Different people will have different opinions and choices on this issue. Some people think that Xiulian should choose Xiulian to live her life because she is a more practical and reliable partner in real life, able to help and support Shao'an in his career success. While others believe that Runye is a more ideal choice, because her background and cultural background can provide Shao'an with more help and resources, making his career more successful.
However, I don't think there is a definitive answer to this question because everyone's understanding and pursuit of life is different. For Xiulian, her love is pure and sincere, and she is willing to give everything for Shao'an, even her own life. Her dedication and sacrifice make people feel admired and moved, but at the same time, they also feel regretful and distressed. Although her life was short, she was full of love and devotion to Shao'an.
In real life, we are often faced with similar choices. Sometimes we choose people who make our hearts flutter and our blood boils, but sometimes we also choose people who make us feel at ease and stable. Whatever we choose, the most important thing is to take our feelings seriously and take responsibility for our choices.
In short, different people will have different opinions and choices on this issue. But in any case, we should respect everyone's choices and feelings, and hope that everyone can find their own happiness and home. At that moment, when Shao'an said the words of his short life in a heavy manner, Xiulian, this unwavering woman, bit her finger without hesitation. Her eyes were full of determination, and she said: "Your life is short, I will continue it for you, no matter how poor your family is, I will not dislike you." At this moment, Xiulian's mind has been decided, and she is willing to follow Shao'an without regrets. She knows that this kind of love is worth her full effort.
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Xiulian's love is deep and sincere, and it warms Shao'an's heart like a warm sun. Her dedication, in her eyes, is priceless. In the work "Ordinary World", there is such a plot that is moving. When the news of Runye's marriage came, Xiulian did not hesitate to take out her precious 50 yuan in order to take into account Shao'an's feelings, hoping that he could buy a gift for Runye. In that era of material scarcity, the 50 yuan was undoubtedly a huge fortune. What's even more commendable is that Xiulian knows the deep relationship between Shao'an and Runye, but she is still willing to take out this money.
This kind of selflessness and affection may not be something that everyone can do. But Xiulian was willing, she knew that since she chose Shao'an, she should support him wholeheartedly. And Shao'an was also moved by Xiulian's true feelings, and the pain in her heart gradually dissipated in Xiulian's warmth.
Good love is not only about the emotions of the two people, but also about the whole family and future life. For Xiulian, although her marriage to Shao'an made her suffer, her heart was full of sweetness. Shao'an's poverty is beyond her imagination, but she is willing to eat. In her eyes, as long as she can be with her beloved, even if she is poor, it is beautiful.
Lu Yao described it in "Ordinary World": "It is precisely because of her fiery love life with her husband that she endures such hunger and poverty......Be hungry, as long as she is with her dear people, she will be happy when she is hungry. It can be seen that in Xiulian's heart, every day with Shao'an is sweet and fulfilling.
Balzac once said: "The happiness of marriage is not entirely based on illustrious status and property, but on mutual reverence, and the essence of this happiness is humble and unpretentious." And Xiulian and Shao'an's marriage is the best interpretation of this sentence. They do not have a prominent status and wealth, but they have a deep love for each other and an unpretentious affection. After all, the pressure of life cannot be endured, and it is not only the body that drags down, but also the human heart. From an emotional point of view, Xiulian should be willing to bear it. However, from the perspective of life, Xiulian was a little disappointed.
I remember that when Xiulian gave Shao'an a white steamed bun for the first time, Shao'an gave her a punch. This scene makes me worry about Xiulian's future. She is not wrong, it is right to love her husband, but Shao'an's traditional concept is too strong, and he is even more reluctant to be part of his family. Therefore, when Xiulian handed him the white steamed buns, he blamed Xiulian for being ignorant.
But, Shao'an, have you ever thought about your wife? Although filial piety is a virtue, you ignore your wife's forbearance. The family depends on you for support, but have you ever thought about marrying a wife from afar? You may be grateful in your heart, but what about action?
Xiulian has given too much in this life, and for the sake of her husband, she exhausted her physical labor. When her husband's brick factory was in trouble, she spared no effort to support it. Her patience and simplicity are beyond the reach of ordinary people. However, she is a woman after all, and she has married so far, but Shao'an never thought that his wife would fall one day. Although their love was sweet, the burden of life left Xiulian breathless. As a result, she also lost her temper and thought about leaving this dilapidated home.
When life finally improved, Xiulian fell. We used to think that as long as there was love, no matter how poor we were, we would not be afraid. However, the reality is so cruel that life is often unsatisfactory. When you think you're about to get through it, the pain creeps in.
Some people say that Xiulian's death is a punishment for Sun Shaoan, and it is he who has failed Xiulian. If he could let Xiulian work less and take more care of her feelings, maybe Xiulian wouldn't have left so early.
On the occasion of the New Year, Xiulian passed away. This is the busiest time of the year, but this liveliness highlights the sadness of Xiulian's passing. From the perspective of life, Xiulian's efforts seem to be too unworthy. Because her end is really sad. Maybe that's the reality.