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On the night of the third day of the first lunar month, I walked into the theater with my children to watch "Hot and Hot".
At the beginning, before actually watching the movie, many people would think that Le Ying played by Jia Ling was working hard for love.
Later, I realized that she actually went all out to change her past self, and the process of forging with all her strength was actually to love herself!
Because the injuries she suffered in family and friendship love were so painful, it also made her wake up: people can only live once, and they must win once.
People can only live if they work hard and struggle for what they like.
Love yourself well and bloom hard, is to live up to life!
When she used unimaginable willpower, fitness, and sports to become a qualified boxer, she finally completed the whole boxing match.
She judged in her own heart that she had won life this time.
When we focus on what we love or love, outside voices can no longer hurt us.
There are several scenes like this in the movie, which are very meaningful.
One is that Le Ying happened to pass by her ex-boyfriend and best friend who betrayed her when she was running, and their lives had long since intersected.
Whether she really didn't see it, or pretended not to see it, those injuries in the past seemed to have turned from ice blades into her current sweat, and she was thrown far behind her feet.
The other is that Le Ying appeared in front of her family with a new look, and when she was having dinner with her mother and sister, there was a show on TV that happened to ** cousin Doudou distorting the facts for the sake of ratings, and her mother and sister hurriedly turned off the TV.
And Le Ying finished eating with a blank face and went to training.
She hadn't forgotten the hurts, she just didn't care anymore because there were more important things waiting for her.
There is also a conversation between her and her father when they are eating out, which is profound.
Dad, if you have two apples, one big and one small, and your friend wants, which one do you give? ”
Dad said, "Friend, big one."
Le Ying said: I'll give both.
The father said, "Then my daughter must have many friends."
Le Ying replied: No, my friends think I don't like apples.
In this dialogue, Dad chooses to give the Big Apple to his friends, showing that Dad's character also hides the kindness of wronging himself in order to fulfill others.
And Le Ying chose to give both, forming a contrast, that is, being overly kind will not be cherished, so Le Ying said that she actually has no friends.
But after the change, Le Ying gave the answer again: it depends on the mood.
Just as she finally refused Hao Kun played by Lei Jiayin to invite her to dinner, when she showed her goodwill, she made it clear that she didn't like to eat bullfrogs, and whether she accepted his invitation also depended on her mood.
At this point, the film ends.
This represents her true maturity and transformation.
She learned that loving herself, from pleasing others to paying attention to her own feelings, is the most important thing in a person's life once.
She bravely said no, shook her head bravely, ran in stride, and her posture was super handsome!
She faced the morning sun, the sea breeze, her skirt fluttering, like a new life!
phaseI believe that many people come back after watching the film, and it is not only the body that is inspired, but also the soul, sweat and tears!
Here, we see that if a person's willpower is strong enough, they can really be reborn and live again.
So, we applaud Jia Ling!
On the question of losing and winning, Jia Ling said in an interview with **
We presuppose that death is a loss, and don't each of us lose?
I don't think winning is a normal thing, losing is the norm, and that's something we have to learn to accept.
The normal state of life is to lose, but as long as you have a clear conscience in the whole process, I think you have already won.
I just feel that at this stage, my own experience, winning may be to love yourself, and slowly learn to pay attention to your own feelings, to pay attention to yourself.
This movie is not about **, but about a kind girl who "loves herself".
A girl who becomes better may not necessarily have love, but she must know how to love herself more.
In our lives, most of the time, winning or losing may be reflected in the pursuit of wealth and the pursuit of feelings.
Many people may think that happiness can only be achieved by pursuing wealth.
In fact, true happiness comes from within, not just material comforts.
The pursuit of good feelings can give us the source of true happiness and satisfaction.
At the same time, a good relationship is an asset in itself.
Being in a good relationship allows us to grow and become better, and it sometimes gives us miraculous strength and confidence.
If you have good family, friendship and love, you must be a lucky and happy person.
If you don't have that, then I hope that you love yourself well, which is also a great asset.
If you love a flower, you will reap that unique rose.
Love yourself, plant flowers in your heart, and flowers will bloom all over your small universe!