Boredom is a negative emotional manifestation of boredom or even disgust with learning, so as to escape. Psycho-educational experts have found that at the beginning of the school year and at the beginning of the school year, children show the most obvious aversion to school. In this way, the learning efficiency will naturally deteriorate, and some children will even refuse to go to school. School boredom not only directly affects children's academic performance, but also endangers their physical and mental health.
Parents are often very anxious and angry when they encounter this situation, and they don't know what to do. If a child has a tendency to be bored with school, it should indeed be paid close attention to by parents, and scientific guidance is needed to help children get rid of the vicious circle of school boredom and establish positive learning beliefs and attitudes.
So what should parents do?
1. Understanding and communication.
The first thing for parents is to control their emotions, reduce their anxiety, communicate calmly with their children in the case of emotional stability, find out why their children do not want to go to school, and see what their children's demands and hardships are. Parents should change their perspective, think about problems from the child's point of view, actively listen to their children's voices, understand their thoughts and feelings, and do not easily deny their children's views. Guide children to deal with negative emotions correctly and avoid emotions that have a negative impact on learning.
2. Create a good learning environment.
Create a quiet and welcoming learning atmosphere. Reduce the noise of doing things when your child is doing homework or taking breaks to ensure her learning efficiency and the quality of her rest. At the same time, reduce friction and do not show the bad mood of working during the day in front of your child, so as not to have quarrels and affect your child's mood. This situation has a great impact on children. If parents can't keep quiet, why should they ask their children to concentrate on their studies? For example, when children are studying, parents should also turn off their mobile phones, turn off the TV, and sit next to their children to read a book.
3. Avoid excessive criticism and accusations.
Criticism can indeed play a certain educational role to a certain extent, so that children can realize their own problems, but at the same time of criticism, most parents have relatively weak ability to control their emotions. Many children are tired of school, unable to keep up with their studies, and are often criticized by teachers, blamed by parents, and despised by classmates. Therefore, they simply "break the jar and break it" and even often skip school. Parents should avoid excessive criticism and accusations, encourage and praise their children's "shining points", help children improve their learning ability, and make children become confident. In this way, the child's interest in learning is also easily stimulated.
4. Carry out necessary psychological counseling.
If the problem of children's school boredom cannot be solved after their own efforts, parents should take the initiative to seek professional psychological support. Psychologists or counselors can provide effective psychological counseling and programs to help children overcome emotional problems and learning disabilities. Don't wait until the problem becomes out of control to take action, seeking help early can resolve the issue faster.
In conclusion, when a child has severe school boredom, parents need to take proactive measures to help their child overcome school boredom. By understanding the reasons, communicating, asking for help, creating a good learning environment, making a reasonable learning plan, giving appropriate rewards, establishing good interpersonal relationships, and adjusting the mentality, it can help children regain their motivation and confidence in learning and overcome their boredom.