Couples in the world are divided and combined, some people talk about several relationships a year, and some people talk about one relationship for several years.
We always despise those "sea kings" and "queens of the sea", and envy those who can run from "school uniforms" to "wedding dresses" for long-distance love, perhaps it is their existence that makes people believe in the existence of love more.
But have you ever wondered why some intimacy has stood the test of time and some have collapsed, is it just because of love or something else?
Today we delve into the core of maintaining intimacy, revealing what is the key to keeping love fresh in intimate relationships, so as to help more people establish and maintain intimacy.
To find out why the intimacy is maintained, I asked a few couples around me who have been in a relationship for a long time. The answers they gave me varied, but they all mentioned two words:Commitment and co-frequency.
It is said that the power of promises in love should not be underestimated, and when you hear the promise of "I will be good to you for the rest of your life", there is no girl who will not be moved.
The power of commitment is not just words, but the courage to dare to make a commitment to build intimacy is due to our courage, and we cherish the courage of that commitment, and the decision to work together to work together is to justify that courage.
And being able to be at the same frequency is another magic weapon for couples to go on for a long time.
The same frequency means that couples think and act in sync, there is no barrier between us, we can talk without scruples, and we don't even need to communicate, just a look, I can understand what you mean.
Couples who have been in love for a long time tend to have a better understanding than those who have not been in love for a long time, perhaps because of their thinking at the same frequency.
Frequency and commitment are equally important, and they are the glue that holds the relationship together.
We often hear about the importance of communication and trust, but without a strong commitment and the same way of thinking, even the strongest bonds can be weakened.
Commitment and co-frequency may often be overlooked when we talk about love, but it is undeniable that they are essential in maintaining a relationship.
Commitment and co-frequency are the keys to long-lasting intimacy, and these principles can be applied to real-life relationships, whether you're in the early stages of a relationship or a partner you've been with for decades, and mastering the mysteries of intimacy can make a real difference in your relationship.
Even if you've been confused about not being able to build strong intimacy with the people you love the most, you can maintain long-lasting intimacy if you understand both of these methods. So, how do you start and even further develop intimacy?
The first step in commitment and co-frequency is to understand each other's needs, and in the initial interaction, people are more inclined to choose their new friends for their appetite, which requires a real understanding of each other's needs.
Once you want to connect with someone, start with something they're familiar with, such as a profession, a book they've read, or a game they enjoy. Starting with these things is easier to have a common topic, and then there is an opportunity to learn more.
Understanding the needs of the other person can start with mutual friends or the details of the encounter, and it is a good behavior to ask others or observe carefully.
In any relationship, gratitude has great power. Some people may ask, should partners also express their gratitude to each other?
The answer is yes, psychologists have shown that it is not enough to express love between partners, but also to express gratitude at the right time.
In everyday interactions as a couple, don't take what the other person does for granted, but appreciate it with gratitude. Expressing gratitude when necessary and letting them know that what you are doing is not unresponsive can further enhance intimacy.
It is possible to strengthen the frequency of communication between couples and maintain mutual trust through transparent communication. In open and honest communication, we can fully express each other's feelings and ideas to avoid misunderstandings.
And communicating in a timely manner means being able to have time to listen to each other, which is only the time that belongs to each other, so as to increase the understanding of each other, which is the best time to establish the same frequency thinking.
Communication also means being able to resolve problems with each other in a timely manner, checking in with each other regularly, listening actively, respecting each other's perspectives when conflicts arise, and resolving conflicts head-on with empathy and understanding.
Some anniversaries that are exclusive to couples can help to warm up intimacy. Celebrating an anniversary is a great way to reinforce your commitment, whether it's an anniversary, a birthday, or a personal achievement, and taking the time to celebrate together can strengthen your bond.
Establishing regular dating schedules can create shared experiences and memories that further solidify your relationship and help intimacy heat up.
All in all, the journey of a relationship is an ongoing one that is enriched by our commitment and strengthened by our daily actions.
No matter what kind of behavior you take, actively choosing to love and support each other every day is all about making our relationship stronger.
It is these little things in daily life that allow the understanding of love and the daily act of respect to weave into the fabric of a lasting happy relationship, allowing us to learn to love and know how to love.