TofuIt's uslifeOne of the most common foods in the mouthfeelDelicious, nutritious and loved by people. However, in the family that does white things,TofuBut it can't be on the dinner table. This is because in ancient times,TofuThe ** is relatively inexpensive, and only poor families will eat it. Therefore,TofuIn people's perceptions, it symbolizes low status. If it appears at the white tableTofu, it will be seen as disrespectful to the guest, and it will also make the host's family have nowhere to put their face.
Expanding:TofuAs one of the traditional foods in China, it is famous for its high protein and low fat characteristics. It is passedPlasterIt is made by coagulation of soy milk, which is rich in nutritional value. InRural, every household will make itTofu, so it has become an indispensable part of people's daily diet. However, inRuralCustoms,TofuBut it has something to do with white things. Conventional wisdomThe white affair is a solemn and solemn occasion, a ritual associated with the afterlife and the death. Therefore,TofuAs a food commonly eaten by ordinary people, it is considered inappropriate to appear on the dinner table of white things. It is considered an act of disrespect to guests and the deceased, and does not correspond to the occasion.
Braised pork, in a family that does white things, it must not be served at the table. Whether it's in terms of taste or the color of the dish,Braised porkare all regarded as auspicious and meaningfullifeProsperous and bright, the future is bright. Therefore, it will only appear on the occasion of doing red thingsBraised pork。If it appears at the white tableBraised porkIt would be considered disrespectful to the deceased and not in line with the solemn atmosphere of the funeral.
Expanding:Braised porkIt is a traditional Chinese dishGastronomy, which is loved by the majority of people for its sweet and delicious taste. It is made by a complex process that requires a slow simmer of high-quality pork and a variety of spices. Braised porkDuring the stewing process, it will show a fiery color, giving people a lively and festive feeling. Therefore, on the occasion of doing white things,Braised porkDishes that are considered inappropriate. The funeral is a solemn and solemn occasion, and people should show respect and respect for the deceased, and should not use food with auspicious colors, so as not to give the impression that the festival is not observed.
In people's perceptions, dishes in pairs usually symbolize happy events, such as tying the knot, good things in pairs, etc. However, on the occasion of white affairs, this festive element should not appear. The white affair itself is a very sad occasion, and the family and friends of the deceased are in grief, so this overly festive dish cannot be used. If there are pairs of dishes on the table, it will be considered noGeelyTarget.
Expansion: Pairs of dishes have a special symbolic meaning in Chinese culture. It is believed that the two complement each other, implying that good things will come in pairs. Therefore, on some festive occasions, people will intentionally choose dishes in pairs to express their blessings andGeelymeaning. However, on the occasion of white affairs, this festive element is not suitable. The white affair is a solemn and solemn occasion, and people need to face the deceased with grief and respect, and there can be no overly festive dishes. Dishes in pairs will bring people noGeelyTarget. Lenovo, which does not correspond to the occasion.
RuralThere is a rule that has been widely passed down by people in the customs of white affairs called "three dishes of white affairs are not served on the table", namelyTofuBraised porkand dishes in pairs. These regulations have their roots in antiquityConventional wisdomand the influence of values, which embodies the respect for the deceased and the solemn attitude towards the occasion. TofuAs a symbol of low status,Braised porkAs auspicious hues, as well as pairs of dishes as festive elements, are inappropriate for white business occasions. Although with the development of society, people have gradually paid less attention to these customs, but these traditions still deserve our attention and respect. After all, the white affair is not only a ceremony, but also a farewell to the deceased and a teaching to the living. We should think carefully when doing things, respect traditions, think from the perspective of the older generation, and learn from their experience and teachings, so that we can pass on the excellent onesRuralculture, maintaining good social customs. In today's view, the custom of "not serving three dishes for white things" may have changed, but the inspiration we can get from it is that we should show different images and attitudes on different occasions, respect traditions, and attach importance to the inheritance of family culture. Only then can we makeRuralThe customs and customs will be passed down forever, injecting positive energy into the development and progress of society.