In interpersonal communication, in order to avoid embarrassment, let's be wary of the following 10 ultra-naïve behaviors.
Emotions are demons.
If you don't control it, it will devour you. A momentary loss of emotional control may make people fall into the abyss of no return.
Naïve people tend to be emotionally unstable, easily emotional and angry; They lack the ability to cope with criticism and frustration and show an overly sensitive and irritable attitude.
When a person becomes mature, he should take everything lightly, deal with things calmly, pay attention to calm down the irritability of the mood, and don't let the power of negative emotions go too far.
Naïve people often care very much about the words and deeds of others, and they also sit in the right seat from time to time, and their hearts are often very fragile.
One of the most important direct causes of being overly concerned about what others think is the fear of offending others.
Naïve people tend to care too much about other people's opinions, and in the final analysis, they are not firm enough.
Naïve people tend to be too simple-minded, especially sinister about human nature, and are not very defensive; Always have unrealistic illusions about others, and don't understand the complexities of society.
Those who are very simple-minded usually have low cognitive ability, do not look at problems objectively enough, and prefer to judge problems with their own subjective consciousness, so there are strong limitations.
Most people who are accustomed to self-centeredness have deep limitations and can even become conceited, which is also a sign of childishness.
They lack empathy and do not consider the needs of others.
Naïve people often rely on the opinions of others and lack the ability to think independently; It is easy to be swayed by the influence of others, and it is difficult to stick to one's own opinions.
People who lack the ability to think independently are always being led by the nose by others. A person who does not have the ability to think independently cannot take charge of his own life.
Naïve people often lack a sense of responsibility and are irresponsible about their work and responsibilities; Complaining and making excuses a lot, and having a negative attitude towards life and problems.
Often susceptible to emotions and may make irrational or impulsive decisions on the spur of the moment. They may not be able to control their emotions and see things rationally.
Naïve people may exhibit insincere behavior. They may lie or cheat or even indulge in bad habits such as gambling, gaming, etc. These behaviors can cause them to lose the trust and respect of others.
Naïve people often think too well and do too little, and the result in the long run is that they have low eyes.
Thinking that you have a better possibility, but not practicing this possibility, the end result is that a better life always exists in the imagination, while the real life is very cruel.
Naïve people often don't know how to be polite and always live proudly.
People who don't know how to be polite use rude behavior to expose their frivolous character. There is no basic respect for the family; For friends, there is no basic courtesy.
Naïve people tend to complain about life, and they are also lazy about their own life. didn't work hard enough, but attributed the result to God's injustice and the indifference of those around him.
Complaining is the most useless thing, indulging one's laziness and wasting one's time.
If you have any of the above characteristics, it means that you are still relatively naïve; Relationships are very complex, and if you want to deal with them well, you can't have these naïve behaviors.