If you're an average parent, there's no such thing as an excellent resource. With too many cultures, we don't know how to educate children, then we might as well. Encourage him more, recognize the child more, praise the child more, understand and support the child more. Don't transfer your cognitive anxiety, fear, anger, and grievances to your children, this is the best education for children. If the child is an ordinary person, then he will be happy, and if he is outstanding, then let him spread his wings and fly high. Accept the mediocrity of the child, just as the child never asks the parents how good it must be. Remember, don't blame your father for being poor, don't blame your brother for being filial, don't blame your wife for being bitter, don't be angry with your son, encourage together!
You have to remember those people who silently hugged you in the dark, who made you laugh, who chatted with you all night, who came to visit you in the car, who wandered around with you, who said that they missed you. It is these people who make up the warmth of your life, it is these warmth that keep you away from the haze, it is these warmth that make you a good person.
In fact, you don't like me, but when you were the loneliest, you met me, I know, in the days without me, you must be very happy, because you don't lack me, I like you, not because you, good looking or not, but you gave me a feeling that no one else can give me at a special time, I can't say ** good, but no one can replace it.
Do I have a choice? I don't have a choice, I also know that I can't make a fortune by working, I have no education. The second has no background, but at the very least, he can fill his stomach. People are at a low point.
Don't talk about any pattern, the first thing to talk about is the way to survive.
Few people will stop you on the way to depravity, but if you want to get ahead, there will be more people who will stop you. Never forget how they kept their distance from you when you were most helpless!
Life is becoming more and more realistic, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, no matter how good they smile, how well they play, and how well they speak, they are all illusions, and when interests knock on the door, they are all revealed.
Don't respond to other people's malice and negative energy, because once you respond, your energy will become entangled with it, and the deeper the entanglement, the easier it is to fall into anxiety and fear. Consume your attention and mental energy, so that you can't use your attention on the blade, can't do your most important thing, those negative thoughts in the brain, don't chew repeatedly, let these emotions and thoughts flow freely, what you have to do, quietly observe it, don't judge, don't let it stay, all malicious intentions as long as you don't respond, they will return the same way, all evil thoughts, as long as you don't participate, don't entangle, they will disappear by themselves, when you brush here, leave a sentence "I'm fine", All anxiety will disappear.
A very realistic passage to tell you a cruel truth, most of the smart people from the bottom are very sad. Because this kind of person has a clear mind, correct cognition, and lofty ideals and ambitions, but in reality they are powerless. They lack resources, lack of relationship background, and have no capital to try and make mistakes, once they make a mistake, they will be struggling to move forward, and they will even last for a long time and cannot turn over.
Live your life the way you want it to be, and live yourself as you like. The world is your own, it has nothing to do with other people, don't think about how to live, think more about how to live, it seems that you always care about other people's opinions, let yourself live very tired, even if there are too many disappointments in life, I hope you can try to accept it, and learn not to embarrass yourself, romance is not only poetry and distance, but also the grass and trees in this world. From early morning till dusk, I love you as ever".
I met because I had a debt to pay, I left because I paid it off, I didn't owe it in my previous life, I don't see it in this life, and when I see you in this life, I will definitely owe it. Origin, I saw you in the crowd; Fate is extinguished, I saw you in the crowd, if there is love in the passing years, your heart will bloom with the flowers, and if people are really cold, you will keep your heart warm.
There is a truth in psychology that you dare not imagine, that is, what you should do, as long as you do it steadily, you will definitely get positive feedback, most people's situation is, while doing doubtful and confrontational, do not mess up, things will develop in a good direction, in fact, to determine whether a thing can be done, depends on the strength of your beliefs, the more you believe in yourself, the closer you are to success, thinking more is all questions, doing more is all answers.
This passage calmed my anxiety.
I don't argue with people anymore because I'm starting to realize that everyone can only think from their own cognitive point of view, so if someone tells you that lemons are sweet, you just say to them: yes, then you eat more. You don't have to argue with others, because you have different cognitions and different angles, just be yourself, after all, in the world of crows, swans are also guilty. There is no need to argue about the same cognition, and there is no need to argue if the cognition is different. So when the mind is not at a level, respect is enough. The three views are not at the same level, just smile. Leave a sentence"I'm relieved"Motivate yourself, and inspire more people, to be able to reduce arguments, be kind to yourself, get rid of internal friction, and live a leisurely life in the days to come.