In "Love's Study Trip", Xi Mengyao and He Youjun went on a separate date, and the two experienced an experience after old age.
Suddenly seeing what he looked like when he was old, He Youjun was a little emotional, he felt that his wife's appearance at the age of eighty-four was okay. Xi Mengyao reminded him: "You are eighty-four years old, and I am ninety." Hearing this, He Youjun was stunned, and his mood instantly fell, obviously this was a little difficult for him to accept. He Youjun said with a lonely expression: "Ninety years old is really old, you don't want to age so fast." I think the best thing is that we grow old, and it's a good happiness. In the future, we will be very proud of our love marriage and successful marriage in this life, and we can do it. But I don't really want to think about what you've become like when you're ninety. ”
Feeling her husband's depression, Xi Mengyao asked with concern, "Why do you feel sad?" Do you think I'm going to leave you? He Youjun replied, "Yes, or you may not remember me." If I ever saw you have these things, I'm sure I'll ......If one day you really forget things and forget me, then I will definitely be heartbroken, and I will be very broken, and I don't want to live anymore. Because I care so much about memory, I'm sure I remember everything when I'm eighty-four, and if you really don't remember at that time, I'm sure I'm really lonely. This hundredfold loneliness. ”
Seeing this, the audience couldn't sit still, everyone thought He Youjun was too conceited, why did he insist that he would remember anything by the age of eighty-four? What if that's not the case?
But Xi Mengyao's reaction was different from that of the audience, she just sighed "oh" after hearing it, and did not refute or get angry, but chose to hug He Youjun and comfort him: "Okay, I will always be with you." ”
This is probably the charm of Xi Mengyao, she never denies others easily, but is good at using affirmation and comforting words, like a warm spring breeze blowing through her heart. Her inner world is rock-solid and emotionally stable, like a haven of tranquility capable of accommodating any wind and waves. When faced with unhappiness, she can always accept it with a broad mind and let the other party vent to the fullest, just like the trickle that finally flows into the embrace of the sea. Her words exude a light of wisdom, gentle and elegant, and make people feel her depth and power. Xi Mengyao's high emotional intelligence is admirable.