For inmates who regularly violate the rules, persuasion from prison police or punitive measures from prisons alone is not sufficient.
At this time, the support and assurance of family members has become particularly traditional Chinese medicine. To help inmates get back on track, some family members delve into commutation and parole policies and write letters to convey this information to inmates. But in fact, inmates often have a deeper understanding of these policies, and families only need to understand the basic concepts, not become experts. Because the biggest factor affecting whether a prisoner can get a commutation or parole is their own performance. If the inmates get by every day, but in communication with their families, they lie that everything is normal, and when they apply for a commutation because they do not have enough points, then the family's efforts will be in vain.
When learning that a prisoner has violated the rules, the family should first look at the problem calmly and objectively to avoid losing reason due to family affection. Don't immediately take on the role of a relative, as this is prone to prejudice. Next, analyze the problem with the inmates in a rational and objective manner, and avoid covering up or directly blaming them. If a relative is found to have misbehaved, it should be pointed out in a timely and appropriate manner to ensure that he can face up to the problem and actively correct it. Only in this way can we really help him avoid violating the rules again and get on the right track.
After serving their sentences, many people began to realize the preciousness of family affection. The affection between children, parents, and spouses is the most irreplaceable wealth in life. As family members, we should do our best to give care and help to the inmates in their daily lives. If possible, arrange meetings and send them letters and**. The thoughts of parents, the expectations of partners, and the thoughts of children can touch the deep emotions of inmates and prompt them to exercise restraint in the face of violations. The power of these emotions can help them re-examine their behaviour and inspire them to turn around positively.
In the face of inmates who regularly violate the rules, it is often difficult to simply criticize them. In prison, criticism from corrections and accusations from family members often make them more resistant and resistant. Even though they are in prison for their crimes, they are still human beings with their own unique merits. Family members should give them timely affirmation and encouragement to help them maintain these strengths, build self-confidence, and avoid falling into self-denial. At the same time, digging out and affirming their strengths can bring another benefit. This will motivate them to take the initiative to develop their strengths, which may surprise their families when they are released from prison.
For inmates serving longer sentences, they are often much more likely to resist rehabilitation than those serving shorter sentences. In particular, those who face more than a dozen years or more of prison sentences are faced with too long sentences, so that they do not see any hope for the future, and are prone to self-denial and loss of confidence. Some people may have a moral deficit or give up on efforts because they feel they can't get out of prison. At this time, the family should make them aware that their actions have brought all kinds of misfortunes to the family in their work, life and even survival. In fact, as long as they behave well in prison, it is possible to obtain a reduced sentence and a shorter sentence.