On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, I went to relatives, and my relatives married a foreign daughter-in-law, a girl from Glasgow, England. InLondonAfter living for 6 years, I returned to Japan for work and family reasons, and it has been 3 years. During this dinner, I found that this British daughter-in-law bears a striking resemblance to a Chinese girl. The Chinese style displayed between her demeanor and expression, and even the lazy appearance when holding chopsticks, are surprising. When joking between husband and wife, her pouting expression reveals a sense of intimacy similar to that of a Chinese girl. Although she was not by ChinaCultureIt changed completely, but after settling in China, her "Chinese hostess" temperament became more pronounced. Especially seeing their mixed-race children, not only are they beautiful, but their manners are also full of typical Chinese children's personality traits.
Extra: This British daughter-in-law is not only showing China in her daily lifeCulturealso learned to speak Chinese, albeit with a slightly stiff accent. Her efforts and integration are touching, and people can see different countries and differencesCultureharmony and communication between them. At relatives' homes, she greeted relatives and friends, and taught her children in a firm and gentle manner, like an iconic Chinese woman, showing tolerance and acceptance across borders.
The British daughter-in-law's mannerisms and the way she interacts with her relatives give the impression of a fusion of East and WestCultureunique charm. She is not pandering to the environment, but inadvertently showing a Chinese femininity in getting along with Chinese families. Her responsibility and meticulous care at home are impressive, and her interaction with her white husband is full of the tacit understanding and affection between Chinese couples.
Extra: Compared to her parents, the British daughter-in-law seems to be more like a representative of the Chinese girl, and the deep affection and affinity she shows in the Chinese family makes people feel warm. Her children are like that, tooCultureA vivid symbol of fusion, not only charming in appearance, but also with traditional Chinese mannerismsCultureThe imprint. This kindCultureThe scene of fusion makes people sigh at the commonality of human emotions and values, and the family and friendship that transcend national borders transcendsCultureThe estrangement shows the beauty and harmony of human nature.
This kind of foreign daughter-in-law taking root in China caused me to be differentCultureConvergent thinking. She is not assimilated, but on the basis of mutual respect, understanding and tolerance, she has absorbed and integrated Chinese styleCulturein certain qualities. Both in China and in the UKCultureWandering around, she shows that humanity is crossingCultureFantastic performance in interaction. Whether in family life or social interactions, the kind of peaceful coexistence that she exudes across borders is feltCultureThe beauty of the power of diversity and inclusion.
Additional expansion: People living in the context of globalization are affected differently by different countries and different countriesCultureDiversity and inclusion have become core values that need to be promoted in today's society. This British daughter-in-law is traditional with ChinaCultureThe integration is not simply imitation or assimilation, but finds a new way of life through exchange and mutual learning. She's not just amazingCultureThe wonder of integration has triggered the thinking of human emotion, cognition and communication, and evoked the rightCultureA deep reflection on the importance of identity and diversity and inclusion.