We all know thatRegret is the norm in this lifeWe always have all sorts of unfinished things, and when we think about it again, we find that we are no longer what we were when we were younger.
We say goodbye to our parents from the moment we are born, and the moment we come out of our mother's womb means that the separation from our mother officially begins, and when we can't walk, we rely on our parents for everything.
When we learn to walk, the arms of our parents can no longer satisfy us, we want a wider world, compared to their warm arms, usPrefer to be freeYou can do whatever you want, and you can go wherever you want.
At this time, we still stayed with our parents all day, and as we grew up day by day, we slowly began to go to school, and in elementary school, we were not with our parents all day, and we would only come home at night.
Later, when we went to junior high school and high school, we went home once a week, that is, we only saw it only four times a month, and when we went to college, we went home even less, even if there were not many courses, but we always wanted to use some time to do our own things, and we didn't want to go home again, more often we might work and study, maybe we would go out with other friends, and even feel that going home was a waste of our time.
It is better to do what you like when you have this time, which is what you think is more meaningful, and finally we graduate, start working, and have our own children, and at this time we go home and start talking about the year.
We only go back a few times a year, and even once is possible, and gradually we will see the gray hair between our parents' sideburns, and we will also see their gradually rickety backs, and even find that their bodies are not as good as day by dayAt this time, we begin to miss the life we once had.
They used to be strong, everything was fine, we were young, and when we stayed with them, they were busy cooking a big table of dishes, which were basically what we loved to eatThe beauty of the past is in stark contrast to the presentIt's hard not to miss us.
But even if we miss it anymore, it won't help, the good times have passed, replaced by the present, no matter how difficult the current days are, we have to grit our teeth and persevere, at this time we will also begin to regret, regret that we did not take their parents out to see the beauty of the outside world when they were still young, regret that we did not often go home to have a meal with them.
This regret slowly turned into regret, and regret needs time to be relieved when it is hidden in our hearts, so we should cherish the present time no matter whenTry not to turn some things into regrets in your heart.
We should be more so-do with our parents, don't wait for them to get old day by day before we reflect on our previous behavior, we must know that once time passes, we will never look back, some things once we do it, we can't have a chance to start over, I think the only thing we can do is probably to grasp the present and cherish every time with our parents.
Don't keep nostalgic for the past, because the past is over after all, no matter how much we miss it, it won't help, we can only do our best now and want to leave no regretsIt's never too late to start.
So now let's talk about feelings, the beginning of a relationship is due to mutual liking each other, in the relationship, at the beginning we may love each other, both parties are harmonious, but the more later, the contradictions will gradually increase, and slowly we will have a dispute because of a small thing that can not be small, and finally end in a breakup.
At this time, many people will feel that it is a pity, how did two people who love each other so much come to this point?
Even they themselves regret a certain moment, regret that they didn't do something for each other in the first place, and regret that they didn't love each other a little more, that's exactly what they areRegret accumulates more and more in our heartsIn the end, it turned into a regret.
In the relationship, everyone really has regrets, but we can do a good job, instead of regretting, it is better for us to take the lead in doing a good job, some things are not so complicated,There is not so much unease in the relationshipPersonally, I feel that the so-called uneasy is nothing more than my own hindsight, and the ugly thing is that I pretend to be affectionate afterwards.
First of all, there are many campus loves, at the beginning, it must be a crush on one party, this crush will continue until graduation, after graduation, some people will not make their hearts public, they feel that it is too embarrassing to say it, or they want to bury this crush in their hearts to make it a permanent secret.
When I look back on it a few years later, I can't help but feel that this is really a beautiful memory of my youth, and at the same time, it is also a joy of youth, and one day in the future, when we recall it, we may feel regretful.
I regret that I didn't have the courage to express my mind at that time, and the other party didn't know my mind until the last moment, and kept thinking about what if the other party was also secretly in love with me, would it be able to achieve positive results?
Therefore, each of us at different ages, when we encounter different things, we will more or less have things that make us regretRegrets are inevitable, but we can reduce them.
The regrets left by youth when we were young, the regrets left by the changes in the world later, and then the regrets left by the passage of time later, the regrets left by things and people, all of them are in our hearts, and they will be recalled one day in the future.
Instead of constantly regretting it, it is better for us to do it ourselvesTry to leave no regrets in your life!