During the winter vacation, many children "plunged" into the electronic screen: either fighting in the game, or indulging in short**, unable to release the "machine". "Laugh as soon as you give the phone, and jump when you take the phone", "Immerse yourself in the mobile phone, ignore the question", "Because of the battle for the mobile phone, the parent-child relationship is stiff" ......All this makes parents worry and worry. The post-00s and post-10s are the "aborigines" of the Internet, and it is unrealistic for them to live in a "vacuum environment" without mobile phones. But if you are "kidnapped" by the screen, the harm should not be underestimated. The first is vision problems. According to the data released by the National Health Commission, the overall myopia rate of children and adolescents in China is more than 50%, of which "long use of electronic products" is an important influencing factor. In the face of the low age of Internet access and myopia, how to prevent the increase of "small glasses" is a common concern of the whole society.
Looking at the screen for a long time, playing mobile games, etc., it is also easy to make the child's brain always in a state of excitement and difficult to concentrate, resulting in problems such as biological clock disorder, decreased learning efficiency, and low social interest. What is even more worrying is that young people are in a critical period of forming their worldview, outlook on life, and values, and if harmful information on the Internet is allowed to appear in front of their eyes without filtering, it will not be conducive to their long-term development in life.
Behind this, the interaction between parents and children is also worth examining. If parents are all "low-headed people", how to ask their children to be "immune" to mobile phones with such "words and deeds"? Parents are role models for their children, and they are models for them to establish behavioral habits and emotional abilities. To let children use electronic products healthily, parents first need to lead by example and do a good job. In this regard, you may want to start by helping your child have a fun and meaningful winter vacation.
In fact, rather than simply and rudely taking away the phone, it is more important to guide children to take the initiative to put the phone down. This requires the joint efforts of families, schools, and society to carry out flexible guidance. For example, agree with your child on a reasonable screen time, with clear rewards and punishments, to help your child learn time management; Cultivate children's self-control and judgment, and let them learn to use information technology rationally to acquire knowledge; Guide children to make more connections with friends and family, and replace the emotional sustenance of the virtual world with "strong connections" in the real world. Especially for some left-behind children in rural areas, due to the lack of direct companionship from their parents, they are more likely to use their mobile phones as "playmates". Find ways to give more love, companionship and guidance to left-behind children, so that they can avoid addiction to electronic products.
From a broader perspective, every era may have real problems that make parents feel headaches. From billiard halls, game halls, to TVs, computers, and all kinds of electronic terminal ...... in the era of mobile InternetSomething new may open Pandora's box, or it may bring new skills, new industries, and new outlets. Touch screen with the Internet, isolation is impossible, addiction is not advisable. Only by adhering to the principle of moderation and promoting the positive interaction between virtual and real can children grow up healthier. (Standing Feathers).