Why do we feel injustice? When we work hard for the cause and get a certain degree of success and honor, our hearts are full of pride and joy. Because we are not getting the reward we deserve for our efforts. When we worry about our children, but we don't get their children's gratitude, your heart will be upset. When we give wholeheartedly to the people we love, but we don't get a loving response, we feel aggrieved; We feel aggrieved when we take care of our parents wholeheartedly and do not receive the gratitude of our siblings; When we think about our friends in every way, but we can't get the gratitude of our friends, our hearts are filled with grievances, and this grievances constantly torment us.
In the TV series "Heavenly Dao" starring Wang Zhiwen and Zuo Xiaoqing (the play is based on the mysterious writer Doudou's ** "Distant Savior"), *Ying will not feel wronged in the face of the misunderstanding of his brother and sister, Ye Xiaoming and the other two people who ran away, and even in the face of the accusations of people of insight. So, why did he make such a choice? I think this should be caused by the grievances in his heart. When I read what ** Ying said to Liu Bing, I suddenly understood the meaning, and the dissatisfaction and grievances in my heart dissipated.
When **Ying planned to sell Glushi audio at a lower price**, Ye Xiaoming resolutely retorted: "Brother Ding, Lesheng treats us really generously, as long as we say a word, others will agree, meet all our requirements, and there are many discounts on **." Are we doing this to make people in the industry unhappy? *Ying expressed this view: "Le Sheng and Gram are not based on grace, nor do I recognize it as a gift. It's just an exchange between the two parties to the transaction. Even grace, a grace that needs to be reciprocated is no longer grace, but a transaction. Gregory is more of a company than a place of practice, and therefore does not engage in a grace trade."
At this moment, Liu Bing suddenly stood up and asked, "What is poverty alleviation?" "If your poverty alleviation is a gift that requires the peasants to be grateful to you, then you have strayed into the wrong temple. This is not a project that can win the hearts and minds of the people, and it does not need anyone's support and support."
* Ying has a way of thinking that is not aggrieved.
After reading what **ying said to Liu Bing, the dissatisfaction and grievances in my heart were finally released. Because I know that I have also felt guilty and blamed myself for my grievances. We feel aggrieved because our intentions were wrong. If we genuinely give to our loved ones, just to make them happy, rather than expecting the same love to reciprocate us, then we will not feel wronged; If we blindly satisfy our own needs and desires, rather than sacrificing the interests of others for the happiness and joy of others, we will also be resentful. If we take care of our parents wholeheartedly, just to fulfill our filial piety, then we will not feel aggrieved in the face of the incomprehension of our brothers and sisters; If we focus on taking care of our family and friends, and only think about how to get the approval of others at work, but ignore the feelings of others, we will not have grievances. When we always think from the perspective of a friend, and just fulfill the duties of a friend, we will not feel wronged even in the face of people who do not know how to be grateful. We are all human beings, and in this world, each of us has our own things to do, and we have to accomplish them, but at the same time, we must not give up the pursuit of what we do. Therefore, as long as we put all our efforts and dedication from our own perspective and regard it as what we really want to do, we will not feel any grievances.
01**Ying is very unaggrieved in terms of family affection.
*Ying's father was rushed to the hospital with a cerebral hemorrhage, and after the doctor's diagnosis, even if he was successfully rescued, he may still be in a vegetative state. His younger brother and sister are also in the hospital, and he himself has never had a chance to see their presence. Ying decides to do everything in his power to rescue him, and if he is still in a vegetative state, he will go and unplug his father's oxygen tube. For this reason, both his brother and sister rebuked him for his unfilial behavior.
For **Ying, filial piety is the goal he aspires to achieve.
*Ying expressed this opinion: "For many years, her sister Qiuhong has been taking care of her parents, and all she cares about is whether they are her biological parents. If she thinks about her eldest brother and second brother's parents, she may feel unbalanced inside. As a result, she was unable to take care of them for decades as long as she had in the past. Now, all I know is that my father is my biological father. I was well aware of his ambitions, and being in a vegetative state was the last thing he wanted. As long as I do my best, I will fulfill his wishes and allow him to enter the other world with dignity.
Although **Ying faced misunderstandings from his mother, brother, sister, and others, he still stood firm for his views. He doesn't want to be praised for being filial and doesn't mind being criticized for being unfilial. His real goal is to fulfill his father's wish and let him leave with dignity, not to use his father's pain to establish an image of a dutiful son for himself.
02**Ying felt very aggrieved without getting anything in return.
The poverty alleviation work in Wangmiao Village was carried out by Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing, who worked hard to win the support of ** Ying, hoping that he could show them the way. But when Lesheng sued Gregas Audio Company in unfair competition and demanded 6 million yuan in compensation for the company, the three of them quickly withdrew their shares and fled. Ouyang Xue was very angry about this, and she asked: "Whose business is the Gregory Poetry Company, and who deliberately found someone to guide the way?" Who needs to solve their own survival and career problems through Gregory Company? "For Ouyang Xue in the outside world, this is a huge grievance, and **Ying is even more unsustainable?
*Ying did his best to make full use of his resources and extensive contacts to solve life and career problems for Ye Xiaoming and others. But they unexpectedly encountered a crisis, many people gave up on ** Ying, and fled one after another, if it were us, we might feel wronged like Ouyang Xue. "I'm a very assertive person, and if I'm in trouble, I'll go to others for help and won't give up easily. However, ** Ying did not do this, in the face of the farewell of Ye Xiaoming and others, he just said indifferently: "Personal affairs do need individuals to make decisions."
In the case of Eun's revenge, **Ying did not feel unfair.
When ** Ying found that his kindness was not reciprocated, he did not feel any grievances. This is because he only sees the poverty alleviation work in Wangmiao Village as what he really wants to do. He didn't plan to let Ye Xiaoming and the other two return the favor, nor did he think about making the villagers of Wangmiao Village grateful to him. This is the core reason why he was able to avoid being wronged.
03**Ying seemed very unaggrieved in the face of reprimand.
*Yingwei Wangmiao Village has created a legendary story of poverty alleviation. From a subjective point of view, this is a gift to his girlfriend Rui Xiaodan, hoping that she can understand and obtain it through this incident, so as to change their tragic fate. And objectively, it also provides Feng Shijie and the other two audio enthusiasts with an opportunity to solve their life and career problems, so that they can live as if they were "along the well". At the same time, it also instilled the concept of market competition in the villagers of Wangmiao Village, helping them to get rid of poverty and backwardness. The ultimate goal is to spark a debate about salvation, inspire the wisdom of the people, and advocate for a powerful cultural force.
*Poverty alleviation work is underway in the village of Wangmiao under the leadership of Ying.
The core concept of a strong culture is to follow objective laws and seek truth from facts. These eight words sound simple and well-known, but there are very few people who can actually do it? In real life, we often hear people say that they are weak and "strong people who are forced to be helpless", and the emergence of this view also shows that we have insufficient understanding of social laws and lack correct concepts and attitudes. Many people are still indulging in the fantasy of the good life, and they spend each day in a "wait-and-see" mentality, hoping to become rich overnight or get the help of noble people, so that they can soar to the sky. However, there are very few people who really understand their actual situation, face up to the external environment they are facing, and make efforts to achieve it, which is enough to prove that the UK has a strong call for a strong culture.
Whether it is a person like Lu Xun who can inspire people's wisdom, a person like Wang Xiaobo who can inspire people's interest, or a person like **Ying who advocates a strong culture, they have not been understood by the people at that time. However, none of them felt aggrieved, and they didn't think about getting the world to be grateful to them. They do this precisely because they have such a desire, so they do not feel aggrieved in their hearts in the face of blame and incomprehension. Because they know that if they don't think about others, then they will lose a lot of things, and others will lose a lot of things because of it. Therefore, when we feel wronged, we only need to regard our efforts as the tasks we really want to accomplish, rather than expecting that our efforts will be rewarded accordingly, so that our inner dissatisfaction and grievances will be released.