Today is February 9th, which is also the 30th Chinese New Year's Eve of the lunar month, and I wish you all a happy Chinese New Year's Eve!
Everyone must have gone home for the New Year, but some people didn't go back, this is a more heart-wrenching reality, people who don't go home for the New Year, what do they think?
Maybe, they have no expectations for their hometown and relatives, and they know that it is better to rely on others than on themselves, saving the transportation costs on the road, saving the trouble of traffic jams, saving dispensable greetings, and saving false inquiries.
Where I am, most people go home for the New Year, and those who don't go home for the New Year are destined to be one in a hundred, and they don't want to participate in the trend of this era.
The shops on the street side of Lianliang Road in Hangzhou's Yuhang look like they are all closed shackles, no different from prisoners being shackled.
Hangzhou Lianliang Road frontage shop.
Hangzhou Lianliang Road frontage shop.
Locked. I discovered a reality: the city is just a place for migrant workers to stay together for a short time, stay here to earn money, and only then can they have face when they return home.
Therefore, most people who don't go back must not be able to earn enough money, and they are afraid that they will not be able to support it after they go back.
On the one hand, I went back for the New Year, and on the other hand, I hid in my own hut, which caused the emptiness of the city, and I had to be idle in the emptiness, just like people who didn't go home.
Empty escalators.
Empty seats.
Empty streets.
A sparsely populated street.
Every year, I'm afraid that's the case. The little cutie who can go home has already gone home, and the little baby who can't go back won't go out, stay in the house, and watch the wind and clouds.
At first glance, our big city of Hangzhou seems to be staging an empty city plan. But what about Sima Yiren? Maybe mixed in with these people who don't go home for the New Year.
That's not to say.
If you can go back, go back, and it's good to have a festive picture. The family is also looking forward to it, but some poor people are in a dilemma. What we value the most is face, every Spring Festival, people with face go back, and those who don't have face will act as Sima Yi.
Face is a special thing.
For example, after going back, the bad urging to get married, in the past, it was the right person, almost on the line, but now you have to consider the problem of face, this is the most important point in choosing a mate, there will be no girl who will like a man who can't stand the scene, a man in their eyes in addition to being a backer and an ornament, otherwise, they will not be happy.
Therefore, the people who don't go home now are also the people who live to be able to fill their faces in the future, which is a little sad, but in life, who is not a little like this? Then I found that most of them were unsatisfactory, they were too lonely, lonely as snow, so I still hope that they can receive more care and blessings.
Their world is completely quiet, and this tranquility belongs only to them, which is also gratifying.
In fact, in the current years, there is nothing too new, that is, drinking wine, eating meat, playing cards, bragging, watching fireworks, and going to relatives, the cycle is repeated, every year, and even more have to pay thousands of dollars for the New Year's money, and have to be asked like a prisoner, if the answer is not good, there will be boos, and if you don't pay attention, then you will be secretly talked about by the aunts, and this New Year will become a matter of weight. People who don't go home for the New Year may simply want to stay away from these rights and wrongs.
Drink. Firework. Everyone has an independent soul, and this soul will slowly grow with time and experience, disdainful before, now resist or accept, what you aspire to before, what you question and wander now, and the road of life is slowly coming step by step like this.
In fact, if you don't go home, you can also find the feeling of the New Year, as long as you can cook meals from your hometown, as long as you can decorate your room, as long as you are willing to share your life with your family, then not going back for the New Year is actually similar to having a distant relative, or going to the mother-in-law's home in the city, but the mother-in-law's family has no boys, then you are required to spend the New Year here.
Of course, there will always be bad points, there will always be less joy, it is better to be happy alone than to be happy, too much to be happy with the people, drunk can be happy with it, and awake can be described in the writer, that is too guarded.
Ouyang Xiu. Therefore, in fact, it is not a big deal whether you can go back or not, the key depends on the mentality.
Mindset determines action.
If you think it's worth it, you won't buy it, if you think it's suitable, you can try it, if you don't think it's suitable, then stay away, it's understandable, and finally it was discovered, our life is still a passerby after all, home is just a cost-effective station, cost-effective, there are more relatives and friends, and there are more people, and it will be like a congested vehicle on the Hubei Expressway.
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Today is Chinese New Year's Eve, I would like to congratulate all of you on a happy Chinese New Year's Eve, a happy family and a full moon!