I like a passage very much:
"The road is long, there is a way back, this road is far away and anxious in the world, you and I are safe and happy. Time is changing, people are also changing, those who can't move their backs must be put down, those who can't afford to hurt must be looked down, those who can't figure it out must be reconciled, and those who can't be hated must be smoothed.
Life is a process of continuous cultivation, why use this uneven heart to look down on people and things, practice yourself, but also live up to the years, the world is as short as a dream, may we cherish people and things! ”
I used to think that since I came to the world, I should live a vigorous life.
In this world where the road is far away, it seems that if you don't make some achievements, you will be sorry for this only once life.
As a result, some people worked hard and struggled like a desperate Saburo; As a result, even if someone hits his head and bleeds, he is still happy in it.
In this complicated world, some people are blinded by desire and have long forgotten why they set out, and many people have lost themselves and forgotten their original intentions.
The spirit of never admitting defeat is admirable, but in this busy world, you should also love yourself.
Reminds me of a lyric from "Mortal Song":
"You and I are mortal, born in the world. Running around all day long, there is no time to be idle. ”
Yes, throughout our lives, we are working hard for our ideals, running for survival, and not being idle for the expectations of our families.
Rolling red dust, we are constantly cultivating ourselves, cultivating a strong heart, cultivating our own abilities, hoping that we have extraordinary skills and an enviable life.
Some people can get their wish and live their ideal life; Some people are crushed by the burdens of life and become decadent and restless; Even if some people encounter countless critical hits, they still don't give up and keep running.
There are hundreds of millions of people in this world, how can everyone get their wish.
Wang Guozhen wrote in "The Charm of the Ordinary":
"I will not despise the ordinary, because I am a member of the ordinary, my heart is imprinted with the wishes of ordinary people, my eyes are imprinted with the joys and sorrows of ordinary people, and what I seek is also the answer that people are seeking. ”
Life is inherently unpredictable and elusive, impermanence is the everyday, and the ordinary is the norm.
Even if we are born ordinary and live an ordinary life, it still does not prevent us from living well.
Born, growing up, studying, working, getting married, having children, and then quietly leaving, this is the life of most people.
Many people can't live this life well because they have too many desires to torture themselves, and they always want to fight against the ordinary, but they live an ordinary life in the ordinary years.
Some people always think that happiness is to have a car and a house, but the real happiness is actually to be able to sleep in their own bed, have a small career, be safe and stable, and there are no strong winds and waves.
Life is a practice, refining the heart in the red dust, and being the truest self in the world.
Many times, those tangled people and things are actually not called things at all, what the other party loves me or not, I was reprimanded by the boss, I didn't do well in the exam, I failed in the business, and once I wanted to open it, it would become indifferent.
In this world, no one can torture himself, but he will do it.
Those endless regrets and self-blame, those long-term hesitation and confusion, will make people deaf and blind, will make people lose their direction, and will make people stumble.
The so-called growth is to swallow some grievances, constantly improve one's vision and pattern, study hard, take one's own path, continue to develop and improve, and that's it.
Life needs small pieces of beauty and surprises, and being a man needs to heal yourself.
There is no empathy in this world, many times, we have to digest negative emotions by ourselves, and keep moving forward and upward on the premise of loving life.
Time is changing, people are also changing, and the years are always silent and without a trace.
When we come to this world, we leave this world with our bare hands, and we can't take a single grass or tree with us.
Three thousand prosperity is finally silent, and with a flick of a finger, it is a lifetime.
Without a healthy life, prosperity and wealth are in vain, and without a quiet heart, happiness is just a luxury.
If you can't carry it, you might as well put it down; If you can't afford to hurt, you might as well look down; If you can't figure it out, it's better not to think about it, don't look back, don't be anxious, let go of the obsession and gains and losses in your heart, and move forward easily.
Now you are already very good as long as you are healthy, not sick or sick, your parents are alive, you are accompanied by friends, you are accompanied by loved ones, you have children around your knees, you can occasionally have a big meal, and occasionally you can sleep until you wake up naturally.
May we cherish the people in front of us, cherish the current life, take good care of our bodies, don't put things in our hearts, stay content, and be happy in this life!
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