In marriage, often the more women manage, the more men feel constrained, and the more they will rebel.
But if you let him go free, he will be willing to follow in your footsteps.
Therefore, when a woman faces her feelings, she must know how to "put it badly", and a woman who knows how to "put it badly" can usually live a happy life.
The so-called "rotten" is to take the initiative to lower one's expectations and requirements, and no longer pursue a higher marriage.
Someone once said: The last thing a woman needs in marriage is diligence.
The wife is too diligent, and the husband is lazy.
I have to admit that to a large extent, lazy husbands are used to diligent wives.
Your intentions are likely to be exchanged for a man's unintentionality, and one day you are tired and tired, and you don't take into account a little thing, he will blame you instead.
Therefore, if you look closely at the couples around you, you will find that the more diligent a woman is, the less she will receive the care of men.
After marriage, a woman must learn to be lazy and not have to do everything herself, which is the way of smart marriage.
The home is for two, and so are the housework.
In relationships, we tend to put too much expectation and attention on the other half.
It's okay to find a good partner to spend your life with, but don't entrust your life to someone else.
You can't always pin your hopes on men, remember that you are always an individual, and you don't need to look forward to your partner to get happiness in life.
All you have to do is live your life.
Because marriage is a pas de deux, it requires close cooperation between two people, and pinning all expectations on each other will only cause great pressure on each other, and even rebellious psychology, leading to the breakdown of intimate relationships.
You don't have to ask Him what to do for you, and you don't have to go out of Him to seek out your unmet needs.
A man doesn't really need a woman to love him that much.
Men need space, they don't need women's meticulous love, that will only suffocate them.
Therefore, the best way for adults to live is to lower their expectations of everyone.
Therefore, women should not put too much pressure on themselves and relax to face the problem.
In the second half of life, I hope that sisters can learn to treat themselves well and enjoy a better life.
May we all live our lives and be people who dominate life, not be burdened by it. New Year's Powder Bootcamp