Rural parents have three babies, life could not have been tired, netizens sighed that they were incompetent and proud!
Many people are aware of a phenomenon: why do men tend to be more inclined to promote fertility in the family? The answer to this question is very simple, because they have not personally experienced the pain of childbirth and cannot understand the hardships of raising children.
Those who are willing to provide material help to future generations may be pressured to choose silence, while those who do not consider leaving any property, no matter how many children they have, will not add any burden to such men and will naturally feel at ease.
Of course, there are also some women who naturally like to take care of children. Although a lot of people insist"If you can't afford it, don't give birth", but she likes to take care of her three children alone.
Life could have been easier", a rural family shows a snippet of their three children growing up Urbanization is a clear goal and trend in the country in recent decades. One blogger noted that many young parents indulge in nostalgia because they grew up in times of great change.
Many college students are aware of the distance from the village to the city, and that today's college students may grow up with little concept of rural life. However, this may only be a partial view of city life.
In fact, there are still many rural areas. Education and living environment have become a major obstacle for rural students to change their fate. Therefore, as long as the conditions improve slightly, many parents will be keen to bring their children to the city to work.
There are also some families holding it"Happy"Attitudes, such as a mother who records the bits and pieces of her children's growth. She wrote:"Life could have been easier, but we chased too much. "Between the lines, there is a feeling of indifference to fame and fortune.
However, the indifference of Tao Yuanming, Li Bai and others can be said to be an eternal story. However, if we turn our perspective to the women in the village, and then look at the environment behind the children and the tanned **, we will come to a different evaluation.
The child gulped down the noodles, but it aroused the sympathy of many netizens. Such living conditions make one wonder why they don't blame themselves for not providing better material conditions for their children, but instead become complacent?
Parents are"Be open-minded"Still"Not enlightened"？Netizen comments: How helpless it is to be proud of inaction. There is a famous saying: It doesn't matter if you don't have money, what you are most afraid of is that you have nothing, but you deceive yourself and are indifferent to fame and fortune. Many parents said that it was unbearable, because of the self-proclaimed open-minded mother's mentality, netizens complained: This is nothing to do without self-esteem.
As the times progress, so must the standards for educating future generations. In the seventies and eighties of the last century, these conditions could have been justified, because at that time everyone was struggling. But nowadays, with the improvement of social standards, haven't parents realized this?
Therefore, many netizens bluntly said that if it were themselves, they would never accept such conditions, and it is difficult to imagine why this mother would choose to have three children. Even she herself said frankly: Others think it's hard to raise one, where did I get the courage to give birth to three?
Actually, the answer is very simple, because"others"The standard is to provide accommodation for students in the city, while for more demanding students, it is to find a school district in advance in order to get a better education. In addition to learning knowledge, children's hobbies are also fully supported.
This also includes what kind of university to choose after the college entrance examination, how much gift money and donations are involved in studying in ** and getting married. If you ignore these aspects, just care"Food and clothing", naturally do not feel"The pressure is high"。
Some families do not plan to send their children to prestigious schools, believing that going to college is not the same as making a lot of money, so they simply choose not to pay tuition. When their children grow up, they are treated as workers.
For many urban families, especially those in big cities, this notion can be difficult to understand. But in fact, some rural parents want their children to be in the workforce and paid wages from an early age.
Especially in families with multiple children, some parents believe that their daughters will go out to work and use their own income to help their sons save money to buy a house and pay the bride price. This shifts the financial pressure onto the parents, thus"Encouraged"They choose to have more children.
If you had a choice, would you be willing to be part of such a family? Each family has its own standards for raising children, and there are currently no local regulations that stipulate that if a family's assets fall below a certain level, they cannot have children. However, most netizens do not fully agree with the mother's opinion.
A straightforward review to get straight to the point:"Would you be willing to be part of the family if you had a choice? After much deliberation, many parents may answer no.
Although some families in difficulty have chosen to have three children, and this is now being encouraged. However, what if, from the perspective of future generations, fulfilling the wishes of their parents means that students have to live harder lives than most of their peers?
In our culture, parenting is often considered the most important thing, and few people put their children's views first. Therefore, this is also the reason why many families make rash decisions. Of course, one cannot generalize.
The author looked at the rest of the mother, who, in fact, was not in a bad condition in her home. The three children were often able to eat fish and fresh fruit. This at least shows that this mom cares deeply about the health and safety of her children, despite the simple but safe meals. What's more, she did not complain about the children's education, but accompanied them well.
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