watched "The First Half of My Life" again to understand why Lao Zhuo said that he cherished Tang Jing and stayed away from Luo Zijun"You may be able to fall into emotions for anyone, but why is it Luo Zijun? ”
Tang Jing has been in love with He Han for ten years, and during this time, they have experienced continuous growth together.
However, the appearance of Luo Zijun cast an unknown shadow in Tang Jing's ten years of prosperity.
In fact, He Han has no love for Tang Jing, and the two are more colleagues and competitors.
However, Lao Zhuo advised He Han to "regard Tang Jing as his favorite and stay away from Luo Zijun", what kind of profound meaning does this remark contain?
I really can't understand why you're so close to her? ”
This is He Han's questioning of Tang Jing, and they were still a couple at that time.
Luo Zijun and Tang Jing are a pair of close friends who have a heart-to-heart relationship with each other without reservation.
Tang Jing is a female elite in the workplace with an annual salary of more than one million, while Luo Zijun is a wealthy wife who lives a comfortable and luxurious life.
In fact, for a professional woman like Tang Jing who focuses on work every day, Luo Zijun, who is a full-time housewife, should be the object of her disdain, but why can the two have a deep friendship?
Because the two met in college, during that time, people's thoughts were relatively innocent and lacked the mentality of self-deceit.
Even after stepping out of school and stepping into society, the connection between the two has not been interrupted and they still maintain a deep relationship.
When he first entered the workplace, Luo Zijun had always supported Tang Jing, including providing financial assistance.
Gradually, the two chose different life trajectories, Tang Jing continued to climb in his career, and Luo Zijun became a wealthy wife.
However, even so, the relationship between Tang Jing and Luo Zijun is still very close.
In fact, from the outside, Luo Zijun's life is desirable for many people. Everything is abundant, and after graduation, he married Chen Junsheng and lived a carefree life ever since.
However, in the end, the two went to divorce. Luo Zijun only cares about shopping every day, she thinks she loves Chen Junsheng deeply, but in fact, she only has this kind of life in her heart, and it is the living conditions that Chen Junsheng provides to her.
After the divorce, Luo Zijun did not consider the relationship status of the two, but was engrossed in thinking about his future plans. It can be seen that she only has herself in her heart, and her marriage with Chen Junsheng lacks a substantial emotional foundation.
At this time, Luo Zijun considered finding a job to make ends meet, but she did not have any work experience. So, Tang Jing extended a helping hand. Since Luo Zijun became a rich wife as soon as he graduated, he has no work experience.
With no workplace experience, she thought of her best friend who had a successful career. However, because Tang Jing is very busy every day, she always calls her boyfriend, He Han, when she encounters problems, asking him to come and help Luo Zijun.
At this time, I have to mention that He Han is really very attentive to helping his girlfriend's best friend. In order to help Luo Zijun succeed in the interview, a multi-page document was specially made for her. In addition, during the lawsuit between Luo Zijun and her ex-husband Chen Junsheng, He Han specially investigated Chen Junsheng's details in order to help her.
This approach is indeed a bit out of bounds, but Tang Jing didn't think too much about it at that time, just thought that her boyfriend was out of love for the whole situation.
As everyone knows, in the process of helping each other, the two unexpectedly rubbed out undeserved feelings. In this way, Tang Jing became the laughing stock of being deceived, betrayed by her boyfriend for many years and her closest friends. To be honest, He Han's behavior is really unbearable.
He didn't really like Tang Jing, but he wasted ten years of her youth. The decade was not short, and he did not even propose marriage, in fact he never considered marriage. What's more, when he found out that he liked Luo Zijun, he did not release Tang Jing immediately, but proposed to Tang Jing while pursuing Luo Zijun. In front of Tang Jing, he showed a look, but behind her, he showed a different posture.
The fact that the two closest friends were caught in a complicated entanglement because of the same man was so dramatic that people couldn't help but want to reprimand He Han. Tang Jing was actually very good, which made He Han lose his sense of superiority in front of her. However, in front of Luo Zijun, it was a completely different situation, and there was a huge gap between the two, which made him have a strong desire to protect and self-confidence in Luo Zijun.
In this way, Tang Jing experienced a double betrayal. After learning the truth, she found He Han. In the face of Tang Jing's questioning, He Han thought about Luo Zijun wholeheartedly, for the sake of Luo Zijun, he did not hesitate to deceive Tang Jing, and even pushed all the responsibility to himself, only hoping that Tang Jing would not hurt Luo Zijun. He Han has never shown such an attitude towards Tang Jing, perhaps, this can be regarded as real love, there is indeed a huge difference between love and non-love.
At this moment, Tang Jing understood everything, and just based on He Han's attitude towards the relationship between the two parties, she knew that she had never occupied a place in the other party's heart. Tang Jing, who was relieved, after taking off the ring symbolizing the love between the two, He Han left without hesitation, leaving no trace of nostalgia.
Subsequently, He Han found Lao Zhuo, hoping to find the answer from Lao Zhuo. Lao Zhuo said that if he was He Han, he would cherish Tang Jing and keep a distance from Luo Zijun. Faced with Lao Zhuo's unhesitating suggestion, He Han was deeply thought.
Lao Zhuo's series of questions made He Han even more confused, and he realized that he was going in the wrong direction. Ten years passed without him noticing, wasting Tang Jing's precious youth in vain.
He once thought that although he didn't like Tang Jing, he had always been kind to her in order not to let his conscience get over. However, he didn't realize that this was the most harmful thing to her.
Not only He Han, but Luo Zijun's behavior also made Tang Jing feel cold. is obviously Tang Jing's close friend, Tang Jing thinks about her all the time, but she doesn't know how to keep a proper distance from her best friend's boyfriend.
The two most important and beloved people in Luo Zijun's life betrayed her, which was a huge blow to Tang Jing. Ten years of youth are all dedicated to He Han, but how many decades can a person's doctor have? In ten years, Tang Jing has transformed from an ignorant girl to a mature and intellectual woman. And the only thing that remains unchanged is her deep love for He Han, but it was delayed by He Han.
In fact, He Han did not deserve to be Tang Jing who loved him bitterly, as she said to He Han in the last call: "You will never understand how much you have lost someone who loves you deeply." ”
However, regrets are everywhere in the world, and who is immune?
Maybe at the beginning, Tang Jing fell in love with the wrong person.
Lao Zhuo was right, He Han should not leave Tang Jing, who had accompanied him for ten years.
Let him cherish Tang Jing and stay away from Luo Zijun, which is also for his own interests.