Love is like a game, people who are good at taking the initiative will definitely be able to have happy love, but men are like children who need attention, attention and warm words, and only by encouraging them with actions and actions can they be happy. Maintain your feelings. Passion for you.
As Goethe said, love has a magical power in words. If you want to win a man's heart, you can enter his heart through words.
First you need to tell him, "I'm proud of you. ”
When my husband and I were dating, we talked about our future. At the time, we were both still looking for work, and he looked depressed and worried about not being able to give me the life he wanted. I told him that whatever decision he made, I would be proud of him.
He asked me with a wry smile, would I be proud if I went to pick up the trash? I told him in all seriousness that as long as I worked hard for my future family, I would be proud of whatever I did.
These words may have touched him. He assured me that he would not let me be treated unfairly. We've been dating for five years now, his work is getting better and better, and I'm getting more and more proud of his growth and progress.
Second, let him feel your deep trust in him.
I believe in you" has magical power for men. I remember one time a male reader behind me said he was very grateful to his wife. It turned out that he used to be a troubled child and had experienced a lot of embarrassing experiences before getting married.
However, every time relatives and friends talk about it in front of his wife, she always answers with a smile and trust. She told her husband that she believed he would change and become a better person after marriage. This trust became his motivation for change. Just when I was about to give up, I remembered the trust my wife placed in me and stood up.
Finally, say "thank you".
The scariest thing about a relationship is that one person takes the other person's contribution for granted, while the other person only enjoys it. If this happens, their love for each other will turn cold. A woman who really knows how to handle interpersonal relationships well will not take a man's kindness for granted, but will be grateful.
My aunt and uncle have always had a good relationship. After getting married and having children, my aunt became a housewife and relied on her uncle to support the family. Every time my uncle came back from a business trip, he would bring gifts to my aunt. My aunt is always happy and grateful, and even posted on WeChat to thank her uncle for his love. When asked why she was so nice to her uncle, she replied that it was because she knew how to express gratitude that made the relationship last.
In other words, if you want to win a man's heart, you need to pay attention to him and encourage him with warm words and actions, while if you want the relationship to last, you need to give and appreciate each other.