A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together. We have exhausted thousands of years of cultivation in exchange for a love, and the fate between husband and wife is a silk thread that spans thousands of years, although there is resilience, it also needs to be cared for by both parties. If there is no such thing as "two-way running", fate will be over.
When the origin arises, he is overjoyed, tries to get closer, and deliberately pleases.
When the fate is in the middle, the heart beats slowly, and gradually understands, and is loyal to the inside.
When the fate falls, deal with it calmly, self-repair, and nirvana is reborn.
Whether we are happy or sad, we must accept the results of dependent causes and falls. And the process of getting along during this period is an opportunity for both parties to go all out to pursue happiness.
The joy at first sight makes a person willing to spend all his time for the other party, deliberately please, and be willing to eat. But at that time, the light faded and the passion faded, and the pressure of life gradually increased, how many people could persevere?
The long-term solution for getting along between husband and wife lies in running in both directions, rather than one person giving in one direction.
Boo Bu was the goddess of Aze's college days. At a departmental event, Aze fell in love with Bubu at first sight, and since then he has launched a fierce pursuit. However, Aze is not Boo's heartbeat.
At that time, Aze would take a bus for more than two hours to cross the city in order to buy Bubu's favorite snacks; would wait for more than half an hour downstairs in the dormitory in order to have dinner with Bubu; In order to celebrate her birthday, invite all her classmates in the dormitory to celebrate together.
Two years later, Aze finally impressed Bubu, and they were together. After that, Aze held the cloth in the palm of his hand and cared for it.
After getting married, they began to work hard for their careers. The pressure on Aze's work is increasing.
Once, when he came home and lay down on the sofa to rest, Bubu asked him to buy his favorite puffs, Aze explained that he was too tired today and would buy it tomorrow, and Bubu began to complain that Aze was not spoiling himself as before. There were more and more similar contradictions, Aze felt tired, Bubu felt disappointed, and they eventually separated.
If couples are separated by 100 steps and go both ways, happiness will get closer and closer. If only one party goes, and the other party waits in the same place, the person who walks is tired and stops, and the person who is waiting is disappointed, and the fate is over. What do you think?