In the TV series "Parents' Love", Ge Meixia, played by Liu Mintao, was born in a family of fishermen, and has had superior educational resources and good upbringing since she was a child, and Ge Meixia is beautiful and talented, is a rare cultural person on the island, and has served as a teacher. Her life was supposed to be full of hope and beauty, but her origins became an insurmountable obstacle.
On the island, she was criticized for her origins, and became the object of criticism and ridicule. Her students disliked her because of who she was, and her family members were alienated from her, which put her under great pressure in her work and social interactions.
When she saw that An Jie, who was from a similar background to her, could enjoy everyone's respect on the island and live like an official's wife, it made Ge Meixia feel extremely unbalanced, she felt that she was no worse than An Jie, and even better in some aspects. However, this longing has become a long-standing longing in her heart.
How much she hoped to live An Jie's life, even if it was a day, she did not hesitate to keep herself single until she was over half a hundred years old, and then she married Wang Zhenbiao, who disliked her background, and after Wang Zhenbiao retired, she spent her old age with him in the dry rest house.
The two are inseparable and live a leisurely life, whether it is buying ingredients or participating in fitness activities, they are particularly moisturized and comfortable.
However, An Jie, who lived a privileged life when he was young, had to take on the responsibility of taking care of his granddaughter and Jiang Defu's daily life in his later years. Whenever she was tired from being tossed by children, she always complained to Jiang Defu: "Look at the life of Teacher Ge, that is the best time for a woman." ”
Jiang Defu countered: "You have worked hard for most of your life to become a house-filler, and you haven't even given birth to a child, what kind of good days do you think she has?" ”
In fact, Jiang Defu's insight is not groundless. As early as many years ago, when they revisited Songshan Island, Dehua had already seen through the misfortunes hidden behind the apparent happiness of the halfway couple, Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao.
When they boarded the boat to Songshan Island, Ouyang Yi, who had been devastated by being sent to a remote island, was excited, and energetically shuttled around the boat, either fishing or enjoying the wonderful scenery of the bow of the boat riding the wind and waves.
As the aboriginal of the island, Ge Meixia is full of resistance and rejection towards this small island, complaining that she doesn't know who suddenly decided to come to this place.
is also oppressed because of his background, why can Ouyang Yi face the past calmly, but Ge Meixia is reluctant to talk more?
Ge Meixia said softly: "People's memories are different. ”
The upright Dehua ruthlessly revealed her thoughts: "How can you be a memory, clearly holding a grudge!" ”
Ge Meixia smiled silently and did not refute.
After more than ten years of envy and jealousy, the appearance of Lao Ding made the longing in her heart gradually become clear. When Lao Ding confessed to her, she began to fantasize that one day she could live a life like An Jie.
However, due to her family background, Lao Ding eventually gave up pursuing her. After the breakup, he married Teckwah instead, became the commander's brother-in-law, and had a daughter.
And she, in addition to the pain of being abandoned, also has to face the cynicism of the islanders. The daughter of a fishing tyrant actually wants to marry the chief of staff, which is undoubtedly a fool's dream.
Ge Meixia is full of unspeakable resentment towards Lao Ding. And the change in her attitude towards An Jie also began at the moment when Lao Ding married Dehua.
Before Ge Meixia broke up with Lao Ding, the friendship between her and An Jie was full of respect. However, after breaking up with Lao Ding, she didn't dare to express her dissatisfaction with Lao Ding, so she poured out her resentment on An Jie.
When the painter came to the island to sketch, she cleverly connected the two despite knowing that rumors were circulating on the island about him and An Jie. What's even more incredible is that she also privately invited the painter to An Jie's house for coffee, which triggered a conflict between Jiang Defu and An Jie.
Since then, Ge Meixia has maintained a high quality of singleness. It wasn't until she was nearly old that Wang Zhenbiao's original wife Zhang Guiying passed away, and Wang Zhenbiao returned to being single and proposed to her that she decided to marry him. In their married life, Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao are inseparable.
The interpersonal relationship of the Wang family is relatively simple, so Wang Zhenbiao finally married a cultural woman as he wished. His care and companionship for Ge Meixia also greatly exceeded his attitude towards Zhang Guiying in the past.
Spending time with Ge Meixia makes Wang Zhenbiao proud and satisfied. Even though they are a halfway couple, their days are enviable.
Especially the ladies who are trapped at home to take care of their granddaughters are deeply envious of Ge Meixia. Now she has leisure and money, she doesn't have to worry about trivial matters, and she works out and plays with her grandchildren every day. She even ran to An Jie's side from time to time, showing off her close relationship with her daughter-in-law, like her own daughter.
However, is her marriage really as happy as it seems?
If happiness is really overflowing, and the heart should be full of peace and tranquility, then there is no need to show off. If you are truly happy, your existing life satisfaction is enough to erase nostalgia for the past.
Just as An Jie has been entangled in Zhang Guilan's affairs for many years, but when she saw Zhang Guilan's wrinkled face, curved body, and more than ten years older than Jiang Defu, she suddenly became enlightened. Because she has enough emotional and material wealth to let her go of the slightest bond in her heart.
The same goes for Ouyang Yi. In the past, he was the pride of the sky, but he was degraded because he was sent to the island to work as a dock porter. However, after taking off his hat and resuming his identity, he is still the proud and proud talent. In his own words: "That's not for everyone to be a supplier." His uninhibited tone revealed great confidence and pride.
On the way to Songshan Island, Dehua's conversation with Ge Meixia reveals her deep reluctance and resentment. She harbored hatred and was full of resentment towards Lao Ding.
Lao Ding was the first and only man in her life to pour out her true feelings, however, he abandoned her for fear of being dragged down by the identity of the fisherman's daughter. In the end, Lao Ding married a wife and had children and lived a happy life, but she was always alone.
Ge Meixia's hatred for Wang Zhenbiao is even deeper. Although she later married Wang Zhenbiao, whose status was higher than Jiang Defu and Lao Ding, what was the significance of those superficial vanities to a woman like her, who was nearly fifty years old? Even if Wang Zhenbiao took good care of her, he couldn't make up for the lonely years and gossip she endured alone in those years.
If Wang Zhenbiao hadn't obstructed her on the grounds of her background, she could have had a happy marriage and children. However, fate made people, and the happiness in hand came to naught in Wang Zhenbiao's insertion. Because of this, Ge Meixia said: "When I think of the days on the island, I can't help but feel pain. ”
The pain she experienced on the island was not the only one, but the biggest pain was undoubtedly the ruthless destruction of her originally beautiful marriage with Lao Ding, and then spent a long time alone, and finally could only become a housefiller.
Therefore, Ge Meixia's seemingly happy old age is actually a compromise in helplessness.
Since she has a grudge against Wang Zhenbiao, why did she choose to marry him?
Ge Meixia once confessed to An Jie that if she can live her ideal life, even if it is only one day, this life will not be in vain!
Coincidentally, Wang Zhenbiao is the one who can make her dream come true, and although he knows his bad conduct, he can ensure that she is carefree for the rest of her life.
Women who are nearly 50 years old, in addition to longing for a stable old age, what else do they want?
Love, in addition to emotional comfort, also contains the value of life. What's more, she is no longer the age when she fell in love when she was young.
Therefore, she chose to get married, not to love, but to life itself.
Although I was displeased by her actions, I was in awe of her tenacity and perseverance.
Even in an unsatisfactory marriage, she can still live a picturesque life in a unique way, which makes An Jie envious.
Marriage, this so-called "happiness", is actually a choice. If you are convinced that life will get better and better, you will welcome it with a positive attitude; On the other hand, if you are always complaining, you can always find countless excuses.
In order to better integrate into the Wang family, Ge Meixia did not hesitate to offend An Jie, but also worked hard to promote the marriage of Wang Haiyang and Yafei. In order to please Wang Zhenbiao, she even gave up her freedom and took the initiative to help take care of her grandson.
Under all the grievances and dissatisfactions, she has always maintained gentleness and tenacity, making life as bright as the morning light. Ge Meixia, she is the real ruthless. February** Dynamic Incentive Program