In addition to buying New Year's goods during the Spring Festival, there is another difficult thing to do: send red envelopes...
It's not an exaggeration to say it's hard,...
Ever since I was sensible, my parents have been plagued by this problem....
I am an only child, and my relatives and friends have multiple children (at least two children in each family)...
I received twenty dollars, and they came up with forty dollars....(20 dollars per person)....
When my relatives and friends are gone, they always complain to me about "how much money have I lost this year"..."If I had known, I would have had more children"....
To be honest, I also feel that this situation is very "at a loss" for our family!
Before, I said half-jokingly, half-seriously, "How much money you give them, just let them get back as much as you want"? After listening to it, they always laughed and said, "You're still young, don't worry about those things"..."Adults don't care, children don't care"...
When I grew up, I realized that those things I didn't know were "called losses and blessings"? ...Every family has such parents?
Maybe it's because of the different generations, and the concepts are very different...
I really can't accept this notion that suffering is a blessing...
In my opinion, the New Year's money should be spent fairly, and the money should be the same as the money received...
In this way, no one will suffer, and no one will be lost....
Some netizens shared their experience of sending red envelopes in the comment area, which resonated with everyone....
Should red envelopes be sent? How much should I send? How to send it? How to keep the only child vs multiple children fair?
Give your answers in the comment section....