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Speaking of the relationship between the little grandfather and Minglan , it is a plot that makes many viewers uneasy in the whole play, some people say that the little grandfather has tried his best to fight for this relationship, if there is no little grandfather's mother whose heart is higher than the sky, the little grandfather and Minglan can be together, and there is nothing to do with the second uncle. In fact, the obstacle between the little grandfather and Minglan has never been the lord of Pingning, but the reality of the gap between the family, the situation of the mansion, and the naivety of the little grandfather.
01 The Divide of the Gate
Objectively speaking, it is not so much the obstacle between the little grandfather and Minglan as the lord of Pingning, but the gap between the lord of Pingning and the family generally recognized by the society at that time. Even in modern society,Marriage is also about the right family, What's more, in the dynasty at that time, although some people married high and some people married low, the gap between the little grandfather and Minglan was not a star and a half. The little grandfather's Qi State Mansion, which is out of the royal family, has the highest title, one level higher than the marquis of Gu Eruncle's family, the little grandfather's mother, the county lord of Pingning, was raised by the queen, and her status is even higher than that of the ordinary mansion, such a family can be described as a unique dignity.
And what about the Sheng family, the old lady Sheng with the highest family background is also from the Hou Mansion, the old lady was married at the time, and now the master Sheng is a civil official, but it is only five grades, and there are several levels in between, thisThe difference between the door and the bottom is not half a star。Even Lin Xiaoniang, who was favored by Master Sheng, proposed that she intended to let Mo Lan marry into the mansion, and Master Sheng asked her not to daydream, not to mention, Minglan is just a girl from the Sheng family, and it is already good to find someone to be a big lady, not to mention marrying into such a high family and being a big lady, it is really a bit of a fool's dream.
02 The stormy situation of the Qi State Mansion
Let's talk about the situation of the Duke of Qi, although the Duke of Qi is high in the eyes of outsiders, but the situation is also very worrying, you must know that the rise and fall of a big family must be the result of the painstaking management of each generation.
In the generation of the county lord of Pingning, although her status is noble enough, the husband is not taken seriously, and she is not an important official position in the court, and the status of the public government depends on the hard support of the county lord alone in order to maintain the family statusAnd the little grandfather is the only son of the princess, and the responsibility of the prosperous family in the future will all fall on the shoulders of the little grandfather alone.
Looking at the current situation of the dynasty, the emperor has not established an heir, which has led to the unstable situation in the DPRK and China, and all forces are secretly competing with each other, and they will inevitably expand their power through marriages and other forms. Although the Duke of Qi is noble, after all, it is also under the royal family, and the Duke Mansion is the only one of its honor, plus the little grandfather is an only son and is outstanding, he will inevitably be targeted by a certain force, in that caseThe Duke of Qi can only maneuver in the cracks, and there is not much room for independent decision-making.
03 The innocence of the little grandfather
The situation of the government and the reality of the situation in the DPRK and China decided that it was destined to be difficult for the little grandfather to choose marriage according to his own heart. These are all truths that the county lord of Pingning is well aware of, but although she has educated an excellent and obedient son, she has protected her son too well, so that he has no ability to analyze reality, resulting in a lot of naïve thoughts about her marriage, and doing a lot of childish behavior in order to pursue the marriage she wants.
First of all, the county lord of Pingning has a lack of education for the little grandfather
In the eyes of the county lord of Pingning, the little grandfather is still a child, and if he is educated well, he will become a talent. But the little grandfather has reached the age of starting a family, and he has always been protected too well, pampered since he was a child, and he has never seen the sinister affairs of the world.
At the same time, many of the difficulties that the county lord of Pingning himself beared, never mentioned to his son, causing an estrangement between his son and himself. If the current situation of the Duke of Qi was informed as soon as possible, it would not have caused the little grandfather to behave childishly again and again. In fact, the little grandfather liked Minglan and the lord knew it for a long time, but she just indulged and sent the wrong signal to the little grandfather, thinking that it was possible for herself and Minglan to be possible, which caused the little grandfather to frequently promise Minglan and finally failed her. Why did the county lord indulge his son's behavior?Because she didn't feel the need to care, but she didn't know, she overestimated how much control she had over the situation.
Secondly, the lord of Binh Ninh overestimated his grasp of the situation
The county lord felt that he could easily solve Minglan , and then mediate between the Rong family and Princess Yong, who threw an olive branch to her at the same time, to make the most beneficial choice for the family.
But the Sheng family may be easy to solve, but the situation in the court is not under her control, Princess Yong even blatantly abducted Rong Feiyan for her daughter, and finally ended up committing suicide. also blatantly detained the Duke of Qi for no reason, forced the little grandfather to come to the door in person, and threatened him to agree to the marriage.
The situation has developed to the point where it is not a situation where you decide who to marry or not, but a situation where if you don't marry Princess Yong's sister, the life of the family is in danger. At the moment,The little grandfather finally recognized the reality from his innocence, and at that moment, his marriage and even his life could not be decided by himself.
If the little grandfather could be as sober as Minglan and recognize the situation as soon as possible, not express his heart to Minglan frequently, and not show his face with her, maybe Minglan would not be sad because he was let down, and he would not fall into a joke after dinner.
Therefore, the biggest obstacle for the little grandfather and Minglan has never been the lord of Pingning, but the objective reality of the family and the naivety of the pampered little grandfather who has not gone through the world. We often say that things are man-made, and man will conquer the sky, but it is more important to have a clear understanding of reality. The efforts made after recognizing the situation are the icing on the cake, and the blind efforts that do not recognize the situation are like hitting a stone with an eggIn the end, we will inevitably hit a wall, which is a revelation to our real life.