In a relationship, the more you give unconditionally, the more men don't know how to cherish, especially these three kinds of people, who will never be cherished.
People are always focused on what they can't get and have a particularly strong desire to possess.
In his eyes, as long as he wants, you are willing to give; As long as he says it, you will believe it.
You have no novelty for him, and you don't need to be afraid of losing, so you naturally care less about and cherish it.
When you ignore the importance of your own sense of worth, it is equivalent to raising the other party's sense of superiority without a bottom line, losing the desire to challenge and conquer you, and naturally producing a boring psychology, and will not cherish and care about you.
Long-term self-sacrifice will not only lead to personal exhaustion and loss, but also cause the partner to gradually lose gratitude for the effort.
Balance is key, and loving yourself is the best way to be loved.
For a relationship, a person who has seen your psychology clearly will grasp your weakness.
He clearly knows that when you can't live without him, that's what he shows off.
In life, if you do something that hurts you, you won't feel guilty at all, and even feel that whatever he does, you won't leave him, and you will give him enough confidence to hurt you.
Therefore, he will not spend any more effort and energy to maintain his feelings and be good to you.
It's because he knows you'll never leave that he's so fearless.
Your soft-heartedness and reluctance will not move him, but will only make him more unscrupulous.
Feelings are like this, the more people are loved, the less they will cherish them.
For this kind of unconditional love, to be honest, no matter how much you give, you will not be cherished.
Once the relationship becomes cheap, naturally no one will bother with energy anymore.
Those who don't want anything may think that they will move the other party, but in his eyes, you are either cheap or free, or even upside down, looking so humble.
The relationship is mutual, no one can give you unlimited giving, when you pay for a long time, you can't see the response, you can't feel the enthusiasm, you will slowly feel cold, and eventually drift away.
Good love should have a response, hoping that the other party can do the same to themselves.
Therefore, no matter how much you give, no matter how good you are to him, it is just wishful thinking and touching yourself.
Love that does not ask for anything in return will not last long, and will only make the other party despise.