Ma Bao Nan, this term, has gradually gained wide popularity in Chinese society. In layman's terms, Ma Bao Nan refers to a man who is too dependent on his mother, and even regards his mother's opinion as all. However, when Ma Bao Nan entered the marriage hall, his identity instantly changed from a single man to a role that is both a husband and a son, how should they deal with the relationship between marriage and mother?
First of all, the uniqueness of Ma Bao men in marriage is often ** due to their deep emotional dependence on their mother. They seem to live under the emotional aura of their mother, and often have a high sensitivity to their mother's dissatisfaction, opinions, and even decisions. Many mom boys choose to seek help from their mothers when they encounter marital problems, rather than communicating directly with their wives. This choice is likely to exacerbate the conflict between the couple and create communication barriers for both parties.
Secondly, in marriage, Ma Bao Nan often hopes that his wife will also care for him as meticulously as his mother, and neglects his responsibilities as a husband. They often stand in the clouds, torn between their wives and mothers, unable to make decisions. This indecisive state undoubtedly increases the pressure on the wife to take on family responsibilities, resulting in more and more acute conflicts between husband and wife.
Finally, we can actually understand the psychology of Ma Bao Nan. They are just overly dependent on their mothers, unaware of their role as a man, and have not learned how to handle relationships, especially as husband and wife. What they really need is understanding and guidance, not denigration. Make them realize that as an adult, they need to face and solve various problems in their lives, and they cannot rely on their mother all the time. Let them know that as a husband, they need to respect and care for their wife, and work with her to face and solve difficulties in life.
The existence of Ma Bao Nan challenges our preconceived notions of marriage and the role of men. Every marriage needs to be understood, communicated and tolerated. For mom bao men, they need to learn how to deal with the relationship between mother and son and husband and wife, which is not achieved overnight, and requires time and patience. Only when they truly understand and respect marriage can they get out of their predicament and have a happy married life.