Title: "Parents after the age of 45: the best support and love for their children".
The role of parents is irreplaceable in our lives, especially after they enter retirement. Parents after the age of 45 may no longer have so many responsibilities and are no longer so busy, but their love and care are eternal. At this stage, their care and support for their children is the truest and deepest love.
1. Take good care of your body and reduce the burden on your children.
No matter how old you are, good health is always the most important asset. When we are young, we rely on healthy bodies to take responsibility and raise our children; After middle age, a good body can not only improve your quality of life, but also reduce the burden on your children. Therefore, as a parent, taking care of your body is not only responsible for yourself, but also caring for your children.
A friend once had a lifelong regret for his mother's poor health. "If my mom was still alive, I would accompany her to do what she likes and eat the food she loves, but now I don't have a chance," he said. "The health of parents is related to the hearts of their children, and it is a regret that cannot be made up for with money.
2. Express your love for your children and give them warmth.
In the minds of parents, children are always their most precious treasures. However, due to the reserved nature of Chinese parents, they are often not good at expressing their love for their children directly. Therefore, parents after the age of 45 need to learn to use words and actions to express their love for their children, and give them warmth and support.
There is a passage that has caused widespread resonance, a septuagenarian mother blames her son for not eating well, this kind of innocent family affection is moving. Parents after the age of 45 should learn to express their love for their children directly, because children also need the distress and encouragement of their parents.
3. Establish the correct three views and guide your children and grandchildren to take the right path.
Parents are not only the first teachers of their children, but they may also be the first teachers of their grandchildren. After retirement, parents have more time and energy to care for their grandchildren, but they should also establish the correct three views and guide their grandchildren to take the right path.
Some parents retreat and focus only on their own pleasures at the expense of educating their children and grandchildren. However, the right guidance from parents is essential for their children's development, not only by their words and deeds, but also by setting a good example for their children.
When children become adults, their responsibilities do not end, but they need their love and support even more. Parents after the age of 45 should always remember their responsibilities and responsibilities to their children, and give them the best support and love. Because the love of parents is eternal, it is the support and motivation of their children throughout their lives.