off the cliff, he also adopts the most rigorous education method to treat his son.
Picture丨He Liesheng.
What is harshness? The ** mentioned at the beginning of the article is a prime example. Isn't it harsh to let a four-year-old child run naked in minus 13 degrees Celsius weather and force him to run the entire distance?
There is also the entry on Duoduo's resume that "crossed Lop Nur three times when he was six years old". Lop Nur has always been known as the Sea of Death, isn't it harsh to let a child go on such an adventurous trip? Even the time for children to go to the toilet and defecate has to be firmly nailed by the schedule, isn't this harsh? The list goes on and on.
In education, "strictness" is indeed a good thing, but this "strictness" should refer to "strictness", and it is by no means He Liesheng's "strictness".
Picture丨He Liesheng.
Over the years, in the growth of children, He Liesheng seems to have an absolute position, what he says, what the child does, what he arranges, what the child learns. People can't help but wonder: What is He Liesheng educating children? Or are you shaping your own pride? This question is intriguing.
In the face of doubts from the outside world, He Liesheng has always maintained a nonchalant attitude. When some experts persuaded him that it is against the law of children's growth to study too quickly, it is an absolute good thing for children to be admitted to doctoral degrees when they are teenagers.
However, He Liesheng retorted:Nowadays, Chinese-style education is too wasteful of time, and his children can go to kindergarten and primary school at the same time, and they can enter university at the age of eight, which is the result of his hard work to cultivate his children.
Figure丨Unique approach to education.
When someone said that he was taking his child through Lop Nur to show off his child's life, He Liesheng was ashamed to say:"I came from an educational background, and of course I know what kind of education is best for children. ”
There has been controversy on the Internet about He Liesheng's parenting story. The author believes that his efforts for Duoduo's health when he was just born and his physical condition is uncertain are worthy of recognition, but a series of education since then has made people a little flattering.
There are many doubts about Duoduo's glittering resume, especially the one that was admitted to Nanjing University at the age of 7. Many netizens think that Duoduo is admitted to a self-admitted college, which is far from the real undergraduate of Nanjing University, and He Liesheng is simply changing the concept by packaging children like this.
Some people also say that Duoduo's autobiography is also full of loopholes, with many lies and boasts.
Picture丨Questioned. But it is undeniable that today's Duoduo is still moving towards a broader platform. In September 2021, at the age of 13, Duoduo completed all the courses of the Master of Business Administration at the University of Wukang in Spain.
On December 19, 2021, Duoduo received a Ph.D. admission letter from the University of São Paulo in the Philippines, and he is also the youngest PhD student at the University of São Paulo to date!
For such an "eagle father and son", we may not have the right to make too many judgments, after all, the achievements of Duoduo are remarkable. But in real life, educating children should still pay attention to teaching children according to their aptitude, otherwise in the case of a situation like the chicken baby Zhang Yide, parents who advocate "eagle education" will regret it