The thoughtfulness behind the father's $50,000 weight wedding cancellation.
Hello everyone, I'm Ye Xin, a person who loves to share life stories. Today I'm going to tell you a true story, with twists and turns that make you think deeply. This story takes place when I was 27 years old, and it was supposed to be an important moment in my life to get married. Chedu changed because of his father's words, that is, he asked his fiancé's family to give an extra 50,000 yuan as a deposit. This seemingly unreasonable request was actually the result of my father's careful consideration.
I want to correct the misunderstanding of my father. He is not the kind of person who values money, and our family is in good condition, having bought a house in the city many years ago. He made this request not out of greed for money, but after an in-depth understanding of the situation in his fiancé's family. He found that although they were not in bad condition, they did not have any substantive expression. He believes that marriage is not just a matter for two people, but also involves the integration of two families. If there is a contradiction in such a trivial matter, how will you live in the future?
My father also made this request in order to screen out the people who were really responsible for me. He believes that the right person is also needed, especially in the face of such a big matter as marriage. And this little thing is also a test for a family. He hoped that my future marriage would be smooth and smooth, and although this sudden twist and turn in the wedding made me angry at the time, but now that I think about it, it can be regarded as a kind of protection for my father.
Again, I would like to share some background information about my father. He is a very rational person who has his own opinions and judgments on various things in life. His decision was not impulsive, but deliberate. He hopes that I can go further and steadily on the road of marriage.
Finally, I want to say that although this wedding was ruined because of the 50,000 yuan deposit, for me, it was also a kind of awakening. I began to understand that marriage is not an easy thing to do and needs to be treated with care. I am also grateful to my father for his persistence, and his decision has made me more aware of my responsibilities and future direction.
Although my father's decision caused misunderstanding from the outside world, it seemed to me that he was thinking deeply about my future marriage. He hopes that I can go further and steadily on the road of marriage. It also made me understand that marriage is not an easy thing and needs to be treated with caution.