A poet said: "It is impossible for everyone to be a captain. Someone had to be a sailor. It's not about what you do, it's about you doing the best you do. "Dreams. Persistence is success.
We live in a highly competitive society. We have to deal with all kinds of people and things every day. We are busy every day and have endless things to do every day, which makes us mentally exhausted and stressed. Mentally burdened and stressful. Why don't you want to give up? Because you want to try to be the best version of yourself.
A year before the pandemic, I chose to give up my stable job and quit my job to start a business with my friends. In the first year after the pandemic, I was in debt, and in recent years, instead of getting better, my life has gone from bad to worse, and I myself have been in trouble.
Facing the apocalypse, I began to examine my desires and passions, not just my bank card balance or title deed footprint, and learned how to reduce the noise of the noisy world around me. Please listen quietly to the voice in my heart, the voice, I am no longer anxious, no longer internal, no longer comparing, calmly face the gains and losses, accept my imperfections, no wind, frost and rain. I tolerate everything in life.
After a few days of inner weakness and conflict, I realized what I had been working so hard for. As I was overwhelmed by reality and everyday life, I wondered how long I would have lived. In this confused and desperate situation, I went through the most painful moment of my life, but I still have a family and responsibilities, so I didn't choose to end my life. Are people who are not even afraid of death still afraid of life?
Through life and death, we understand the importance of health, and through loss and gain, we understand the importance of indifference. Being yourself simply and easily is the most beautiful and happiest state in life.
A magician said, "You have to allow everything to happen, you have to allow yourself to go in the wrong direction, you have to allow yourself to meet the wrong people, everything has its cause and effect, you have to work towards it, and the result will change." ”
In fact, there are no shortcuts in life. Everything needs to be worked on. What you give doesn't necessarily mean what you'll get in return. How you approach life determines what life will give you. Life always pushes us to grow, and time pushes us step by step. We're going to have a lot of setbacks, a lot of pain, a lot of pain.
But I want to tell myself, "Don't be afraid," and that's what helped me grow. You may shed tears because you have chosen the wrong path in life, go through undeserved hardships, or you may experience pain and sorrow because you love the wrong person, don't be discouraged. Everything in this world has a fate, and what you miss in life will definitely get. Along the way, we may miss the warmth of spring, but we can also harvest unexpected scenery. So be it. There is no hopelessness in life, once overcome, it is another world. Even in difficult times, we must learn to look for a silver lining and always maintain a peaceful mind.
When I was younger, I didn't want to believe in the power of time, I always wanted to run faster, and I thought that as long as I worked hard, I could conquer nature. It is only in middle age that people understand that sometimes you have to learn, it doesn't matter, and sometimes the best thing to do is to take your time, wait, slow down.
I am not afraid in the first half of my life, and I have no regrets in the second half of my life. I respect everything in the past. I chose the wrong path, said the wrong thing, loved the wrong people, and you made me who I am today. For the rest of your life, walk slowly and live simply. Time flies and our lives become complicated, but don't forget those little joys. Slow down and appreciate the beauty of life, just as we eat and sleep every day. Let go of inner jealousy and fear, let go of attachment and worry, and learn to appreciate the beauty in front of you.
Life is like this, there are ups and downs, whether intentional or not, we have to have faith in ourselves. When we reach middle age, no matter what kind of tribulations we encounter, we need to maintain peace and peace in our hearts, slow down the pace of life, and sometimes a simple lifestyle can make us feel happy and happy, making life more fulfilling. With taste, life has a better start.