In the world of feelings, the most abrasive thing is not quarrels or cold wars, but the entanglements that you obviously like but pretend not to care. Love, it seems, is always closely tied to self-esteem. However, self-esteem is not a gesture of superiority, but an honest face with oneself.
People in the world are often accustomed to playing a disdainful and glamorous role, burying their feelings deep in their hearts and wrapping themselves in a mask of indifference. They think that this can protect themselves from harm, but they don't know that the better their acting skills, the farther away from happiness.
We are always afraid to express our true feelings, afraid of losing, afraid of being hurt. However, when we care too much about our self-esteem and are too attached to protecting ourselves, we can miss out on true happiness.
Love is not a war, it is not to divide the winner or loser, but a kind of mutual understanding and tolerance. When we learn to be honest with our feelings, when we are willing to let go of our proud self-esteem, we can truly love and feel the beauty of love.
Don't hide yourself too deeply, happiness won't find you. When we are brave enough to show our true selves, when we are willing to take risks for love, we can find the person with whom we appreciate and understand each other.
Love is beautiful, it is like a blooming flower, which needs to be watered with sincerity and cared for with courage. When we let go of those senseless self-esteem, when we no longer pretend to ourselves, we can feel the warmth and beauty of love.
So, let's learn to be honest, learn to be brave, and stop letting self-esteem be an obstacle to happiness. Let's face love with a sincere heart and pursue our own happiness. Because only when we are truly alive can we truly feel the meaning and beauty of life.