Life is like flowing water, time flies, and it is fleeting.
Many beautiful moments have inadvertently turned into clouds and dissipated in the sky.
Marriage is as beautiful and fragile as a cloud.
The passion at the time of first acquaintance is as romantic as the wind and snow, however, the trivial things of life have turned this beauty into ordinary.
In the second half of marriage, if you want to go further, you need to face three truths, which are unavoidable.
The heart-warming moment is often just the beginning.
And to get to the end of the head, what is needed is a lifetime of distress.
The life of adults is not easy, and we move forward in the wind and rain.
Marriage is a difficult voyage, with heavy financial burdens and unbearable mental torment.
Ignoring the other person's efforts and ignoring the other person's pain will only make the heart cold and the feelings become useless in the end.
The beauty of true marriage lies in the fact that we feel sorry for each other, protect each other, understand your warmth and coldness, and understand my joys and sorrows.
A woman cares about her husband's daily life, supports his career, listens to his heart, and a man takes care of his wife's body, takes care of her mood, and respects her choice.
Only in this way, no matter what difficulties you encounter in the rest of your life, you can move forward hand in hand, through thick and thin, from a young husband and wife to a gray-haired companion.
It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to get along.
The cornerstone of marriage is love, but love needs to be run-in and needs to be kept fresh in the ordinary.
When I was young, I thought that deep love was enough, but in the second half of my marriage, I realized that the three views are the same and the pace is the same.
The farthest distance in the world is not the mountains and seas, but the distance of the heart.
In marriage, one wants to be stable, the other pursues progress, one enjoys benefits, and the other evades responsibility, and such differences will eventually lead to separation.
A like-minded marriage requires shared values, attitudes to life, and beliefs.
Behind marriage, in addition to love, it also needs to be accommodating and responsible, and it needs deep co-frequency and resonance.
Only by looking at the same scenery can there be endless topics to talk about; Only by setting the same goal can there be endless emotions.
Only when the three views are compatible, the soul is in harmony, and the growth is together, can we be fearless of the changes of the years and accompany each other for the rest of our lives.
Quarrels are inevitable in marriage, but they are not the best solution to the problem.
After getting married, you will find that you are not marrying the same person, but a stranger who has experienced the baptism of life.
The trivialities, stress, and emotional trials of life all make it inevitable to vent resentment.
The root cause is that the expectations for marriage are too high and the requirements for oneself are too low.
If you pin your life's happiness on your marriage and others, you will only find that the bamboo basket is empty in the end.
Marriage is not the savior, you are the greatest salvation.
Instead of arguing, it is better to fight.
Maintain your independence and take responsibility for your own well-being.
Changing oneself is wisdom; Changing others is a fool's dream.
The first step towards happiness in marriage is one's own efforts and actions.
Only by managing ourselves well, improving ourselves, and becoming a better self can we create a better us.
Marriage in life is like a painting, which needs to be depicted with heart and created together.
Only by feeling sorry for each other, coexisting with each other, and fighting for oneself, can the marriage be picturesque and peaceful for the rest of your life.