There are still ten days left to go until the Chinese New Year's Eve, and I have been busy cleaning the room for the past few days, and the diary has been stopped for a few days. Today is finally done, and I will record my day again.
There are only ten days to go before the Chinese New Year, but I haven't bought any New Year's goods yet.
I thought about buying melon seeds, peanuts and nuts, but I thought that last year I had stomach discomfort because I was greedy for melon seeds, and I took medicine for three months, and my desire to buy melon seeds this year is gone.
By the time I was 50, I didn't seem to have that much desire for many things.
After entering the wax moon, I bought five catties of beef, three catties of pork to make soy sauce meat, and I was going to buy a few bream, but my sister asked me to bring me four whites with a warped mouth, and I don't need to buy bream this time.
I still don't want to make sausages this year, my family likes to eat quinoa, sausage fried quinoa is a regular practice, I use bacon instead, it is also delicious.
Ever since my father left us with stomach cancer, I have broken my habit of eating pickles. Before, I liked to eat pickled artichokes, but now I don't eat them either.
Not only do I not eat it myself, but I also don't buy it at home. I often tell my family that fresh vegetables are alive and can help us kill viruses and bacteria.
We don't eat pickles in our family now. With this reason, I simply get a little bit of wax goods at the end of the year, and it is enough for my family to try them.
The weather is good these days, and the temperature is very suitable for doing things, unlike a few days ago, when it was a few degrees below zero, and I didn't dare to stretch out my hands.
Take advantage of the good weather to take out all the clothes and quilts that can be dried at home to see the sun. I'm in charge of drying, and my husband is in charge of cleaning up. Now, I don't do everything by myself like I used to, and my family just enjoys it.
I've learned to be lazy, and I'll tell my husband: You can put on the quilt, I still have something to do. He put on the quilt with a sigh, and I didn't forget to praise him: not bad.
This has to be put on hold, seeing him so grinding, my anger came in the morning, I will grab it and finish it myself, and I will not forget to count him in my mouth.
After the age of 50, I learned to look at my husband's strengths more, and learned to praise more and blame less. In this way, although my husband is unwilling to do it, it is not easy to refuse me. Hahaha, isn't that cool.
In the past, when it was almost the New Year, I would go to the street to buy a new set of clothes for my family and myself, which meant a new atmosphere for the new year.
But after the age of 50, the child's clothes have long been his own decision, and my husband's clothes don't need to be taken care of.
I don't want to buy my own clothes. The brand down jacket I bought at home last year was only worn a few times, and this year it is still very new, and I just bought a pair of pants not long ago, and I don't plan to add clothes for the New Year.
Yesterday, I went to Haoyu Garment with my sister to watch the down jacket exhibition, and I took a fancy to a down jacket, **very close to the people,**less than 10% of my down jacket, and I did not hesitate to include it in the ranks of new clothes.
This is the new clothes for the New Year this year, hahaha, I said I wouldn't buy it, but I still didn't hold back.
When I came back yesterday, I cleaned up the clothes in the cupboard, and I cleaned it once in the summer.
What I found out during this cleanup was to put the thinner clothes on the top of the cabinet and the thicker clothes in an easily accessible place.
There is no reduction in clothes, and a lot of clothes have not been worn last year.
I was ruthless, packing some clothes that were of good quality but outdated, and delivered them to the clothes ** box the next day, so that these clothes that had accompanied me could go to those who needed them.
Being able to give some help to those in need is also the meaning of the existence of goods.
After cleaning, the cabinet is obviously much fresher. After the age of 50, I have to clean the cabinet frequently, leaving only the items I need. I don't buy casually anymore, I only buy when I need to.
The phone fell last time, and the upper left corner of the screen was a little cracked, so I looked left and right, well, it can still be used.
My phone is an OPPO FindX3, the memory is 256GB, I used it for two years, except that sometimes the response is a little slow, the battery life is long, and the charging is fast. I like it very much.
My son called me a mobile phone killer, and a mobile phone rarely came into my hands for more than 2 years. Sometimes it's the screen breaking, sometimes it's the memory is insufficient, and more often it's because I always drop the phone.
I used to only like apples, but Apple's screen is too expensive. I remember that after the Apple X was thrown off the bed on the duty room, a screen cost me a thousand, and it was not the original screen.
From then on, I couldn't bear to say goodbye to Apple.
However, domestic mobile phones are doing well now, take my oppo as an example, it is very easy to use, and it can withstand my rough hands and feet, even if it falls, it is only a little cracked, not as fragile as Apple.
A little crack doesn't affect the use, I can tolerate it, well, I can't bear it. I'm determined not to buy a new phone, I'm going to break the two-year curse of using a phone.
After not buying a new mobile phone, I often clean up the **and** in the mobile phone, and don't use it as a mobile hard drive, not to mention, I also use this mobile phone with feelings.
After I didn't have much desire for material things, I not only saved money, but also avoided being exposed to these material things, and I also lived more easily.
Not being material**, it's not like I don't spend money anymore. I just spend my money where I'm willing to spend it. This year, I took the ** editing, writing courses, and learned to publish articles on multiple platforms on my own.
In the first half of this year, I want to learn **editing, I usually like to shoot**and**, and I have a lot of storage in my phone, and I am ready to clean up my phone after learning to edit.
In the process of learning, I edited the children's **, dubbed them on Xiaohongshu, and got hundreds of people's **. Although I didn't continue to insist later, I am no longer a novice in editing.
Learning to edit, so that my vision is broader, I used to look at the phone in the phone released by others**, I was so envious, I always want to master this skill myself.
Now, I've finally learned. After learning how to edit, I wanted to start writing again, which is my dream and what I have always been most interested in.
In March, I asked my colleague to help me register the first ***, but when I arrived in a new department, I needed to familiarize myself with the department's work process first, and I didn't write a word for more than three months.
I started writing my first article in mid-June, fumbled for editing it myself, and finally published it on ***. I posted the article on the circle of friends at the same time, and I also received praise and encouragement from my friends.
At that time, my wish was that by the end of the year, *** fans would exceed 1,000, and the number of views of each article would exceed four figures. These goals have already been met, and have even exceeded expectations.
In 2024, my goal is to have more than 5,000 followers and write at least three articles with 10+ thousand.
This year, I've added strength training to my regular workout. With age, muscle loss increases year by year, and muscle mass loss is one of the reasons for the high incidence of geriatric diseases.
We can't stop getting older, but we can stop muscle loss.
My son also signed me up for a gym class for the new year, and I want to keep exercising to the end.
Time flies so fast, a year passes in the blink of an eye, and the new year is coming soon. Although I no longer have much material desires, I am still full of love for life.
I can get older, I can get more wrinkles, but I don't stop learning to improve myself.
In my limited life, living my own wonderful life is my goal, and it is also my desire beyond material desires.