My father-in-law died of a serious illness, and I didn't go back to mourn, but 5 years later, my mother was sick and hospitalized, and I woke up.
Your mom found out that it wasn't good, and you had to rush to the hospital as soon as possible. "This morning, I was in a meeting when I was suddenly interrupted by a rush of ** ringing. I glanced at my phone and found that it was my aunt's call.
This is the first time my aunt has called me **, which makes me a little confused, what exactly does she want to express? Hasn't my mom always been nice? How could they end up in a private hospital? Despite some doubts, I rushed to the address given by my aunt and found the hospital.
Finding out that my mother was receiving an infusion, she smiled when she saw me, "I'm fine, don't worry, don't listen to your little aunt scare you." "I was full of doubts, after all, my mother has always been healthy, how could she suddenly have a problem? Could it be that this hospital is deceiving us?
Little aunt, why did you choose this private hospital, there is a tertiary hospital near your home, why don't you go there to see a doctor? I couldn't help but ask. "Oh, my neighbor is working here, and it just so happens that your mother called me last night and said that I was a little uncomfortable eating too many beans, and my neighbor happened to come to this hospital with me today to see cataracts, so I called your mother over by the way. ”
Your mother's lab results are not very good, and the doctor is looking for you. The little aunt hurriedly told me. I hurried into the chief doctor's office, and in reality, I didn't have much trust in the hospital. In order to save face for my aunt, I decided to talk to the doctor.
You're his son, I'm telling you, your mom now looks like she has terminal stomach cancer, and I suggest you consider going to a better hospital. "What? That's impossible! My mom is usually fine except for a little bloating. "Don't worry, you come and take a look at these. The doctor took out an X-ray of my mom that had just been taken, pointed to a specific area and told me that it didn't look good.
On the day I was scheduled to transfer to a hospital, I decided to transfer my mom to a major hospital. In addition to my mother, I was accompanied by X-rays of her. However, what made me feel heavy was that the final diagnosis report turned out to be the same as the previous private hospital.
At this moment, it was as if the sky had fallen. Mom is not yet 70 years old, a strong and optimistic person. At this age, she should have enjoyed the tranquility of her old age, but fate was not very fair to her. My dad used to say, "Your mom is a prime minister and she worries about a lot of things, but the thing that worries her the most is how to keep making money." ”
My mother was a master businessman, and her business was unbeatable. Young people admired her. But now she is sick, and I dare not tell her what she is sick with. This happened in our house a few years ago. My wife and I have been married for 10 years, and my father-in-law passed away from cancer five years ago.
His wife was born in a scholarly family in Jiangnan, and his father-in-law was a high-level intellectual. Five years ago, he suddenly noticed blurred vision, and his family did not notice the abnormality at first, but his father-in-law insisted on going to the hospital for a check-up. My wife and I live in Shanghai and rarely go back to the small town in the south of the Yangtze River. Since we were busy with work, my father-in-law asked the nanny to accompany us to the hospital in order not to disturb us.
A week later, the results of the examination came back, and the hospital informed the wife that the results of the examination of her father-in-law showed that there may be nerve compression and recommended brain surgery. Cranial surgery is a big decision. After discussing with my wife, we realized that only one old nanny at home was not enough to take care of her, so we decided to go home together. The wife said that the old nanny was always with them, like a member of the family.
Although intracranial surgery is a major measure, with the advancement of medical technology, we are considering taking my husband to Shanghai for acceptance. My husband followed our advice and came to Shanghai for a comprehensive inspection. However, the results of the examination revealed a more serious condition than intracranial surgery.
At this point, the condition is irreversible. The doctor told us that surgery was no longer necessary. In order not to worry too much, we chose to hide the truth from him, lying that the diagnosis of the hometown hospital may be wrong, and it is normal for the elderly to have aging eyes.
The old man is a clear-minded man, and he and his nanny spent a quiet time in Shanghai. Before going back, he said to us, "It's okay, I'll go back." You must work hard and contribute more to the unit. "For my wife, it was painful, but for me, who is busy with work, it seems to be more relaxed. Although I was not an unfilial person, my filial piety at that time was diluted by the heavy work. Looking back, I really didn't have a deep understanding.
Less than a year later, the old man died suddenly. He was in good shape that day, and he was very healthy for a week, so we didn't expect him to leave so suddenly. I was on a business trip abroad, and after my father-in-law fell ill and passed away, I couldn't get back to the funeral in time. By the time I returned home, my wife had already gone through the funeral with her relatives back home.
I couldn't find the right way to express my wife's pain. I think she must have been under a huge psychological burden at the time, however, five years later, when my mother fell ill and was hospitalized, my wife and I stood together and faced the difficulties together. It was at this time that I deeply realized the common weal and suffering between husband and wife. Later, we found a general surgeon in the hospital, who had a high authority in the stomach and intestines, and performed the operation for my mother.
The day before the surgery, we ran into this doctor at the billing office. We asked him, "Doctor, what is my mother's condition?" Is it possible**? The doctor replied, "All I can tell you is that I am ready for everything." I perform thousands of these surgeries every year, so I'm going to do my best. ”
My wife and I stared blankly, silent.
The operation lasted from noon to late at night, and my wife and I sat nervously in the waiting area, not daring to leave a single step for fear that the doctor would call us at any time. The ambivalence of expecting the doctor's call and worrying about the doctor calling us from the operating room in person was a source of distraction and I couldn't find a way to deal with it.
After 7 hours of anxiety, the doctor finally asked us to go to his office.
The hospital was a labyrinth, and we got lost in it, and our steps seemed to be infused with lead. The doctor whispered, "Your mother's surgery was very successful and the whole process was well organized. With that, the doctor showed the "trophies" of the operation. I was too afraid to look at it out of fear, but my wife was undaunted and bluntly described what the hateful thing looked like.
As my mother was escorted into the ward, my hanging heart finally breathed a sigh of relief. At this moment, I hugged my wife tightly beside me, tears welling up in my eyes, and I whispered to her, "It's good to have you!" ”