Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Ding Limei wrote in "Love and Sorrow": "The truth in the world is so simple, whether it is to love things or people, you must have moderation. When the moon is full, it is lost, and when the water is full, it overflows, and sometimes, too much love is not love, but great harm. ”When a woman loves someone deeply, she will choose to keep giving.
Even if you give everything you have, you won't frown. Women are timid and sensitive. But in terms of managing love, he has great courage.
Love needs to be expressed with a sense of proportion. Expressing love excessively can upset the balance of love.
The way to make a man love you for a long time: "point to point".
Mr. Kan and Mrs. Kan in "An Home", the two of them have a very happy life.
The economic conditions are good, and he has children and daughters, but in such a state, Mr. Kan still betrayed the family.
Mrs. Kan's words revealed the reason for her husband's betrayal of the marriage.
When she was angry, she said everything she had done for men, and when the company needed her, she tried her best to run the business. After the company stabilized, she took a back seat to take care of the family.
Everything a woman does is for her husband.
But when her husband became famous, he did not cherish and thank her for her support along the way, but chose to spend tens of millions of dollars in his marriage to live with an extramarital woman.
If a woman does not let a man participate in the management of love and family life, he will have no sense of responsibility and do not know how to cherish the family.
In this way, no matter how much you pay, it will be meaningless.
To give love, we must "point to point". Women can't do the responsibility for a man for him.
When a man knows how much a woman has paid for him, he will know how to be grateful and know how to give back. In this way, love can maintain balance and develop healthily and sustainably.
In a relationship, love that is too active and does not ask for payment can easily become a one-way rush.
If a woman is too active in her relationship, it will make the relationship unbalanced and make the man feel that everything is too easy.
It's like a bowl of soup with the umami of fish and the right amount of salt. If you add too much salt, you will lose your original flavor.
I know a girl who, after marrying her husband, loved him with all her heart.
She took the initiative to take on all the things at home and didn't let her husband worry about it; The child is not easy to bring, and she tries to take it alone so as not to worry her husband.
She gave everything, but her husband betrayed her.
The husband said that he had always thought that she did not need him and that there was no meaning in the relationship.
If men are not involved in anything, they will not know what a woman needs and how to love her.
Even if she loves someone again, a woman should not release all her love at once.
We must learn to give in moderation, guide men to give, and guide men to give the same love.
Loving too passionately can make men feel pressured. The woman's chase will make him feel that there is nothing new in this relationship. If it's too easy to get, you won't cherish it.
The best way to manage love is not to blindly give, not to please passionately.
Instead, learn to take the time to manage yourself and show your charm little by little.
Women are "point-to-point" about love and spend more time investing in themselves, which will instead attract men's attention.
Cai Kangyong once said: "We often don't love ourselves enough, we often need to be able to discover how good we are through the people who love us." I think most people tend to ignore the best parts of themselves when they love each other. ”Love needs to be balanced.
Women don't need to chase after men all the time, but should be brave enough to be themselves.
If you are good enough, you will give yourself a sense of security, no longer rely on men for everything, and you will be more confident and confident.
When a woman has her own circle, constantly improves herself, and constantly makes herself a better person, her charm value will continue to rise.
When a woman creates one surprise after another, the man's eyes will always follow the woman, and he will be afraid that the woman will leave him.
"Inexperienced first love is fascinating, but love that stands the test is priceless," Mallinsky said. ”If you want love to stand the test, you must learn the right way to manage love. To love someone, one should not give it all, but should maintain a balance of love.
If you want a man to love you for a long time, you need to learn to "point to point".
Guiding men to pay and guiding men to participate in the management of feelings is more conducive to the management of feelings.
Good love pays attention to relaxation, gives men some space, and appropriately creates some separation. On the contrary, it will make love more vivid.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.