Parents and children are related by blood, and they are willing to give for their children, and they can even sacrifice everything for their children. Moreover, many elderly people think that their children are the only ones they can rely on in their old age, and when they are old, they can only rely on their children.
But the reality is not like this, as the saying goes, "young couples come to be companions", in their later years, only our spouses can be with us, when we are not feeling well, we have our spouses to take care of, when we are lonely, our spouses will accompany us to chat and relieve boredom, and our spouses will accompany us at every important moment in our lives.
No matter how filial the children are, they can't be like their wives, but there are many old people who don't understand this truth, and they are not good to their partners when they are young, even if the other party gives birth to a child for themselves, they are still unwilling to treat the other half as a family. 76-year-old Uncle Ge cried: "It took me most of my life to understand that the only person I could rely on in my later years was my wife. Next, let's take a look at Uncle Ge's story.
I'm 76 years old, and I've been married twice in my life. The first time I got married was introduced by my family, and my first wife and I were in an arranged marriage. But she was a very kind and virtuous woman, and I lived happily ever after I married her, and I gradually fell in love with her.
However, there are unforeseen circumstances, and after only five years of marriage, my wife got a serious illness and left me in a hurry, and I lost my wife and my son and my mother.
I have to go to work and take care of my children, so I can't take care of it. The child was not taken care of, and the class was not good. At that time, I wanted to send my children back to my hometown and let my parents help take care of them. But my parents refused me on the grounds that they had to take care of my brother's two children, and my mother said that they were both old and that it was already difficult to take care of the two children, and they really couldn't take care of one more.
Since my parents refused, I didn't embarrass them. At this time, my good brother gave me an idea to find another woman to remarry, so that someone would help take care of the children, and I would be able to make it easier.
I've been thinking about it for a long time, and this is really the best thing for me. So I quickly found someone to remarry, and my remarriage partner is my current wife. My wife also had a marriage before marrying me, and she chose to divorce because her ex-husband treated her badly and often beat and scolded her, and her parents-in-law always embarrassed her, and the whole family had to rely on her to support her.
As a result, her ex-husband was still not satisfied, and he was still with the woman outside behind her back. She found out that it took a lot of effort to get divorced, and after the divorce, she lived with her daughter.
After being with her for a while, I decided to remarry her. My wife is actually a very good woman, but at that time I was always worried that she would bully my son, because I heard that many stepmothers are not good people and often bully their stepsons and stepdaughters.
So my wife is a partner in my heart, and I have always been very reluctant to be close to her emotionally, even if we have a child later, I still don't have a little sincerity towards her.
The most important thing in my heart is the child I gave birth to, I was very good to my first son, basically what I wanted, special doting. And my wife is also very good to my son, never said that my son is not, every time my son has a conflict with the daughter she brought, she will protect my son and criticize her daughter.
The youngest son born to both of us was also given to the eldest son. In the past, many relatives and friends said that my wife was a good woman, and let me treat her more snacks and cherish them.
But I always didn't take their words seriously, I always thought that the two of us would part ways one day, and I never thought about treating my wife well. As a result, in my later years, I realized that the only person I could rely on when I was old was my son.
Originally, after I retired, I wanted to live with my eldest son, and he would provide for me in the future, and my property would be left to my eldest son. But my eldest son didn't want to provide for me at all, and when he heard that I wanted to go over, he refused, mainly because of his daughter-in-law.
My daughter-in-law's family is very rich, and our family is considered to be a high marriage. Since his son got married, his father-in-law bought a house for his son and daughter-in-law near their house, and the house was very large. I won't be crowded if I live alone, and my eldest daughter-in-law didn't want to live with my father-in-law, so my son refused without hesitation.
My wife's daughter doesn't have any affection for me as a stepfather, and we rarely cross paths, and we rarely speak. When she came back to see my wife, she usually came back while I wasn't at home.
The younger son also complained about me, thinking that I was too partial, thinking about the eldest son with all the good things, and his younger son had no weight in my heart. So after getting married, they didn't want to live with us, but chose to rent a house outside.
I can only live with my wife, in fact, my wife really takes care of me, I don't have to do housework, I usually want to eat, no matter how difficult it is, she will do it for me.
But no matter how nice she was to me, I didn't take it too seriously. It wasn't until something happened later that it completely changed my mind.
At the beginning of this year, I fell down the stairs and was a bit delayed and didn't get to the hospital in time. After going to the hospital for an examination, I found out that my leg was broken, because I couldn't get the ** in time, and the situation was more serious, I stayed in the hospital for nearly a month.
As soon as I was hospitalized, I called my eldest son **, but my eldest son told me that he and his daughter-in-law were traveling in other places, and there was really no way to come back, so my wife bothered more. After speaking, I hung up the ** without waiting for me to reply, and I didn't think about transferring some money to me later.
To be honest, no matter who encounters such a situation, it is a little chilling, is it important to travel with my wife to go back to see the hospitalized father? Besides, I have been so good to his son since I was a child, I can almost describe it as digging out my heart and lungs, but when I have something, he is not in a hurry at all.
My youngest son also refused to come to visit on the pretext that he was busy with work, and let my little daughter-in-law come to see him a few times. And the stepdaughter turned a blind eye to me, and didn't take my stepfather to heart at all.
The only one who is really good to me is my wife, who is so anxious that her mouth is foaming, and she is also taking care of me alone for a month. Every day I run around the hospital at home, and I lose more than a dozen pounds, but she never complains in the face of me, and always exposes me.
After I was discharged from the hospital, I was left with sequelae in my right leg, and I always limped when I walked. And you can't walk for a long time, you have to take a break every ten minutes, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable.
Since then, my wife has taken more care of me, as long as she can handle things well, she will never use them to bother me, and she will try her best to serve me every day, just to make my life more comfortable.
Because of my disability, I don't have a good temper, and I often get angry at my wife. But my wife has always endured it silently, and she is still so good to me, and she never thought of leaving me.
After living for most of my life, I realized that young couples are old companions, and my wife is the one I rely on in my old age, and she is the one who will never leave me. In the future, when I leave, all my property will be left to my wife, and I will never think about that white-eyed wolf son again.
Now my attitude towards my wife has changed, and we are now in harmony with our families, and we live happily every day, which is a life that I never dared to hope for.
I hope to be like me when I am old before I realize the importance of my wife, and I must be kind to my wife, because my wife is the person who can accompany us for a lifetime, and the two of us have to take care of each other and warm each other when we are old.