"Mao is not easy, do you borrow money from your friends? What if my friend doesn't pay it back? Once, the host asked Mao Buyi, and Mao Buyi replied: "Of course I borrowed it, and I don't have to pay back the money borrowed by my friend, because the money I lent to my friend is what I can afford, and I don't have to pay it back!" ”
Mao Buyi's lifelong dream is to become a superstar and become hugely rich, and the skill he wants to light up the most is to turn stones into gold.
What is he trying to make money for?
To send money and borrow money from friends, of course!
A host asked him: In addition to lending money to others, how else would you spend?
He said: I don't spend it, I make money every day, just to lend money to others!
Many netizens asked: "Teacher Mao, do you still lack friends?" I'm not here to borrow money from you, nor to eat, drink, and live, but to simply appreciate you as a person! ”
The reason why Mao is not easy to borrow money and don't have to pay it back is that on the one hand, he does earn a lot of money by singing, and he has the strength to lend it to his friends.
If a friend is particular about life and things, it is better to repay the money in time, if he does not pay it back, it will not have much impact on Mao Buyi's life, and of course it will not affect his mood and the friendship between the two parties.
But for most people, if the friend does not repay the money at the appointed time, it will not only make people depressed and aggrieved, but will even affect their life or business.
Some time ago, a singer named Jiang Peng complained about Sun Honglei: Affected by the epidemic, his bar couldn't hold on, and he asked the "best brother" Sun Honglei to borrow 1000w and was rejected.
Jiang Peng sighed: "I didn't borrow for nothing, I will give interest!" Alas......”
He revealed: He was desperate and could only mortgage the idle villa.
Seeing Jiang Peng's complaints, netizens were reluctant: "It's difficult for everyone these days, don't blame anyone for not borrowing, others don't owe you!" ”
Between people, no matter how close or close they are, once there is a financial exchange, once it is not handled well, it is easy to damage the relationship, and the original deep friendship will even break.
Mark Twain said, "Sacred friendships are strong and long-lasting, and often last the whole of one's life—if one does not ask for a loan!" ”
Writer Zhou Guoping's suggestion is: Really smart people should simply give money, and never lend money to others.
At the beginning of Yue Yunpeng's fame, Fa Xiao once found him in a hurry: "Brother Peng, my wife has a difficult birth child!" Can you lend me another 5w for emergency relief? ”
Yue Yunpeng called him 10,000 yuan: This is the breakup fee for our brothers, let's pull it down in this life!
Yue Yunpeng and Fa Xiao are good friends from childhood to adulthood.
Yue Yunpeng's family is poor. When he was in school, Fa Xiao was very good to him, and he shared anything delicious and delicious at home.
When Yue Yunpeng was bullied, Fa Xiao would also come forward.
Later, when he went to Beipiao, he met an unscrupulous boss, who not only deducted his salary, but also found an excuse to quit him. Yue Yunpeng didn't make a name for himself, and when he came back in a gloomy way, Fa Xiao rode his bicycle to the station to pick him up.
Later, Yue Yunpeng wanted to go to work again, but he couldn't even afford a ticket, so he gave him 100 yuan directly. Yue Yunpeng secretly vowed: If he is developed in the future, he will definitely share the blessings with this good brother.
Later, Yue Yunpeng became the first brother of Deyun. He took this friendship to heart and wanted to find an opportunity to repay the other party.
One day, Fa Xiao said to Yue Yunpeng: "Three children are going to school this year, the tuition fee is 10,000 yuan, and the money is relatively tight, can you ......!"
Without saying a word, he lent the money to Fa Xiao: "If it's not enough, tell me again!" ”
Since then, Fa Xiao has frequently borrowed money for various reasons, which has aroused Yue Yunpeng's suspicion: Is this guy playing with me?
Later, I found out that this guy is lazy and lazy, and he eats and drinks a lot every day except for playing cards.
Yue Yunpeng was very angry: "I treat you as a friend, but I didn't expect you to treat me as an ATM!" ”
When this friend made up lies again to borrow money from him, he patted the other party 10,000 yuan, pulled down his face and directly singled out: "This 10,000 yuan is given to you for nothing, you don't have to pay it back, we will end here in this life!" ”
Yue Yunpeng has a lot of annual income, but because of a mere 50,000 yuan, he took the initiative to cut off relations with Fa Xiao, it seems that he is picking on the door and not being close to people, but in fact his approach is very smart: to stop borrowing money is to save the other party and not give the other party a chance to continue to make mistakes.
It is difficult for ordinary people like us to borrow money, and they dare not lend money to others, even if they lend it, they can't do it like Mao Buyi "don't have to pay it back".
The best thing to do is to find a way to earn more money, save more money, make your family rich, and do your best not to borrow money.