Writer Zhou Guoping said:
"The realm of life with the least path of life is ordinary, followed by transcendent things, and the largest is the ordinary of returning to nature. ”The "Ordinary World" in Lu Yao's book interprets the life path of people from the ordinary to the ordinary and back to the ordinary.
On a high slope of loess with little vitality, there are some painful and ordinary people.
They are born ordinary, but they are never willing to be ordinary; They have endured many vicissitudes, but they still remain kind.
If you know "Ordinary World", you will also figure it out:
Only through hardships can we understand the value of the ordinary.
All living beings are suffering, and ordinary generalists are the reality of the world
The story starts with Sun Shaoping gradually, Shaoping went to an ordinary high school in the original Xixian County, and he was poor every day until others had eaten before quietly taking his 2 African black steamed buns, and then connected with Hao Hongmei, who also took African steamed buns, and became a close friend. In that period of material scarcity and conceptual poverty, I gave a great incentive to 2 people who were able to do it.
Sun Shao'an is the captain of the production team, although he is one of the best in the village in the village, but his parents are old, there are old ladies, younger brothers and sisters are studying, holding a poor family, and the hard work in the loess slope can not be profitable in the end. There is his first love Runye in the county, Runye asked him to meet in the county, and she must confide her emotions with him.
Shao'an finally actively chose to fade, he saw clearly that he was a peasant and a peasant later, and that the peasants and the petty bourgeoisie had no future. After that, he married He Xiulian, who was a farmer at the same time, and in this life, there was a person who took care of each other at the bedside.
Tian Runye is a teacher in the township, and she is placed on the eaves of her second father Tian Fujun, and she, like Shao'an, can't solve the shackles of the class she is in, and she is married to Li Xiangqian, a licking dog. She didn't like Li Xiangqian at all, and was alone after being insulted by Li Xiangqian, until Li Xiangqian became crippled and had a heart attack for no reason, and went home to live with him.
After graduating from junior high school, Shaoping came to Huangyuan to work, and Tian Xiaoxia secretly fell in love. thought that he would be deeply involved in the distribution of Mayor Cao, who was assigned to the household, but he later came to Tongcheng Coal Mining and made friends with Huiying's sister-in-law's family, who were likely to live together for a lifetime.
"Without the halo of God, each other is born ordinary. ”The thorny road of life is paved with pain, and it is never easy to have a certain one-sidedness because of who we are. Although it pierces the heart, being born ordinary is the reality of the lives of most people in this earthly world.
It can be ordinary, but it can't be mediocre
No matter what kind of situation you find yourself in, you don't need to be an excuse for everyone to stop moving.
As Mr. Lu Yao said:
"We can be ordinary, but we can't be ordinary. ”Ordinary is calm after hard work, and ordinary is inevitable after casual. Ordinary people understand that they are ordinary but still love life and are down-to-earth, while ordinary people are very easy to follow the crowd and be content with the status quo.
There is such a sentence in Yuan Mei's poem: "Moss flowers are as small as rice, and they also learn to bloom peonies." "Moss flowers, which are as delicate as millet grains, still bloom with enthusiasm like peony flowers, so people should be more energetic and live well.
The most important thing is to persevere, even if you have a strong work ability, if you are in a hurry to do things, then you can't do anything.
Some people say, "Life cannot wait for others to distribute, but must fight and struggle for itself; And no matter whether the effect is happy or sad, it can be comforted by the fact that you have lived a life here all over the world. ”
A person's life can be ordinary, but it can't be ordinary. The life of unwilling mediocrity originates from overall planning, becomes behavior, and finally perseveres. In this life, I hope that there is a starry sky in my eyes and mountains and rivers in my heart; I hope that Shaohua will live up to it, and the future can be expected.
After going through hardships, I know that the ordinary is precious
People don't have a good attitude, first, because they don't practice enough, and second, people understand the people and things that cause us to have negative emotions. When our state of mind is disturbed, we should moderately avoid the negative natural environment and let ourselves calm down. Meditation trains some happy people and things, or goes out once, broad-minded, and then looks back at the previous grievances and grievances, and everything is relieved.
We don't have to exaggerate the difficulties we face, and we don't need to underestimate the power of life. When you are confused or tragic, you don't have to blame others for your sake. If you really accept the reality, you will take out your own strength, adapt to the new environment, and tide over the difficulties. Only when each of us can fulfill our own obligations can social development be more expected; Only those who have the courage to bear the pain and incorrectness can have the energy to improve social development.
After experiencing the excitement, I know that the ordinary is true; Enough suffering, self-knowledge of the world repentance; Only when the world sees through it can I know that the Buddha is compassionate; This one has been rolled by red dust, more but nearly a hundred years away; This is mundane, but it has been followed for many decades; There is a lot of traffic, a few people know each other, and a few people meet; The dust is gone, a glass of sake, and a few are drunk; The Buddha said that the fate was spoken; I say you, you feel in; A few people have a good heart, and a few people are really easy-going!
Each of us has lived in a world of one person, making ourselves endlessly bigger, and not seeing everything around us, just like Runye only sees itself but can't see our progress.
Until one day, everyone perceives the vastness of the world and its own insignificance, and then it is not easy to indulge in its own small world and break free alone. In the end, everyone had to learn to reconcile with themselves, mediate with everything around them, and deal with the gifts and takeaways of life with a calmer state of mind.
This is the gift of hardships and hardships to people, and only by experiencing it can we understand the preciousness of the ordinary.
Abandon distractions and return to the ordinary
The short story is close to the prologue, Shaoping's brother-in-law went home to the ghost king Manyin.
As a young man, Wang Manyin was nostalgic for the bustling world outside, and although he was a farmer in a small area, he longed for the bustle of the city.
In this era when he can't even eat, he still wanders around regardless of his wife and children.
Once he reached middle age, after a thousand sails, Wang Manyin woke up like a dream and returned to his daughter-in-law and children, and said the most memorable passage in this book.
"Why do I want to go home, it is a mirror of the small hotel in Shanghai, it reflects my ugly face, my aging, and the first half of my life, I am the Wang Manyin of people, not the Wang Manyin of the goblin, I have been walking around the door for many years, shopping for gray hair, poor as nothing, until now I realize that I have figured out that the only baby bump in my life is Lancao and the two babies. ”A mirror in the Shanghai Tang Hotel reminded Wang Manyin of his wife and children at home, and he understood that only Lancao and the two babies could be regarded as their own home.
That's right, isn't this everyone in the world, we keep an ordinary and simple life, but we don't know how to cherish it.
We want to dominate power, we want glory and wealth, and we want everything in the world, but only by forgetting the physically and mentally healthy relatives around us, a warm home can be regarded as the most precious capital in everyone's life.
After thousands of sails, the years are old, and everyone should cherish the current happy and happy life. Everyone was born in the ordinary, and they will eventually be classified as ordinary. Taoism is natural, ordinary and precious.
"Ordinary World" is also an expression of the extraordinary, after winning the Contradictory Literature Award, it is even more familiar, and many people only know the excellence of this work, but they don't know that the road behind them is even more outstanding.
At that time, Lu Yao completed this outstanding work while vomiting blood, and when he was lying in the hospital bed and sick to the bone marrow, he had no choice but to sign a divorce agreement.
Sun Shaoping and Sun Shao'an in the book are actually the real reappearance of Lu Yao, life for them, ordinary often has a lot of weight, the invisible night and pain are always wrapped around life: all kinds of helplessness due to poverty, because of poverty can not enter into their own willing feelings, because of the difference in actual conditions, there is no way to have a human dignity ......
And they are not weak, but in the sand of this kind of pain, they are crushed more and more firmly, more and more heroic, and finally find the actual meaning of life, and grow and develop again happily and happily towards the sun of life.
After reading "The Ordinary World", you will find that although all kinds of tragedies brought about by pain will swallow a person's body, the pain will make people reborn, win the mercy and favor of life, so that a person will become more and more perfect, calm, and can make people really clear about their own parts of life, and bravely and tenaciously bear the banner of their own life.
Life is ordinary, but not willing to be ordinary!
Life is hard, but we still have to be diligent and move forward. In the case that you feel dazed and unable to continue, open "Ordinary World", which will guide you from the night to the light.
As it is written in the book:
"To live, we have to be prepared to endure hardships and hardships in advance at all times. He had already read some books and understood that ordinary people and not simple people need to go through a lot of hardships and hardships in their lives. ”Therefore, "Ordinary World" is very worthy of becoming anyone's pillow book, and it is also very worthy of becoming the most stable waiting on the road of your struggle.
Lu Yao's "Ordinary World" giant is reading articles, ordinary people are also reading articles, and students are also learning. According to the survey, "Ordinary World" has always been far ahead in the number of readings in various colleges.
After that, "Ordinary World" was included in Tsinghua University's must-see regeneration, Jiangsu Province, Zhejiang Province, Beijing and many other regions were included in the compulsory professional knowledge points, and the Ministry of Education of the People's Republic of China also classified "Ordinary World" as a recommended book for primary and secondary schools to read articles.
Such an excellent book of "Ordinary World", such a real life written into the book, undoubtedly brings many resonance points to people, you come to write seriously, and the global gratitude to give back to you is also serious.
Everyone can't escape from setbacks, and when they can't stand it, it's better to read Lu Yao's "Ordinary World" and see how Lu Yao survived the most difficult days.
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