At the Spring Festival Gala in 1990, Zhao Benshan comforted a little girl from a mountain village in a kind deed. When the little girl took the stage, Zhao Benshan revealed her "true identity" in one sentence.
** is a little girl, the year they met, she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time. Unexpectedly, 33 years later, what Zhao Benshan said to *** came true.
What did Zhao Benshan say?**What kind of "true face" is hidden in this "folk song diva"?
In 1990, the 24-year-old *** appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, she was so nervous that she made frequent mistakes during rehearsals, and her mood was extremely low.
When Zhao Benshan was resting, he sensed that something was wrong, so he took the initiative to walk over to greet her, and handed his lunch box to ***, who was obviously hungry
Little sister, don't be nervous, let's eat this meal first. In the future, you will treat me as your big brother, and if you have any difficulties, just come to me!
Zhao Benshan used his humorous and generous words to bring comfort to *** who was on the verge of despair, and the two then had a long conversation, and ** gradually felt relaxed.
During the official performance, she regained her confidence and perfectly performed her famous work "Little Back Basket", which won thunderous applause from the audience. If it weren't for Zhao Benshan's encouragement, ** might have missed the turning point in life.
Since then, ** and Zhao Benshan have formed a friendly friendship like a master and apprentice.
** often invites Zhao Benshan to watch her new song singing, and Zhao Benshan will also show his sketch script to ***, they communicate with each other and learn from each other.
Zhao Benshan carefully instructed *** to impart valuable experience in performance skills and stage experience, teaching her how to enhance the stage appeal through expressions and movements, and how to deal with tension.
Under the careful guidance of Zhao Benshan, ** not only asked him for experience in sketch performance, but also her stage performance ability has been significantly improved, and she also realized the attitude and methods when dealing with new challenges.
Zhao Benshan is not only a good friend and mentor, but also a lifelong friend in her growth. It can be said that he played a guiding role in her growth.
In 2000, **'s career reached its peak, and she has become a household name. However, at that time, some people suspected that the reason why *** frequently appeared on the Spring Festival Gala was because someone was supporting her behind her.
**When his reputation was damaged and he was at a low ebb, Zhao Benshan stepped forward, held a press conference to clarify the truth, and strongly supported ***
Without hesitation, he said: "I can assert to everyone that ** has come to this stage completely with her own talent, and she deserves to be respected!."”
In an interview, Zhao Benshan said earnestly: "* will achieve greater achievements in the future, and her reputation will definitely far surpass that of my old brother." ”
At that time, no one took Zhao Benshan's words to heart, but it turned out that his prophecy was completely fulfilled. After retiring from the entertainment industry, she is still a well-known music superstar, and her brilliance far exceeds that of Zhao Benshan, who was still fighting back then.
**At the Spring Festival Gala in 2013, he ended his performance in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 24 consecutive years with the classic old song "Jasmine", and since then he has faded out of the public eye.
When asked by a reporter why he suddenly disappeared, ** replied with a smile: "As an old artist, I should stop in moderation and give up the opportunity to a new force." ”
**Choosing to leave is not out of dissatisfaction with the Spring Festival Gala stage, but to give latecomers a chance. She showed a rare bearing and did not regard the stage as an eternal reliance. This noble spirit is worth learning from every artist.
After quitting the entertainment industry, ** lived a low-key and peaceful life, and in occasional ***, the 57-year-old did not show any old age and was in good spirits.
** Chose a lifestyle that no longer runs around and toils, but focuses on activities such as reading, writing and going on outings, so as to enrich my life.
She interprets the philosophy of life of indifference to fame and fortune and contentment with her own life practice.
In fact, it is the two most important people who influence *** to form this attitude towards life.
Her father and her husband Luo Hao, these two people.
**'s singing talent was inherited from her father, who began to teach her to sing seriously once he discovered her talent.
From time to time, he took the time to sing a song to her, let *** imitate it, teach her the correct way to pronounce the sound, and help her polish her natural voice, even if her father was too busy to touch the ground.
**For fear that a tone would go out of tune and live up to her father's expectations, she obeyed her father's words. After joining the county opera troupe, she got up early every day and ran to the lake to practice her high notes.
The lake is deserted in the early morning, except for herons flying freely on the lake. Standing between the distant mountains and the lake, singing with affection, her loud singing alarm a flock of birds.
She knew that she was born in a remote mountainous area, and that in order to succeed in her singing career, she would have to work harder than the children in the city. Her father's expectations and the support of the people in the county became her undiscouraged motivation.
** Studying diligently, she soon became an indispensable support in the team, and the audience also cheered for her high-pitched singing voice.
The teacher saw her extraordinary talent and suggested that she go to Beijing ** University for Nationalities for further study. After receiving his father's full support, ** mustered up the courage to embark on the road north.
She keeps everything fresh and pays full attention to every lesson, for fear of missing the opportunity to listen carefully. Four years later, ** graduated with excellent grades and mastered a systematic knowledge of vocal theory.
She has grown into a true professional singer and is confident that she will be able to show her strength on a wider stage. After returning to the county seat.
All of this is thanks to the discovery and careful cultivation of the father, which has allowed *** to lay a solid foundation on the road of **.
In 1988, ** failed for the first time when he participated in the Young Singer Competition, and his spirit almost collapsed.
The news of the defeat reached her hometown, and her father immediately traveled to Beijing to visit her. He gently wiped away her tears with his big big hands, told her about his frustrations in her youth, and encouraged his daughter to persevere.
Seeing this, Luo Hao came to enlighten her and told her that failure is the mother of success, and as long as she remains optimistic, her dreams will not be shattered.
After listening to the encouragement of his father and Luo Hao, ** regained his strength and decided to devote himself to the competition again.
Two years later, she finally returned to competition and won the women's championship in one fell swoop, and when the relief of the boulder landing on the ground welled up in her heart, tears welled up in her face.
Luo Hao kept writing to *** during the preparation for the war to encourage him to persevere, and placed high expectations on him. They began to correspond frequently, and the relationship became more and more intimate.
Luo Hao plucked up the courage to confess to ***, and when he saw *** show his demeanor again, ** was also moved by his sincere feelings, and finally accepted his pursuit.
In 1992, ** tied the knot with Luo Hao, and after marriage, Luo Hao always fully supported her acting career, and never complained about her hard work in performing in other places all year round.
Every time Luo Hao returns from a tour, she will bring her favorite hometown specialties and have a long talk with her to alleviate the pain of missing.
Thanks to her husband's solid tree, she was able to show her brilliance on the stage without any worries.
Over the years, Luo Haomo has quietly played multiple roles such as husband, father and confidant. Whenever *** stayed up late to record a song, he always carefully helped her make a cup of hot tea.
In the studio, he only needs to cast a look, ** will feel calm, and then she can sing the version she is most satisfied with.
Once, ** worked for two weeks in a row, and as a result, his voice was hoarse for several days, and the whole person felt very tired.
Luo Hao immediately sought the advice of a vocal expert and took care of her daily life and diet to help her return to work as soon as possible. ** Say gratefully, "Honey, where would I go without you?".”
**'s career benefits from love, and her love has become richer because of her career. Today, she has become a well-known singer, but she has always maintained the enthusiasm and persistence she used to practice by the lake.
As long as *** can get encouragement from her husband and father, she will continue to shine on the path of singing.
** gave birth to her son Xiao Song in 2005, and originally planned to gradually withdraw from the stage, but due to her thriving career and voluntary performances, she was difficult to get out.
It wasn't until *** heard other children say "So you have a mother" at a parent-teacher meeting that her heart was stabbed hard.
Since then, ** has made a difficult choice - she withdrew from the Spring Festival Gala and chose to accompany her son to grow up. She gave up the peak moment of her career to devote herself to the role of mother.
Through her own choices, she gave a great definition to motherhood, and her story shocked all mothers and provoked deep reflection, because the child is the root of all the meaning of a mother's sacrifice.
** Her life is full of inspiration and touching, she warms the world with her singing voice and lights up her life with maternal love. At every turning point in her life, there are always kind people who accompany her and give help, which makes her feel immensely grateful.
Zhao Benshan opened the star journey with encouragement and lit up her life with friendship. The friendship between them spans time and inspires us to cherish every confidant around us.
The story tells us that worldly success cannot define a person, and that the true way to happiness lies in living each day well, simply and purely.