Don't choose a partner younger than you, and don't grow up with a man.
This is the painful experience of many women after their heads have been broken and bleeding has been broken.
I have loved you as much as you have loved the sea.
Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi, the lovers, have been in love for 8 years with an age gap of 5 years, but their relationship has become a joke.
* is a perfect name, but finally ushered in a realistic ending.
Kan Qingzi couldn't let go of the pain of this emotion for a long time in the future.
Mao Xiaotong also has similarities with Kan Qingzi.
The "elevator derailment door" in 2017 gave Mao Xiaotong and Chen Xiang's 4-year sister-brother relationship a heavy blow, and this slap was thrown on Mao Xiaotong's face.
Mao Xiaotong's heroine-like pattern and sober mind make her completely different from Kan Qingzi, which also allows her to successfully attract a large number of fans.
In addition to the above, there are many celebrity lovers and celebrity couples in the entertainment industry who are sisters and brothers.
Jinsha and Sun Chengxiao, Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai, Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo, as well as Chen Yanxi and Chen Xiao, etc.
However, their marriage and romance are rarely optimistic.
Until now, there are still many people who have a negative view of it.
However, as the saying goes, things are not absolute.
Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, as the protagonists of this article, are a rare happy couple in the entertainment industry.
Genglang crossed the ground, but he was afraid of spring mud. ”
In 1986, when both careers were on the rise, Yi Nengjing met Geng Chengqing, who was 8 years older than her. Due to corporate opposition and pressure from the outside world, the relationship can only be hidden underground.
It wasn't until February 14, 2000 that this 14-year relationship finally came to fruition.
Many people have lamented that Yi Nengjing has experienced hardships before she has today's happiness.
However, we ignore the fact that reality has never been like a fairy tale.
Marriage and love are completely different.
Yi Nengjing failed to win the love of her mother-in-law before and after marriage, mainly because the family backgrounds of the two were very different.
Even after giving birth to her son Haring, she still has difficulty changing the attitude of her mother-in-law Zhang Zhengfen.
Life is not easy in the days when you are being looked down upon by others.
Yi Nengjing especially craves love and care, because she is naturally lacking in love.
It's unbearable.
Eventually, they broke up with regret.
Each has its own ends of the earth, each has its own future, and each is well.
Yi Nengjing couldn't get out of the shadows for a long time after the divorce, and it wasn't until she participated in the filming of "Rock Hero" that she met Qin Hao.
Things suddenly took a turn for the worse.
Qin Hao is 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, and he is not the best match in terms of age, status, and finance.
Regarding Qin Hao's pursuit, Yi Nengjing refused without hesitation. Therefore, she rejected Qin Hao's pursuit.
Yi Nengjing is known as having "princess disease" and "essence".
As Yi Nengjing said to herself:
Have you raised me, and why are you judging me?
I think I'm qualified to say I have princess disease.
I use tens of millions to support my family, and I have to pay for my sister's children's tuition, why can't I be kind to myself?
You can feel Yi Nengjing's independence and sobriety from this sentence.
Therefore, Yi Nengjing showed the gap and inappropriateness between the two as soon as Qin Hao pursued her.
Qin Hao did not give up, but continued to work hard to pursue Yi Nengjing.
Yi Nengjing decided to make her words clear, because she saw that the other party was very stubborn, as if there was a river in her heart that she couldn't cross.
When Qin Hao continued to invite Yi Nengjing to dinner.
Yi Nengjing's words were quite resolute.
can tell Qin Hao bluntly that even if he wants to get married, he will definitely not be with him.
However, what Yi Nengjing didn't expect was that this attitude not only did not make Qin Hao flinch, but instead inspired him to have a greater fighting spirit.
Qin Hao distributed a message in the early hours of the morning, expressing his desire to discuss the topic of marriage with the other party.
Yi Nengjing didn't expect such a reaction.
However, this firm choice was a new experience for Yi Nengjing.
With complicated emotions, Yi Nengjing went to the appointment on time the next day, and her heart was troubled.
It was with his attitude and sincerity that Qin Hao moved Yi Nengjing on this date, and the two fell in love.
Falling in love and getting married are not the same thing.
Yi Nengjing once had the experience of a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, so she has always been worried about this relationship.
After learning that Qin Hao's parents were more traditional parents, he had a negative attitude towards this relationship.
Even Qin Hao himself thinks that this is a protracted "war".
What is surprising is that Qin Hao's parents' attitude is very different from what they expected.
Parents naturally can't ignore Qin Hao's series of changes, as the saying goes, it's the parents who understand their children best.
They quickly guessed that their son was in love, therefore.
Who is our target?
The son remained silent, and they didn't ask.
One day, Qin Hao suddenly said that his girlfriend was Yi Nengjing.
Although Qin Hao's parents were a little surprised, they were not surprised.
Qin Hao's mother then said something to Qin Hao with deep meaning;
You have to think about it, marriage is a lifelong event. She's already been married once, and if it fails again, what will you do for the family? You're ruining someone's life.
I hope that after you think clearly, if you feel that you can spend your life with her gracefully, your father and I will not say anything, but will only bless you.
Marriage is an important matter, and your mother still expects you to make a decision after careful consideration.
Qin Hao had long recognized the open-mindedness of his parents, but he was a little surprised that they agreed so quickly.
Soon, Qin Hao expressed his attitude, just like his mother.
Qin Hao's parents didn't say anything more, they just saw their son so persistent.
On the day when Dad Yi Nengjing was free, he only said to take it home and see him.
After asking Qin Hao, the matter is over, and the question of Yi Nengjing's favorite food and taboos will no longer be pursued.
Yi Nengjing still felt a little incredulous after hearing Qin Hao tell her about the conversation with her parents.
This move significantly relieved the tension in Yi Nengjing's heart.
In order to show their importance to Yi Nengjing, Qin Hao's parents specially prepared a sumptuous meal on the day Yi Nengjing came to visit.
Yi Nengjing was deeply moved by this intention.
The open-mindedness and thoughtfulness of her parents-in-law moved Yi Nengjing.
Sensing Yi Nengjing's nervousness, Qin Hao's parents didn't ask much, but kept inviting Yi Nengjing to eat more.
After Qin Hao's meal was over, Qin Hao's mother called Yi Nengjing aside and began to talk to her about "considerate words".
The "dismount" that Yi Nengjing expects is not a punishment or reprimand.
Qin Hao's mother, as a mother, informed Yi Nengjing in detail of her son's many shortcomings, which was the opposite.
Please ask Yi Nengjing to tolerate Qin Hao.
Obviously, they have regarded Yi Nengjing as their own family.
In the next talk show, Yi Nengjing talked about this matter and mentioned:
Tears flowed at that time.
This mother-in-law, even Yi Nengjing, who is well-informed and has experienced ups and downs, can't help but sigh with emotion
Although she shows the characteristics of great wisdom and foolishness, she has a deep wisdom in her heart.
There is admiration and affection in the words.
Although Qin Hao was just a little transparent, he knew that Yi Nengjing had regrets in his heart, so he still did his best to give Yi Nengjing a grand wedding within the scope of his bearing.
At the wedding, Qin's father, as the main figure in the family, expressed his opinion.
Although the words are concise, they contain irrepressible emotion.
can't wait to set up family rules for the "daughter-in-law", compared with the current situation where there is not even a single word, it is simply compared with the "father-in-law and mother-in-law", there is a world of difference.
After Yi Nengjing got married, she inevitably felt anxious.
Her family of origin and her first failed marriage taught her that even if love is sweet, it will inevitably come to an end for various reasons.
Qin Hao is not young, so Yi Nengjing began to make every effort to seek maternity protection for herself.
However, at that time, Yi Nengjing had reached a certain age, and it was not easy to get pregnant.
In order to have another child, Yi Nengjing went through many hardships and hardships.
Qin Hao hurriedly expressed his position, seeing Yi Nengjing "tossing" himself like this.
He said that he already had a son, so Yi Nengjing didn't need to worry about it anymore.
Obviously, Qin Hao's assurance did not appease Yi Nengjing, so Qin Hao's parents also hurried to persuade him.
Qin Hao's mother, as a woman, deeply understood Yi Nengjing's inner troubles.
She advised Yi Nengjing not to comment in the accident world, pointing out that childbirth is not the most important thing, and the happiness of two people together is the most important.
Advise Yi Nengjing again, the deep love between husband and wife when they are young will accompany them until they are old, and their children are just short-lived passers-by in the journey of life.
Don't let yourself get too nervous, know that your body and self are the most important thing, and don't get things wrong.
Qin Hao announced the good news of Yi Nengjing's pregnancy to the platform on January 14, 2016.
On June 28, 2016, their daughter Millet was born safely.
Yi Nengjing once asked Qin Hao, when they welcomed their daughter:
Why don't you have a patriarchal family? Parents really like rice grains, shouldn't single-child families like yours value boys more?
Qin Hao said.
Because they are all party members.
Yi Nengjing was immediately amused by this unique answer.
As we all know, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao's marriage has been described as "one thing descending from one thing".
* "Princess disease" is a specialty of straight men.
Qin Hao's straight man's incomprehensible words often made Yi Nengjing feel coquettish and angry, and there was no way to vent it.
However, a closer look reveals that this is precisely how couples complement each other.
Yi Nengjing is insecure in her original family, longing for love and attention, she yearns for someone to understand her and pursue romantic romance.
She is a sensitive and contradictory person, and only a person like Qin Hao, who is straightforward and honest, and who is consistent with her words and deeds, can give her the sense of security she needs.
Qin Hao was considered to be unromantic, but in front of Yi Nengjing, he connived at her to be coquettish, and was even ridiculed by netizens as "being fine".
Qin Hao always maintained a stable mood, without any dissatisfaction and impatience.
After Yi Nengjing's words landed, no one paid attention to them.
It is often said that only by not being partial can one maintain faith and not be afraid.
Only the loved one will be eager to constantly pour out and share their inner feelings.
Without enough love to support it, how could Yi Nengjing become like this?
In addition to the daily firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there is another thing that is easy to kill marriage, that is, there is nothing to say to each other and no common language.
Qin Hao Yi Nengjing