I heard a lively discussion among several young people who were new fathers and mothers, and they were competing to compare how "irresponsible" they were.
Xiao Wang said proudly: "My little princess has been brought up by her mother-in-law since she was born. When I grew up, I slept directly with my grandparents and slept until I woke up naturally every day, not to mention how moisturizing my days were! ”
Xiao Guo also interjected: "The children used to sleep with me, but since I returned to the workplace, the responsibility of taking care of the baby day and night has been handed over to my in-laws." To be honest, it was so easy and happy to have their help! ”
In modern society, more and more parents are choosing to let their children sleep with them. In some cases, this practice may be motivated by parental love and care, but in reality, the question of who the child sleeps with has a very important impact on the child's growth and development. This article will analyze the impact of children sleeping with whom, and call on parents who are "lazy and happy" to recognize the importance of who their children sleep with as soon as possible, so as to better promote their children's growth.
1. The impact of who the child sleeps with on the child's psychology.
Who your child sleeps with will have a direct impact on your child's psychological development. Studies have shown that sleeping with parents can enhance a child's sense of security and help develop a child's self-confidence and self-worth. If the child sleeps in a separate bed with his parents for a long time, it may make the child feel lonely and helpless, easy to form a dependent personality, and even lead to anxiety, depression and other problems in the child's future life. Therefore, parents should reasonably arrange the question of who the child sleeps with according to the actual situation of the child, so as to better promote the psychological development of the child.
2. The impact of who the child sleeps with on the child's physical health In addition to psychological development, who the child sleeps with also directly affects the child's physical health. On the one hand, sleeping with parents can make it easier for children to fall asleep, which is good for children's sleep quality. On the other hand, parents sleeping with their children can better monitor their children's health and detect and deal with their children's physical problems in a timely manner. In addition, some studies have shown that children sleeping with their parents can reduce the risk of common illnesses such as colds and fevers in children. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the issue of who their children sleep with in order to better protect their children's physical health.
3. How to arrange the child to sleep with reasonably.
First of all, parents should decide whether to sleep with their children according to their actual situation. If the parents have busy schedules, irregular lifestyles, or if the child is older, it may be more appropriate to sleep in a separate bed with the child.
Secondly, parents should work with their children to develop a sleep plan and develop independent sleep habits in their children. In the early stage of children's separate beds, parents can tell their children stories, listen to **, etc. before going to bed to help children relax and gradually adapt to independent sleep. In addition, parents should also pay attention to their sleep quality and avoid affecting their sleep quality by sleeping with their children.
Children sleeping with the elderly, there may be these problemsChildren sleeping with the elderly, there may be the following problems:
1.Health problems: The elderly may carry some respiratory diseases, allergens, etc., and if the child sleeps with the elderly for a long time, it may increase the risk of the child suffering from these diseases.
2.Sleep quality: The sleep quality of the elderly is often not as good as that of young people, and they wake up more often at night, or have sleep problems such as snoring and teeth grinding, which may affect the quality of sleep in children.
3.Independence: If children sleep with the elderly for a long time, they may develop a dependency psychology and affect the development of independence.
4.Lifestyle habits: The living habits of the elderly may be different from those of children, for example, the elderly may go to bed earlier and get up earlier, which will affect the children's work and rest time.
5.Psychological problems: If children sleep with the elderly for too long, it may have a negative impact on the child's psychology, such as affecting the child's self-perception and affecting the child's personality development.
In conclusion, the question of who children sleep with is a very important issue that has a profound impact on a child's growth and development. Parents should reasonably arrange the question of who their children sleep with according to the actual situation, so as to better promote the physical and mental development of their children. At the same time, parents should also recognize the pros and cons of sleeping with their children in order to better balance the interests of their children and parents.