Someone in the TV series "Do You Know" once explained that Minglan sent Dantang to marry because she had the idea of being a concubine. However, in fact, Minglan has long understood that her heart still belongs to her cousin, and the reason why she married Danju is to sacrifice her personal happiness to protect her master. Since Minglan understands Dantang's sincerity, why would she be allowed to marry?The answer is hidden in a cloth pocket that Dan Tang made for Minglan a few years ago. When Danju was ready to go out, she came to say goodbye to Minglan .
She choked up and said, "I remember that back then, girl, you always liked to sit on the pillar railing in front of the porch and read. ”。Minglan also recalled: "Yes, you also made me a cloth pocket with rags overnight, for fear that I would fall." ”。Dan Tang said quite embarrassedly: "But the cloth pocket is not done firmly, and it cracks, causing you to fall a lot, girl." Later, Fang's mother said that when the girl was sitting unsteadily, not only did not persuade me, but also made bad ideas. ”。
Minglan also had tears in her eyes, and said with a smile that she had been lying in pain for three days, and Dan Tang cried for three days, and when she was better, Dan Tang fell again. In the end, Dan Tang asked Minglan to pull the hook to ensure that he would no longer sit on the column railing, and this matter was over. This conversation reveals three reasons why Minglan had to give up on Dantang. First of all, Tantachi overestimated his own abilities. Needless to say, Dan Tang showed extremely sincere emotions for Minglan and could even be said to be pampered.
Based on such feelings, she wanted to make Minglan happier, so she instinctively followed her and made cloth pockets for her. However, for the sake of Minglan really speaking, she should be as Fang's mother said, bluntly warn and avoid risks, instead of trying to use her own strength to "hold" risks. The result?The cloth pocket was not done firmly, but it caused Minglan to fall and be injured. This doesn't mean that Dan Tang is "soft-spoken", thinking that he can shield Minglan from the wind and rain by becoming Gu Tingye's concubine, but the result is likely to backfire.
Minglan who has experienced a "broken cloth pocket" and was injured, how can she take such a risk again?Second, she may inadvertently come up with a "bad idea". Although a cloth pocket was used to prevent Minglan from falling off the pillar railing, it didn't seem to be a big deal at first glance. However, the problem was that the tachibana was made of rags, and there were many seams, so it was inevitably not strong, so it turned out to be a "bad idea". This shows that she did not think things through.
Later, when everyone discussed the dangers that Gu Tingye might face, she actually said with a little pride: "Our Hou Ye is the brother of King Huan, and he has also saved the current saint, what are we afraid of?"”。Cuiwei and Xiao Tao were surprised when they heard this. Minglan, the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, turned pale, and severely reprimanded her for the first time: "Shut up, don't talk nonsense, don't say such things again in the future!."She originally wanted to give advice to Minglan and tell her that she had a backer and should not be too anxious, but were such words wise?
Dan Tang looked blankly, not knowing what was going on, which made Minglan sigh. As the personal envoy of the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, although her salary has risen, her thinking and vigilance have not increased, which makes Minglan very headache. In the end, she became a burden to Minglan instead. Minglan lay in bed for three whole days, and even cried by the bedside for three days, after the "Cloth Pocket" incident. It is conceivable that Minglan not only has to deal with her own pain, but also comforts Dantang, who is emotionally broken.
When Minglan was still a girl, she might follow Dan Tang out of fun and companionship, but now as the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, she is in a place full of dark arrows, she is very busy, and she still has the energy to take care of Dan Tangerine?The core idea of Tachibana has always been "I want to help you in the way I think is right". However, if there is no wisdom to bless, such a state of mind will not only be useless in the current turbulent Hou Mansion, but may be exploited by the enemy.
Minglan had already seen through all this, so she decisively married Dan Tangerine, which not only prevented her from becoming a victim, but also preserved the sisterhood. There is a saying in the "Zengguang Xianwen": "Don't overburden yourself when your strength is weak, and don't advise others when your status is low." "Before you have the exact strength, it's best not to rush to solve problems for others, otherwise, just like Dantang, good intentions may be exchanged for bad results, which will make both parties feel depressed. Epilogue. (*All from the TV series "Know", if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)