On a cold morning, when most people were still immersed in the warm bed, a female college student in Anhui Province chose an unusual path.
She decided to wake up early and busily cook a pot of hot noodles in the kitchen. Then, she strode into her parents' bedroom and announced loudly: "What time is it, the sun is shining on your buttocks!" ”
Her approach can be described as "treating others the way they do".
College students, who are usually at home, are accustomed to staying up late and sleeping lazy, while parents often become the voice of nagging and reproaching. But in this little story, the roles are reversed, and the girls take advantage of their parents' parenting methods and guide them in turn.
Obviously, this is not only a rebellion, but also a clever communication and expression.
When college students go home, it should be a time for families to get together, but the reality is often a distance from the ideal.
Parents often have their own expectations and requirements for their children's holiday life, hoping that they can make a difference, instead of indulging in mobile phones and TV dramas all day long, wasting precious time.
However, college students often have their own plans, they crave freedom and relaxation, and pursue a lifestyle that is very different from the pressure of academics.
This behavior of female college students is actually a challenge and reflection on the concept of "far fragrant and smelly" of parents.
By imitating the way of parents, waking them up, and using the words that parents often hang on their lips to remind them of the importance of getting up now, the girls cleverly swapped their roles, so that parents can experience the taste of being urged from another angle.
In fact, this is not just a simple role reversal, but also a deep reflection on family relationships and intergenerational communication.
Through this story, we can see that homeschooling should not be just a one-way guide and requirement.
Truly effective communication should be a two-way street, and it needs to be understood and respected. The relationship between parents and children should not be simple about command and obedience, but should be based on cooperation and dialogue based on mutual understanding and respect.
While educating their children, parents should also learn to listen, learn to understand their thoughts and needs from their children's perspective.
Although the behavior of this female college student seems to be a rebellion, it is actually a reflection and challenge to the existing way of family education. She used her actions to tell parents that children do not fail to understand their parents' painstaking efforts, but hope to communicate in a more equal and respectful way.
Although this method may make some parents feel uncomfortable, it undoubtedly provides a new perspective and thinking path for family education.
I have to say that in the delicate relationship between parents and college students, the "counterattack action" of female college students in Anhui is like a detonated firework, lighting up a sky in the cold winter.
This bold girl not only breaks the traditional role of the family, but also challenges the communication model between parents and children in a unique way. Her behavior is not only a personal expression, but also reflects the contradiction and understanding between contemporary college students and their parents.
First of all, we must admit that parents' expectations of their children are motivated by love, but this love is often accompanied by control and anticipation.
Parents expect their children to follow what they believe is the right lifestyle, which includes going to bed early and waking up early, and having regular habits. However, for college students who have just tasted freedom, such expectations seem somewhat restrictive.
They are eager to explore and experience the colorful aspects of life, rather than following the rules of the world.
The choice of the college girl to cook at dawn and wake up her parents is actually an attempt at communication and dialogue, in which she expresses her dissatisfaction with her parents' expectations and her desire for a free lifestyle in her own way.
This so-called "counterattack war" actually reveals a deep-seated problem: the lack and misunderstanding of intergenerational communication.
Parents and children often have differences in expectations and understanding, and these differences can turn into conflict without proper communication and explanation. Parents see their children uncooperative and rebellious, while children feel misunderstood and constrained.
So although the behavior of this female college student, with a certain provocation, is also an attempt to get her parents to see the problem from her perspective and understand her position and ideas.
The family, a warm harbor woven by love and responsibility, sometimes becomes turbulent due to differences in understanding between generations.
For example, during the winter vacation, parents and children, who are usually difficult to get along, often fall into a misunderstanding: blind blame and resistance.
Parents often complain about their children's incomprehension and rebellion, while children feel misunderstood and constrained. This makes people wonder, what is the real meaning of family education? Is it unilateral command and obedience, or mutual understanding and respect?
The behavior of this Anhui girl, although a little rebellious, contains a deep understanding and reflection on her parents.
By imitating her parents' words and deeds, she treated them the way of others, so that her parents could experience their own feelings. Although this method is not advisable, it invisibly enhances the understanding between father and daughter. The love of the parents and the rebellion of the daughters together create an unusual family atmosphere.
Parents should realize that their child's growth is not only about academic and career success, but more importantly, about becoming a responsible and empathetic person. This requires parents not only to impart knowledge, but also to influence their children through their words and deeds, and to establish correct values and outlook on life.
At the same time, we also need to see the other side of the child. Their rebellion is not vexatious, but an attempt and exploration in the process of growing up. They need not only guidance, but also understanding and respect.
Although the vacation life of college students may seem leisurely, it is also an important time for them to release stress, explore themselves, and plan for the future.
In the end, the goal of family education is not only to cultivate an excellent student or worker, but also to cultivate a person who is emotional, responsible, and empathetic. Although this Anhui girl and her parents have experienced a period of twists and turns, they have finally found a way to respect and support each other through understanding and communication.
And this is the most valuable achievement of family education.