I've seen countless ** about "the original match to play the junior". These ** all have one thing in common, that is, it is obviously a man who cheats, why is the original partner scolding the mistress instead of the husband?
Because although the original partner is angry, people are not stupid. Those who can cheat and find a junior basically don't have a little power, or a little money, and the original partner can't hold him at all, and some have to rely on him. In most cases, the husband is the head of the family, whether it is financial power or kinship, the husband controls most of the family's resources, and many relationships also revolve around the husband. If in this case, you find that your husband is cheating, and you don't agree with your husband and roll around, the man's endurance is limited, maybe he will be sideways and break up with you directly, even if it comes to the division of property, he can find ways to get you out of the house.
Whether in real life or on the Internet, I have heard some of the original partners' confiding, when they first found out that their husbands were cheating, they would cry and make trouble, but after calming down, they reconciled. It's not because I'm soft-hearted, but because I figured out that "dogs can't change eating". From a woman's point of view, even if you divorce and change to a man, you will still cheat sooner or later if you have no emotional foundation. If you don't look for it, you will become a loner, why is it not you who does the wrong thing, why don't you end up with a good result? As long as she doesn't get divorced, the mistress will always be the junior, and it is impossible to really get on the throne. My friend's sister is like this, she has caught her husband cheating countless times, and she has also cried, made trouble and hanged herself, but her husband will always promise that there will be no next time, and she can only choose to forgive. After all, a dog can't change eating, and your forgiveness again and again will only make him worse! So she unilaterally chose to separate from her husband, of course, nominally husband and wife. No matter how her husband begged her to come home or divorce, she was indifferent. She just wants to take revenge on her husband in this way, as long as she doesn't divorce the mistress, it will be impossible for her to take the throne!
Many marriages in this world do not come together because of true love, they are all choices made after weighing the pros and cons. In this case, the original partner who was in a weak position thought that he would still be used in the future, so he couldn't be tough on the man, so he could only use the junior as a punching bag. Therefore, when a man cheats, a woman beating a mistress is just a double reed sung by a husband and wife, whitewashing men. The junior was consumed by a man, and he had to spit out what he ate. The original match was played as a junior, but it was just for money. The husband cheated on the mistress and begged for sex. As long as the original partner is not a fool, it is difficult for the junior to get on the top.
Cheating is often very arrogant not because of how powerful he is, but because she is too weak. The weaker the person, the more he can't detect the bad intentions of others, in the final analysis, the original partner still has to be tougher, and blindly being weak will only make the other party hurt you more unscrupulously!